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What a run Jan '22 has been. I'm now x7 new lays / 11 dates in January. x1 Daygame x2 Nightgame x4 Online
x2 of them was this weekend alone.
Feels as though I've cemented my medium/higher intermediate status as none of these lays have been "difficult" either. Although my new mindset is if an interaction/pursuit feels "difficult" you've probably missed a key escalation window or the girl isn't that into you and your time is better spent finding a new green light girl.
Anyway to make this as useful as possible this will be less of a FR and more of a summary of techniques as this could be applied to any girl.
Summary:
Context
The Girl:
Long haired brunette with a fringe haircut, black high heeled boots, tights, black skirt, brown sleveless top, and a leather red jacket.
She then accessorized with Aztec looking earrings and a small pendant turquoise chain. Her vibe was quite "airy fairy"
The Date (compression of x2 bars)
My place / Sex
Conclusion
January has been fun but I have bigger fish to fry. It's cool hitting a personal best of x7 in 1 month but now I'll shift to 1-2 consistent FB's while focusing on gym and biz.
I've deleted my dating apps so will continue with x1 weekly nightgame sessions and occasional daygame approaches then I'll probably hit it hard again in June '22 just in time for a fun Birthday in July.
Onwards and Upwards x
x2 of them was this weekend alone.
Feels as though I've cemented my medium/higher intermediate status as none of these lays have been "difficult" either. Although my new mindset is if an interaction/pursuit feels "difficult" you've probably missed a key escalation window or the girl isn't that into you and your time is better spent finding a new green light girl.
Anyway to make this as useful as possible this will be less of a FR and more of a summary of techniques as this could be applied to any girl.
Summary:
Context
- I get a girl's number from the new online app "Thursday". Our date get's pushed out twice because of external circumstances e.g. her getting covid and me travelling. The reason I continue with this girl is because she was always counter-proposing days and her replies were long and not blunt so I knew she was legit
- She proposes Saturday night so I know she's into it otherwise girls choose "off-peak" times. This is a good point to address the whole 1 date vs 2 date model. I do both and what makes me pick one over the other is her and my logistics. If you're on a mid week evening date and both of you have work in the morning 1 day makes sense. If it's a weekend and both of you aren't in a rush then you can push for same day. You do of course have to read the girl and sense check if she's feeling you or not
The Girl:
Long haired brunette with a fringe haircut, black high heeled boots, tights, black skirt, brown sleveless top, and a leather red jacket.
She then accessorized with Aztec looking earrings and a small pendant turquoise chain. Her vibe was quite "airy fairy"
The Date (compression of x2 bars)
- I choose a bar near where I live and on the date I read her vibe straight away and she's the intellectual / artsy archetype. As a result I run my usual stack of really deep diving the girl on: Childhood upbringing, How her friends describe her, how previous lovers describe her, what she does for fun, girl vs guy dating experience (sexual prizing of girl orgasms vs guys), what she loves, hates and excites her, how most guys are "meh", what she's into guys personality wise and how she thinks she's funny (which I validate her with later on as she's got a goofy endearing energy). We find common ground in both our mums being Muslim while our dads are Christian which is super niche, travelling solo and she opens up on how London is so large yet lonely.
- Can also tell she has hang ups about men so I frame my vibe to be a cool "safe pair of hands" by sharing my story of being hit on by a guy on the way to France and how I understood what it was like to be a girl so I'm extra sensitive to how someone feels around me. I'm overcautious and most the times me hooking up with a girl is her idea as I'm big on 0 pressure and enjoyable fun.
- She's also a "feminist" (yawn what western girl isn't these days?) and doesn't like the "patriarchy". Definitely running into more of these girls online. Anyway I describe myself as "centre" which I probably am. These kind of girls are opinionated and want guys who "have an opinion" and "care about the world". So I toe the line by saying the left is Naïve/idealistic and the right are hypocritical/disingenuous. Yes we need to look after people but we have to make sure we can afford it. Give her enough to show I'm informed in politics but little enough to not trigger anything. I then shift the topics to more interesting things like "What is her colour" and why. She's apparently red but can't give good reasons so I tease her on that. Again girls are emotional. Talking about colors is non-sensical but it makes sense based on her artsy leaning archetype.
- I pay for the 2 mocktails while she goes to the bathroom and then we go to a 2nd bar and get alcoholic cocktails. We were both hungover so started slow. In the second bar we vibe over music creation. I run my stack on how I REALLY love music. I listen to the layers and pick out what instruments build together to transfer a feeling and how amazing that really is. We finish drinks and I pull her to my place by saying I'll show her my favorite video of J.Cole making the Power Trip beat. She agrees and we walk to mine after splitting the bill
My place / Sex
- Very little resistance / LMR. Give her a quick tour of my house, I don't even show her the video before sex as she asks to listen to the song first "to get a better understanding of the artist" and things escalate while the music is playing
- While we strip down she says "I don't know how much I want to do tonight" and I say "it's cool I'm enjoying your company". She gives a big smile and sex is pretty much a done deal. This links back to my earlier mention of me being 0 pressure and that was just her way of confirming it.
- She was a good kisser but think we had meh sexual chemistry. Weirdly enough she seems really into it as she basically invited herself to stay over even after I offered her an uber home hahahahah. Weird how the game works. You can have incredible sex and a girl doesn't text you back then you can have middle of the road fun and the girl won't leave. Anyway.
- We have multiple rounds and she leaves in the morning and asks me to kiss her in public when I walk her to the main road outside my house.
Conclusion
January has been fun but I have bigger fish to fry. It's cool hitting a personal best of x7 in 1 month but now I'll shift to 1-2 consistent FB's while focusing on gym and biz.
I've deleted my dating apps so will continue with x1 weekly nightgame sessions and occasional daygame approaches then I'll probably hit it hard again in June '22 just in time for a fun Birthday in July.
Onwards and Upwards x
