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TLDR: This was "do not fuck up" green light game but I've added the techniques that made it smooth.
The momentum continues and I'm in a confident place where I will sleep with a girl *at least* x1 in every x4 I go out.
I love the efficiency because it means I can focus on other things then just go out when I want to get laid. Unlike online that gets distracting for me. I do want to start doing more daygame again though... Would love to get to a place where I get girls 100% from "offline" routes of daygame/nightgame but that's a future thing.
There's also no real reason for this apart from my ego if I'm being honest AND of course the quality difference.
My nightgame guide in my signature has my whole process so I'll just share the key elements that secured me this lay.
Day Momentum
The Night - "THURSDAY" is an underrated event
I keep saying this and no one listens lol. If you're based in London or NYC. There's an online dating app called "Thursday". They do singles events at bars. It's basically nightgame on easy mode because 99% of girls there are single and by the fact they're there - keen to meet guys. You get volume of online but quality of NG.
Ended up going to a rooftop bar with one of my favorite hyper-sociable wings. He's the reason I have a lot of fun and has featured in a few LR's like this one
Girl Options
Girl 1
Girl 2 (One I sleep with)
We then vibe and are playful. She's Australian so I cold read that she's from a certain area of London where they all live. She takes "offense" and I tease and say surprise me where do you live? It's South East London so then I tease her for probably having a gun in her purse hahahaha.
I end the interaction by saying, cool meeting I'm going to get a drink but I'll see you around...
Exploring the venue
I bounce of my wing. Smile and say hi to some girls. Don't really get any bites so I go back to the spot where I found the Swedish girl and my friend starts laughing. Saying "I'm on a mission" and everything's intentional. Lol it is. I joke back that I don't get laid by accident.
Girl 2 - Vibe & Pull
While staying put me and my friend get hit on by x2 girls who were not our type (and that's being polite). I'm friendly and have conversation but my friend switches off and turns away ahahahahha.
I then let the conversation die and spot the girl 2 and wave my hand to her in a come here motion and she obliges.
This was a very fun interaction and the tension was there from the get go as she was very close in my space and eye contact was strongggggggg.
"Good catholic girl.... Who's always on her knees"
Anyway at this point her x2 friends who she lived with said they were going to another bar and left her there. I had won over the group while at the bar by just being friendly and engaging everyone in the conversation. Her guy friend "Tom" was great and said he's a great guy and I'm like... I like this guy we've got a bromance.
I have a habit of collecting bromances with cool guys lol... The good energy is infectious.
My place/Sex
Final thoughts
I'll probably going to be out again tonight in my home turf which will be great fun
Onwards and upwards x
The momentum continues and I'm in a confident place where I will sleep with a girl *at least* x1 in every x4 I go out.
I love the efficiency because it means I can focus on other things then just go out when I want to get laid. Unlike online that gets distracting for me. I do want to start doing more daygame again though... Would love to get to a place where I get girls 100% from "offline" routes of daygame/nightgame but that's a future thing.
There's also no real reason for this apart from my ego if I'm being honest AND of course the quality difference.
My nightgame guide in my signature has my whole process so I'll just share the key elements that secured me this lay.
Day Momentum
I caught up with an old female friend/house mate in the afternoon. Had a lovely catch up, gave her some dating advice as she's struggling to keep a property businessman around after a ONS and follow up date. Interesting how hard dating is for girls but for different reasons. Also made an approach when out in a seating area but the girl had a boyfriend. I told my friend about my other female friend from here and she confirmed the girl probably likes me lol
Interviewing/hiring remote people for an agency I'm working on. Think this actually helped me get in a sociable mood talking to x2 strangers back to back. Hiring a guy who used to be active on this forum lol but if you're a killer social media manager looking for easy money on the side or someone who wants to make their first legit money online from remote work then hmu 
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.The Night - "THURSDAY" is an underrated event
I keep saying this and no one listens lol. If you're based in London or NYC. There's an online dating app called "Thursday". They do singles events at bars. It's basically nightgame on easy mode because 99% of girls there are single and by the fact they're there - keen to meet guys. You get volume of online but quality of NG.
Ended up going to a rooftop bar with one of my favorite hyper-sociable wings. He's the reason I have a lot of fun and has featured in a few LR's like this one
Grey cotton overcoat. Brown/beige jumper with a slim gold lightning pendant, denim blue jeans, white socks and white trainers
The event was *packed* and the queue had people who had waited 2 hours. We were late/cheeky and basically hovered near the front of the queue. My friend was getting worried but I said I'm confident we can push in. I started talking to 2 girls by saying "how long you been waiting for" and they were responsive but a little passive aggressive as one could tell what I was trying to do. I shrugged it off, laughed and said ahh "you read the play" lol. I then let a group of guys behind her move up then slotted myself in between the group of guys and another batch of girls walking to the front
Our actions did not go unnoticed lol. One of the bouncers pulled us to one side when we were about to go in and I thought ahhhhh here we go lol. He said I saw what you did and "I can't let you push in front of all these people". Me and my boy have been in these situations so many times and the best play is be super empathetic and humble. We basically said sorry, don't mean to be disrespectful, we just want to come here and have a good time. I completely understand you're just doing your job, but I think you're the only one who noticed... Can you turn a blind eye? There's slight tension then my friend says we've travelled from *out of town place that's 4 hours away* and that tips him over the edge and he agrees. My friend is such a good liar it's scary sometimes lol... He'd make a great fraudster but if I'm honest.... So would I lol
Girl Options
Girl 1
A blonde girl "bumps" into me almost as soon as I walk in. Asks me how my night's going then we start vibing. I tease her for the "accidental bump" and she confesses she just wanted to talk to me lol. Her game is terrible (I've found a lot of that at these events) and she basically interview questions me. How old are you, what do you do blah blah blah. She's cute though. I raise the vibe up by being playful with "guess what's my vibe say" and teasing her accent. Eventually I say I'm getting a drink and will be back but she auto-rejects and says "BYE THEN". These girls really aren't used to people with composure.
