i’ve got a couple of lays under my belt and i’m generally a confident guy in daygame scenarios. However, in night game, i become a bit more self conscious and tip toe around people. Even during texts, i know cognitively that flirty texts usually make girls excited and more invested (at least in...
In some situations where the girl is playfully resisting or challenging my frame, i tend to give up easily and pull back.
This ofc causes the girl to feel rejected/unwanted.
This is a major sticking point for me. Can i "train" assertiveness? And if so, how?
ON SELF-AMUSEMENT
I think I have understood self-amusement on a deeper level today. I would like to share my insights with you.
A LITTLE BIT OF HISTORY
I have learned about self-amusement concept from RSD's videos. And it seems I completely misunderstood it or it was just conveyed badly...