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LR  #1 OMG I caaan't dooo thiiiiss :)

ray_zorse

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Fuckin' A, followed my process perfectly... after falling at the last hurdle multiple times... :) :) :)

We met 2 days ago outside the central station / shopping centre near the tram stop, her name is Elle. She was sitting there for a while while I did some other approaches. Then I came over. She's at the end of a bench. I stand beside her, so she only gets the side of my body. It goes like this.
Me: Hey, can you hear me? (actually I forgot I used this opener but she mentioned it today)
Her: (takes her earphone off)
Me: I couldn't help noticing your cute pink shoes, you look fabulous... you also have some coordination going (I indicate her pink phone case)
Her: ... (can't remember)
Me: I'll just sit down so we can talk... I'm Raymond (I touch her shoulder... I'm about to go round the other side of her)
Her: Elle (she moves over for me)
Me: Thanks... So it looks like you are just passing the time...
Her: I'm waiting for my friend... we are gonna see a movie
Me: Oh cool... Hunger games!
Her: haha Interstellar!
Me: Oh that sounds wicked, I've been planning to see that... (pause)
Me: I think you are Korean?
Her: Actually I'm Chinese! But I get called Korean a lot! hahaha
Me: Oh cool so what made you move to Melbourne, I guess you're a student.
Her: Yeah!
Me: Uhh... business!
Her: Nooo
Me: Health sciences
Her: hahaha I'm in Engineering
Me: Oh no way really? When I first studied Engineering... (I'm about to say there were hardly any girl students but it's changed now...bit boring anyway her friend arrives)
Her: this is my friend Raymond...this is Friend
Friend: hi...blah blah we shake, I ask her Chinese name, I say something about the movie or whatever
Her: so what kind of work do you do?
Me: I'm at the uni (I indicate vaguely)
Her: oh right which uni?
Me: Up there, [name of my uni]... how about you, where are you studying Engineering?
Her: [name of my uni]
Me: OK, that's it... we are gonna have to get a coffee sometime
Her: OK
Me: Put your number in here
Her: OK... she calls herself... game on.
Me: Cool enjoy the movie, see you
The thing I noticed about this interaction was she was instantly warm and friendly and engaged. Totally up for having been approached. Possibly she even saw me approaching other girls and thought "I wish he approaches me". I was panicking a little at the end cos I'd forgotten her name, was hoping she'd type it into the phone but she didn't. I decided it would be less embarrassing the sooner I sorted this out. So after I get back to the car about 20min later I text her like so:
Tue 14:35 Me: Beautiful tall not-Korean lady with pink shoes, I apologize that I did not catch your name properly when we introduced ourselves? Hope u return safely from your intergalactic adventure :) Raymond
Tue 14:39 Her: My name is Elle. It was nice meeting you :)
Tue 14:52 Me: Thanks :) I'm around the campus Thursday if that suits u to meet up, otherwise from next Tue :)
Wed 13:19 Her: Sorry about the late reply. Thursday afternoon sounds good to me. I'll be there around 3pm is it ok for you?
Wed 14:13 Me: cool i'll meet u outside my building, [building] (next to [library]) at 3pm we can get a takeaway and sit down s/where if weather is good
Wed 14:15 Her: Sweet. I'll see you tomorrow :)
I seek a little advice on forums and I plan out the date. I wait for her in the courtyard while helping my friend text some girl he met while out the previous night. I become a bit worried about my friend's presence so I say maybe I'd better wait for this girl by myself, he says sure and goes back in the building. I go into the library and thumb through some books, I start feeling very anxious and notice sweat patches under my arms. She's still not there (Thu 15:03) so I go back upstairs, reapply anti perspirant and change my shirt. This one is a lot tighter and pretty awesome, I just wasn't sure about the colour scheme. She texts me while I'm in the lift and I text back "coming".

I say hi, big smile, greet her with touch and kiss her on the cheek. I lead her down to the coffee shop. I let her order first. I'm totally nervous so I forget my usual process of sitting down somewhere, giving her $10 and having her go and get the drinks for us. She steps back and checks her phone, chick asks what I want and I automatically say "Thanks". I must be really nervous. Hopefully Elle didn't notice. I make a conscious effort to relax. Chick is probably thinking this guy is cute... he's so nervous.. you go guy, I'm rooting for you!! I order my coffee, I ask for a medium. We sit down outside. I'm starting to get my process together so I order her to sit in a certain place, notice there's a coffee spill in front of her, so I rotate the table and we're good. Coffee comes, mine is in a stein. It's huge. We laugh.