Girl 2 (One I sleep with)
So the queue is longgggggggg to get a drink. Things are uncomfortably tight and I make a bit of eye contact and say hello to girls but don't get many bites. I then spot a brunette/ginger girl with a 70's inspired dress, white trainers and a cast on her left leg lol. She sticks her tounge out at someone behind me and I take a mental note
I wait until we're closer together in the queue then say "I couldn't help but notice you stick your tongue out earlier... Who was it to?
We then vibe and are playful. She's Australian so I cold read that she's from a certain area of London where they all live. She takes "offense" and I tease and say surprise me where do you live? It's South East London so then I tease her for probably having a gun in her purse hahahaha.
I end the interaction by saying, cool meeting I'm going to get a drink but I'll see you around...
Exploring the venue
I bounce of my wing. Smile and say hi to some girls. Don't really get any bites so I go back to the spot where I found the Swedish girl and my friend starts laughing. Saying "I'm on a mission" and everything's intentional. Lol it is. I joke back that I don't get laid by accident.
Girl 2 - Vibe & Pull
While staying put me and my friend get hit on by x2 girls who were not our type (and that's being polite). I'm friendly and have conversation but my friend switches off and turns away ahahahahha.
I then let the conversation die and spot the girl 2 and wave my hand to her in a come here motion and she obliges.
This was a very fun interaction and the tension was there from the get go as she was very close in my space and eye contact was strongggggggg.
I tease her for being a "typical Australian" as she plays ozzy football. Also an "Alpha female" who normally intimidates guys and turns out I'm spot onnnnnn. She then calls me an "alpha male" to get back at me later but for anyone who's met me they know I'm not at all lol. Maybe sigma.
"Demonstrate Higher Value" by relaying the situation where I was hit on and how I was friendly and nice but didn't lead them on to think there was a chance but in comparison my friend basically ran away ahaha. We then laugh over girls getting free drinks etc. and how people can be weird
Back to back I see x2 girls I know who're animated to see me. I give them hugs and say hi but also politely end things quick as I don't want to lose momentum or allow for things to somehow mess up. The girl notices this and says "everybody knows you" and I downplay it lol
I mention how comfort, trust and attraction aren't dependent on time. It's the vibe/energy that you feel towards someone. You can know someone for years and it's a no but someone for 5 minutes and it's on
This girls was funnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn. I asked her about her pendant and it was "St Christopher" because she's a "good catholic girl" I laugh and say "good catholic girl" while looking her right in the eye and maintaining the tension. She says yes. and I'm like pfft terrible liar. At some point she says yes good catholic girl who's always on my knees... Praying!
"Good catholic girl.... Who's always on her knees"
Anyway at this point her x2 friends who she lived with said they were going to another bar and left her there. I had won over the group while at the bar by just being friendly and engaging everyone in the conversation. Her guy friend "Tom" was great and said he's a great guy and I'm like... I like this guy we've got a bromance.
I have a habit of collecting bromances with cool guys lol... The good energy is infectious.
I ask if her housemates ever had a thing and she said there's been tension and omg you see it too! She doesn't want it to happen as it will be awkward in her house but I laugh and say live and let live. Pinky promise me you won't cockblock them and let them have fun ahah.
At this point it's pretty much sealed and all I have to do is not fuck up. I baby step her to different places in the bar where she holds my hand. Then I plant the seed of trying a different bar and she enthusiastically agrees. Then we have a shot together and I say let's go. While outside I say we can either try different bars which I don't know or we can go back to my neighborhood. She says "up to you" so I book an uber. In the uber it's touchy/feely and almost couple like. Also deep dive her on why she moved to London, what she loves about it, sports she did as a child etc.
We approach the bar around 12:15. She's like I don't think we get in and I joke and say show your breasts and we have a shot. I know for a fact we won't get in but plausible deniability of "didn't get in" makes the interaction smoother. Instead I give her a lowkey romantic riverside walk back to my place and go through some of my favorite streets/neighborhood
My place/Sex
- Give her a quick tour of my place
- She has to unwrap her plastic cast lol and was almost limping ahahah what commitment to the cause. Her ankle was recovering from a fracture and almost healed but here she is trying to get dick... Outrageous
- We head to my room, she uses the bathroom, I play music, show her my essential oils and play a game where she tries to guess the fragrance
- Escalate and have sex - No LMR whatsoever
Final thoughts
- Cool and fun girl. Great kisser but her sex was surprisingly vanilla for a girl who had such a ferocious biting back flirting style
- She lives in a far part of London so probably not rotation territory but maybe it's a cool girl I keep sweet & invite her out to stuff? I like the idea of having a "cloud" of girls who I've slept with who I hang out with now and again with not much effort... We'll see
I'll probably going to be out again tonight in my home turf which will be great fun
Onwards and upwards x
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