tension

Last Saturday Night – The Return of the Girl from the Past This Saturday, I went out with a friend to our usual bar. We know the vibe well, so I suggested we take it easy that night: no scanning the venue, no chasing. Just relax, enjoy a drink, and if the moment called for it, engage from a...

Hello! Moral/social/sexual tension makes me back down, capitulate or freeze. Rarely lie which I hate. Ex: Setting: Buffalo wings, I am seated at the bar. Waitress walk behind me. I call to her. She turns. I ask her a question and she responds. I’m thinking of her response(so I my eyes up and...

So my friend and I have been talking about different ways to handle the awkwardness that often pops up when you first approach girls. One approach is to show her that you are socially aware and acknowledge she/they are uncomfortable. You do this by saying: "Hey I realize this is a bit awkward...