I suggest to her that her classes are finished for the semester. She says she's a postgrad, she doesn't have classes. But she's just finished. She will graduate next month. She has been in Aussie for 8 years... I say no way, I thought you were like 23~24 or something, she says yeah, I came here when I was in high school... wow I say, were you frightened? I ask her a bit about her hometown and life in China and stuff. We also talk about our mutual interest in languages (she can speak standard Mandarin, a local dialect, Korean and English)... It's going pretty well, not sexual or anything but she's sharing and I'm relating. I say
Me: So you're done here for the day then.
Her: Yeah
Me: It's such beautiful weather, let's go do something fun
Her: Yeah that sounds good, what can we do
Me: Let's go sit by the river, you know, near [square]
Her: OK! (we finish our coffees and chat a little more about nothing much... I get up)
Me: We may as well go by car, since it's gotten a little windy and I need to get my jacket from the car anyway
Her: OK
I escalate with some touch, lead her by the hand or whatever, we get to the car (it's a fair distance, we continue on the above topics), and get in. We drive down through the CBD and park. We buy a ticket, I suggest we stay about an hour but we'll get 1.5hrs so as not to be rushed. Fine. I have her take the ticket to the car and display it. We walk across a bridge, and I want to get a read on how much of a party girl she is, so I ask her as follows
Me: So if you go out do you drink a bit of beer or whatever?
Her: Yeah ohh sometimes... are you an expert drinker?
Me: Hahaha not really, but I bet I could drink you under the table
Her: Haha
Me: Let's go shot for shot...
Her: Haha nooo!
Me: Yeah, we'd better not, in case you get me drunk and take advantage of me
Her: Hahaha
Me: So anyway...(change the topic)
We walk through a bit of parkland, a beer festival or something that hasn't started yet, and eventually get down to the river. I have her sit on a bench so we can look out over the river and see the rowing crews etc. Incidentally, directly opposite is the boathouse where I got married. A distant memory! Hahahaha it was a sick wedding (250 people spastic drunk and picnicking by the river) but I would have been totally mindblown had I been able to see into the future up to this day. I ponder the irony briefly.

By this stage we are touching shoulders and leaning in to each other, I have her teach me some Chinese and I order her to give me her hand, I can't really think of a good reason but I caress it for a while and eventually comment on her nail polish. She asks if I want some. I say only the kind of guy who can rock a pink shirt can rock lilac nail polish and get away with it... eventually it turns out she's also wearing a jade bangle and this gives us some mileage too. I cuddle her. We sit like this for a while. However, I can feel it's starting to get stale. I don't want to make the same mistake as I did last week with Moonface, so I decide to change it up a bit. We're talking about her Permanent Residency application. I tell her we'll find out whether she's really Australian enough for PR, and I have her come over to the edge of the water. I suddenly scoop her up in my arms and tell her I'm gonna throw her in the water and if she can swim to the other side then she's Aussie. Hahahaha she laps it up. "OOOhhhh nooooo I cannot swiiiiimmmm!!!!" laughing all the while. I put her down again. We go back to the bench and cuddle again with a lot more warmth, it's not stale anymore.

She at some point has asked whether I'm married and indicated the rings on my left hand. I say I have 17 wives but I couldn't fit 17 rings on. Before she can ask for further and better particulars I say hey, it's pretty cold now isn't it (this makes little sense but it is kinda windy)... in that case I can wear my rings on my other hand... I move them over. I mention that my right fingers are a bit bigger, so much so, that when I go swimming I put the rings there to stop them falling off. I then change the subject. Haha.

