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I'm walking in a shopping center when I see a very sexy blonde. I open indirect then I instantly notice that something is wrong with this girl. She seems sad so I make a natural transition by asking her if everything is okay, showing empathy. She tells me no but I understand that yes. I don't want to embarrass her so I continue the conversation, then ask again for a few minutes afterwards. She tells me that she just had a big argument with someone close to her. Anyway, she has to go to the cinema but I take her number to see her again. I think the emotional intelligence I demonstrated was a BIG DHV.
I plan a date another day at my usual restaurant (the waitress knows me and laughs every time she sees me with a new girl). The flirts are on point. She starts telling me about her toxic ex. I listen carefully to understand his personality as best as possible. I take her home without difficulty.
At home, I do my usual routine. I feel like I can already close it but something is wrong. She lets it happen but that's not the way I want to conclude. I like it when the girl asks me to sleep with her. So I talk about it and she tells me she's still hurt from her old relationship and needs time to open up. I reassure her as best I can, and also reframe her. I firmly tell her to stop victimizing himself and take responsibility. Finally, she opens up little by little and finally asks me if I have a condom...
I plan a date another day at my usual restaurant (the waitress knows me and laughs every time she sees me with a new girl). The flirts are on point. She starts telling me about her toxic ex. I listen carefully to understand his personality as best as possible. I take her home without difficulty.
At home, I do my usual routine. I feel like I can already close it but something is wrong. She lets it happen but that's not the way I want to conclude. I like it when the girl asks me to sleep with her. So I talk about it and she tells me she's still hurt from her old relationship and needs time to open up. I reassure her as best I can, and also reframe her. I firmly tell her to stop victimizing himself and take responsibility. Finally, she opens up little by little and finally asks me if I have a condom...
