This is a an aspect of cold approach that I feel is severely under discussed though @Chase has written an amazing article on it here :
https://www.girlschase.com/content/picking-girls-and-game-asymmetric-returns
I think what has helped me progress this far with my journey with cold approach...
At least my intentions seem clearer, which makes girls know what I want without telling them. Lately, I've encountered this a lot more, especially from social circles. There might be other guys and million other reasons why she says this, but it's getting annoying.
So what do you guys respond...