Now things are looking pretty much in the bag, so I consider skipping some steps and trying to pull her home. But I decide it's too early to use the excuse of cooking food (it's like 4:45pm), it's probably also instinct that tells me she's a bit shy/conservative, and is gonna need a little more warming up to get her to the right point. I decide to follow my process with a slight modification to suit the situation. It goes like this:
Me: Hey you see those swans down there... they're black swans, they're native to Australia... do you have swans in China?
Her: Umm no I don't think so
Me: But you have water birds...hey I'm pretty sure there are ducks in Peking, anyhow
Her: Hahaha
Me: Anyway it's getting a little windy here, let's go somewhere else to watch the sunset
Her: Yeah whereabouts?
Me: The Botanical Gardens, you can see some more swans there... also the lake is pretty shallow, so when I throw you in you can touch the bottom
Her: Hahaha okay
We go there, with a couple wrong turns, I ask a policeman for directions and she gets out the GPS and we figure it out. As we enter the gardens I check out the map and I look for the most secluded spot I can find. I suggest we go visit the lily pond. Yep. On the way the following fragment occurs
Me: I'm a little concerned about your shoes
Her: Oh really why?
Me: Because they're noiseless (she's wearing sneakers... I'm wearing my new boots, they're clicking on the path)
Her: ...?
Me: You'll be able to sneak up behind me and tie me up
Her: Hahaha! What are we saayyyinngg!! Haha!
Actually we are only about halfway there when I lead her off the path into a by-path which has some extra trees and plants and stuff to look at. As soon as we cannot be seen from the main path or the street, we stop, and I pull her in to me.
Me: Look at me.
Her: ...
Me: I just hug her for a bit and wait for the tension to build
Her: meets my eye briefly and looks down
Her: starts to touch my jacket... I put her hand inside my jacket and build a little more tension
Her: giggles, what are yooouu doiiing?
Me: Look at me.
Her: ...
Me: I start to caress her side
(I hear people talking on the main path, but they cannot easily see us)
Her: Aren't we going to the lily pond?
Me: I tilt her head up and kiss her
Her: ... (she responds, tentatively)
Me: ... (I break it off almost immediately)
Me: (sexy purr) Let's go to the lily pond...
When we get to the lily pond we sit down on the grass. We start to establish an emotional connection. I deep dive her about her family, her situation is pretty similar to mine and I relate. Her dad is a bit emotionally distant, he works a lot, she connects more with her mum, we both establish that if we need support we call our mum, but we don't like to worry her about stuff so it's a dilemma... she sounds a bit sad. I make a joke about if I want to establish a connection with my dad I have to do all the work, but dads make pretty good pets if properly fed and cared for. She laughs. I share some stories about my mum helping me with stuff over the phone, like her mum does. Etc. Eventually she suggests we keep going. I make it my idea "I was just thinking the same thing... you're a mind reader" because actually I was. We decide to walk around the rest of the park and back to the car. While we are doing this I have the following conversation with her
Her: Where are we?
Me: Oh don't worry, after you've seduced another 5 Aussie guys you will know these gardens very well
Her: Yeah
Her: ...
Her: OMG what did I just say... I was just going uh huh and not thinking!!! hahaha what are you saying!! you are so mean! hahaha (she's lapping it up, I'm throwing in more and more obvious frames as a game cos she loves it)
She starts saying stuff like how she was surprised and happy when I came over and asked "can you hear me?"... then it goes into dangerous territory, she's asking about my cold approach habits. I start to qualify her.
Me: Put it this way, you've been in Aussie for 8 years right
Her: Yes
Me: And how many close friends did you make in that time
Her: Umm..ohh uhh erm about 4
Me: Right so each two years you've met one person who has become important in your life
Her: Oh um yeah
Me: Hmm.... so how could you speed that up?
Her: Ohhh... so you mean... (she thinks about this) uhh you are the guy that brings people together
(this wasn't quite what I meant, ohh it's getting too complicated, I don't want to pursue this)
Me: Oh hey we just walked past a gazebo back there, someone came into the gardens at night and burnt it to the ground... such a shame, it's been rebuilt now (actually, as I realize later, it was the toilets... but no mind)
Her: Ohh blah blah
I remember she wanted the toilet and fortunately we've come to a part of the gardens I know, so I take her there. We continue our anti clockwise loop of the gardens but we have to get the GPS out, it's getting a bit colder and I'm jack of the gardens. We're about halfway back to the car when I say this
Me: I'm getting hungry, what about you
Her: Yeah I am starting to get a little hungry (she had had yum cha that day as I'd established earlier)
Me: Soo can you cook?
Her: Ohh sorta I'm not that good
Me: Right so we have to teach you vocabulary (this is a running joke as she didn't understand Interstellar that well, too much talk about hypo-blah-blah warp drives and whatnot), swimming, and now cooking... okay...
Her: Haha! you are so mean! I am not expert at everything!!
Me: Let's go cook some food
Her: Ohh really where do you mean
Me: I'll take you somewhere with a kitchen
Her: (doesn't object)
Me: Yeah so anyway blah blah
On the drive home I'm holding hands with her and alternately feeling up her inner thigh, she's teaching me more Chinese as we sit in a fair bit of peak hour traffic, and she's doing the gears for me, so I can keep feeling up her leg. She has recently got her licence, but only for an automatic car, so she needs to learn about this. She's good at it. She' s an engineer :) At some point she asks where we are going. I just gaze mysteriously into the traffic and squeeze her hand. Eventually we get to the shopping street about 2/3 of the way home. I say something like
Me: I grew up in this area... my mum used to take me down to the shops just here in the pram
Her: Pram... oh yeah I know what you mean, like a baby carriage
Me: Yeah... so we'll stop and get some ingredients to cook. You can eat pizza?
Her: So where are weee goooiinnng?
Me: ... (squeezes her hand again)
Me: Have you ever made dumplings?
Her: Ohh yeah
Me: It's kind of like that, just kneading etc... you'll be good at it
We park and go into the shops. I have her choose and pay for the beer while I go get the ingredients and pay for them. We're on the home stretch now. It's about another 10~15 mins drive to home, I have her put some music on and we discuss it. As I pull into the street I say "I apologize that I had a party, I have just finished the cleaning up and there's a couple of things I haven't done yet"... House is tidy compared with 24 hours ago (looked like a bomb hit it) but floor's a bit embarrassing. We come in and she admires my DJing setup. We put her music on again. It's really good.

