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  1. Payload

    They always think I am an asshole at first - should I take it seriously?

    This goes for girls, but it is a pervasive pattern in my life. Everybody I get to know a bit better always tells me they think I am an asshole at first but think I am cool and easy to talk to when they get to know me better. Be it social circle, interviews etc. If I had to guess I'd rank myself...
  2. Calibration

    How to pull back from an interaction if I've pushed too much?

    Yet another post relating to texting lol Some of you here know that I'm not good at texting but the good news is, I think I'm improving... One of the big breakthrough for me to know that I was writing lengthy texts which came across very logical. Anyway, after @DoWhatWorks pointed out this, I...
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