We go into the kitchen and I have her make the pizza dough. I show her the bathroom so she can wash her hands and begin to escalate physically a little. She does the entire food preparation, while I put the rubbish out and some other tasks, periodically giving her orders. She's kneading the dough and I say
Me: That feels quite firm right?
Her: No it's pretty soft actually (this is a good sign... we used enough water... it won't need to rise much before kneading)
Me: Ohh right but you prefer firm things I am sure
Her: ...
Her: So are you just going to watch
Me: Oh no I'll go in the other room if you prefer
Her: Haha!
Me: Actually there is some kneading I need to do
(I begin feeling her up while she kneads the dough... I massage her back a little and go on to her stomach, lightly graze her pussy etc)
I turn on the oven, cover the dough with a tea towel, grab her around the waist and start backing her into the lounge. She's like what are you doooiiinng?? Haha. I'm rocking my new sexy purr and whispering stuff like "you are so fucking sexy, you are making me very turned on" in her ear and so forth.

So we start to make out on the bed but she's super nervous. I didn't expeeeect thiiiss!! giggle!! Each time we start to kiss or make out she's having a lot of trouble focusing and going into nervous giggles and withdrawing, it's kind of like when you try to touch a ticklish person (actually she is very ticklish, but that's not the reason it's just cognitive overload). I say to her...
Me: Unbutton my shirt
Her: Ohh I can't dooo thisss!!!
Me: Just play with my nipples.
Her: I caaaann't!
Me: (sexy purr) You are making me so fucking turned on, I will be real disappointed if my nipples don't get played with
Her: ...
Me: Try to really relax
Her: I caaann't... I caaann't doooo thisss!!! haahahaha
Me: You are feeling a little nervous right
Her: Uhh huh
Me: Well remember when we were looking out over the river and I asked you what you were thinking about
Her: Yeah I remember
Me: And you said "nothing, I'm just relaxing and enjoying it"
Her: Yeah I did
Me: Well I was super nervous at that time... so you helped me relax and now we will help each other
Her: Okay...
Me: (Resumes escalation... she's much more chilled now. With some gentle humping and kissing and nibbling ears etc she starts panting and moaning... I'm in!)
I take it real slow, lots of foreplay to get her in state. I'm only semi but getting hard at times, gradually get down to the panties.

She looks so hot with her tight little body and sexy underwear, it feels fantastic too. Her tits are small and delicious. Her hair is so sexy and disheveled.

I have her undress me, she's still like "ohh I can't dooo thisss!" whenever her cognitive facilities kick in, but this gets less and less. I have her play with me a bit and get a condom on. It's a slow process getting it in and I don't have any lube... It's difficult maintaining my erection but as I get more and more inside I'm able to give longer and longer strokes and it's all working. Yeah!

Oh man, she lets go and we go at it hard... she's in ecstasy... she's fucking loving it. I'm saying stuff like (sexy purr) "yeaahhh....ride that dick....that's it....that's it...." and she's looking questioning at my dirty talk and I'm like "you know you want it....". She does. I drill her with the eye contact while we're fucking and drawl lazily "Ohh, you can't, huh?". She's getting there. "Go... go... come on my dick... etc" (thanks Lao che). I think she gets there. She looks so happy and satisfied. Then I flip her over and fuck her real slow and deep until I get there too. After we recover we cuddle for a long time. She's like "OMG what have I just doooonee... I didn't expeeect this" and I'm like "Just occasionally for one day it's good to totally let go..." and she's like yeah. Awesome. I say I really liked the soundtrack (at a certain point in the fucking the perfect song came on, just slow and intimate). I throw in another chase frame just for fun, "is this what you normally listen to for fucking?" hahaha.

She then makes the pizza per my orders whilst I mop the floors. We build a fire and drink a little beer and cider. We end up slow dancing to her music. After 5~10min of this I go pull the pizza out of the oven. Then I come back, turn off the room lights, and rock out some UV and lights that change colour to the beat... she says "OMG your house is a total party house...", I reply (sexy voice) "I want to party... and I want to party with you..." (thanks Chase). We slow dance and grind to Chinese love songs.

The fire is totally hot (almost as hot as her). We move the mattress back a little, eat some pizza and resume making out. When I eventually get to the pussy she's like OMG really? I say "something different"... she's bamboozled by this. Now this is where the compliance really starts to pay for itself. I'm getting her pants and stuff off again, she's resisting a little and I'm just firmly ordering her to get them off, and taking them off. So then I start to kiss her inner thighs and so on, and she's really going no. I guess she thinks that being eaten out is somehow dirty or whatnot. So I just proceed, break for a little kissing, get those panties off, head back down, I have to push her back on the bed a few times as she sits up and starts to protest.

I eat her for quite a while, it's hard to talk but I'm saying stuff like "yumm"... "so tasty"... "your pussy is so hot and wet"... "I'm gonna eat your clit like a lollipop" and moaning a bit... and she's defo moaning and grinding against me (and pacing me with her hands so I'm not overstimulating her at the peak of the sensation) but eventually she really wants to stop, and I feel that I may be overstimulating her (remember she's ticklish) and so I come up again. She says in a real surprised voice "thanks for doing that!?"... I say "no I want to do it... your pussy is so delicious"... she is bamboozled by this too. I finger her for some time but same thing. So we give it a break and just cuddle a lot and get some deep kissing in.

I realize I've been focussing so totally on her clit that I've neglected the penetration side of things, so I get some fingers in there while stimulating her clit with the fleshy base of my thumb... and.. and.. yep, she loves it. Eventually I get her off. The expression on her face is to die for. I end up with juices all over my hand and bed etc...

Now it's her turn, I order her to play with me. She still looks totally fucking sexy with her hair a mess, eyes wide, just playing with my cock in wonderment, as if it was the most fascinating toy ever invented... I want to come. But I want to come on her face. I say (sexy purr again) "have you ever tasted dick before..." and she's like OMG OMG... this puts her off her stroke but I continue ordering her to suck my dick, she's super reluctant. I bring her in close and kiss her and then I lick her nose with the tip of my tongue... just like that I say... just the tip of your tongue... she's like noooo.... I can't... and I'm super firm. Just do it. Taste my dick. Now. She then discovers precum and is even more amazed. She comes down and tentatively licks my frenulum. The feeling is to die for. I tell her that's the most sensitive spot... she is fucking magic... et cetera... she continues a bit, however, I feel her boundaries have been expanded enough for the time being, so I tell her she can resume the handjob (actually she hasn't stopped).

Now she says am I going to keep doing this until you come... and I say "if you want, or would you prefer to be fucked?"... I don't want to come again in the same hole, so when she opts for the handjob I'm down. I get super hard but I'm overstimulated and I don't get there, I have her change hands and then give her a rest. Whatevs. We then give each other sensual massages by the fire, eat a little more pizza, talk, etc... I teach her the word "thwack" and I try to look it up in the Russian dictionary since I don't have an English dictionary handy... she becomes convinced that I am Russian, as she's been trying to figure out my origins all night. Hahahaha.

She later discovers that I have a son. She's like aaare youuu marriiiieeed really?? Ohhh noooo Oh my God... I show her my left hand with no rings (since they're on my right hand) and say do I look married? I don't tell her one way or the other. Later she says she will need to get home eventually. I say we can get you home. She says when, and I say when you want... super non needy. Okay... so we eventually get dressed and I drive her home, it's actually not too far from mine (inner Northern suburbs). Apparently she lives alone too. This is good. On the way I have her listen to an Australian band and she seems to really like it. We also discuss the movie "Gone girl"... and how crazy the wife is. I decide to stir things up and I say "like my wife"... hahaha she's like Ohh noo again... but I decide to throw her a bone and I tell her seriously I'm not in a relationship. I mean I know it's good to be mysterious and all, but I feel like I shouldn't torture her, she deserves some kindness/self respect for having put out.

As we say goodbye I resist the temptation to summarize my own feelings (how delighted I am), I have tried to be pretty blase about stuff, like it's no real big deal having a hot Chinese chick in my bed. At one stage in front of the fire after sex I've said I feel really good. As we've got in the car I've said I'll sleep well tonight. And of course I've repeatedly accused her of being sexy, having sexy eyes and so on. But other than that I've been pretty chilled. I say "judging by the amount of laughter you had a good time" and she agrees. I cup her face in my hands and give her some really delicate goodbye kisses. We wave each other off and I drive away thinking fuck yeah!!
 

TheGoldenBoy

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Re: LR #1 OMG I caaan't dooo thiiiiss :)

Nice job! I especially liked your persistance. You found that middle ground between compliance and insistence with allowed you to either slow down or aurge the interaction forward. I look forward to more of your exploits :)
 

RDawg

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Re: LR #1 OMG I caaan't dooo thiiiiss :)

- Ray

Awesome job buddy! That was a great report ;) Nice job with the "chase frames" and "dominance" throughout the interaction. She was really feeling you throughout this report ;)

Keep em coming buddy!

- Rdawg
 

lao che

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Re: LR #1 OMG I caaan't dooo thiiiiss :)

great job! good read, start to finish.

surprised and delighted at the honorary mention


,-)
 

Smith

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Re: LR #1 OMG I caaan't dooo thiiiiss :)

Congrats bro ;) You led all the way to the bedroom.
 

Aries

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Re: LR #1 OMG I caaan't dooo thiiiiss :)

Ray

Nice job man!
One of the many reports to come I suppose ;-)

- Ares
 

Mr.Rob

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Re: LR #1 OMG I caaan't dooo thiiiiss :)

Dude this is awesome Ray, that first cold approach lay is the sweetest shit in the whole world, you feel as if you'll never have approach anxiety or get rejected again... and then you go pimp it the next day and get destroyed hahahaha.

ray_zorse said:
Me: So if you go out do you drink a bit of beer or whatever?
Her: Yeah ohh sometimes... are you an expert drinker?
Me: Hahaha not really, but I bet I could drink you under the table
Her: Haha
Me: Let's go shot for shot...
Her: Haha nooo!
Me: Yeah, we'd better not, in case you get me drunk and take advantage of me
Her: Hahaha
Me: So anyway...(change the topic)
well done with the chase frame and then changing topics at the exact right moment here.

Also good job kissing her in public and having it go well. I've had mixed success with kissing girls in public or in places before getting to a proper place to bed them. I had a Chinese girl that I picked up in Key West that I kissed in public that freaked out when I tried to pull her to a sex location.
I'd be careful here as described in Chase's article on kissing in public. Usually when I've done it in the past and had it go good is when the girl is so into you that it probably won't make a huge difference unless you do something weird to fuck it up.

Overall I didn't get a chance to read everything but looks solid. I didn't realize you were so sexually confident for being a newbie Ray. Whispering dirty shit in girls ears and whatnot you sly dog ;).

Keep it pimpin, pimpin

-Rob
 

snipefield

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Re: LR #1 OMG I caaan't dooo thiiiiss :)

Ray!

Congratulations!!! Reminds me of Chase's article Does Confidence = Success? No, PROCESS equals success. You followed that to a T. I will without doubt be going back to this report in the future. Really appreciate the detailed description and commend you for recognizing the need to take her to a couple of places to get her to warmed up to sex.

Same with deciding to make pizza on a whim. True sign of dominance and leadership (seems you knew that her kneading pizza dough would be conducive to a transition to sex). Lots to learn from you, mate!

Congrats again, and I enjoyed the rave journal entry, too.
 

ray_zorse

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Re: LR #1 OMG I caaan't dooo thiiiiss :)

Thanks for all the props dudes. And no, I haven't rocked out any dirty talk in the past, Lao che put me onto it (another honorable mention :) ) that they really need permission to get their rocks off... it's a kind of frame control, by setting the script I know that we're on the same page, and they're not thinking other shit. Nor have I been all that sexually confident, I have had sex with quite a few women, but mainly from a position of scarcity... however, once I got a bit of dominance going, the rest just flowed naturally really.

I messaged her the following day
Fri 09:27 Me: Elle hon, I had a wonderful time with you yesterday, I hope I didn't keep you up too late ;)
No response, which isn't a great sign. Generally when they don't respond to the icebreaker it's a sinking ship, but I don't have experience with the post-sex text. I think what I might do is ring her up in the coming days and offer a bit of plausible deniability (sounds ridiculous I know)... suggest we get together to exchange music or some such BS. However, if she picks up my call I'll be fairly surprised. Whatevs. I did some more approaches today, when I'm feeling needy then I know it's time to get out there and pimp it.

cheers, Ray
 

Mr.Rob

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Re: LR #1 OMG I caaan't dooo thiiiiss :)

ray_zorse said:
when I'm feeling needy then I know it's time to get out there and pimp it.
You got it ;)

Funny how hard it is when your needy your minds like "I just really want THIS girl!"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kIaivFWG5Ro Lol this is how I see my mind when I get needy... just replace Cartman crying about being fat with you getting super attached to one girl before she does. Lol
 

ray_zorse

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Re: LR #1 OMG I caaan't dooo thiiiiss :)

So after a week I left her a voicemail...
Me: (strong voice) hey Elle it's Raymond! ... I hope you didn't think me rude for not contacting you in a long while, just had a lot of shit on. (transition to a huskier voice) Give me a call when you can... ookay.. bye!
This may sound a little beta but actually I thought about it quite carefully, if I'd said "sorry for not calling" it would be supplicating but this was more of an acknowledgement. I did it this way so I could indirectly reference the sex "hey the sex was great and BTW I didn't just use you as a receptacle and dump you" is the kinda subtext I was aiming for, and I also set it up a bit like a chase frame (I am the desirable one; she would be upset if I didn't call). Hmm well I dunno.

Flaked. Haha. Forced myself to do some solid approaching though and got some more numbers. Onwards & outwards!

cheers, Rau
 

lao che

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Re: LR #1 OMG I caaan't dooo thiiiiss :)

this is weird. i've never had this before, just stone-cold silence after i've fucked a girl. she didn't even respond to your day-after text. best guess would be extreme buyer's remorse. but that doesn't make sense in the context of the rest of the pick up. maybe she had a boyfriend who she'd fought with and you were a quick revenge fuck. i've definitely got a girl like that in my 'rotation'. i never speak to her at all but now and then she'll come over to fuck. hmmm, but even then i always message afterwards and always get a home safe, good to see you message

wish i could offer some words of advice here, other than - halt all contact until


good luck. onwards and upwards
 
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Raqimus

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Re: LR #1 OMG I caaan't dooo thiiiiss :)

Haven't been here much but its great to see you got your first LR up :)
Good shit ray, the leading and dominance are def key oh and the process!
I'll def be taking notes.
 
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