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- Aug 28, 2013
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(1) I'd like to have a successful PUA (not sure what we call ourselves here) review my profile. If that's you, and could spare a few minutes, could you please PM me? I would really appreciate it. I like cute, quirky, nerdy girls, so tried to create a profile that targets them. I'm also quirky and nerdy myself, so tried to convey that to screen out women won't be into that.
(2) I'm a bit confused as to where my VAC levels are? I just had one woman write a novel to me (in response to a very short message of mine) and tell me that I'm very handsome (never got that compliment before) but expressed concern about me being a DJ (maybe I should not even mention it in my profile but just leave the photo up for intrigue). And there are women who write very little and getting them to talk about themselves is like pulling teeth, and sometimes stop replying in the middle of our conversation (including one girl who favorited me). Best-case scenario is that they're auto-rejecting. Worst-case is that I'm interesting but not attractive enough. Need to troubleshoot how I come across so I can fix my issue. Also been reviewing my messages in case they are needy/try-hard...but I'm also trying to balance rewarding their effort...while with minimal effort.
I thought getting the number online was supposed to be easy once they respond to your first message!!
(2) I'm a bit confused as to where my VAC levels are? I just had one woman write a novel to me (in response to a very short message of mine) and tell me that I'm very handsome (never got that compliment before) but expressed concern about me being a DJ (maybe I should not even mention it in my profile but just leave the photo up for intrigue). And there are women who write very little and getting them to talk about themselves is like pulling teeth, and sometimes stop replying in the middle of our conversation (including one girl who favorited me). Best-case scenario is that they're auto-rejecting. Worst-case is that I'm interesting but not attractive enough. Need to troubleshoot how I come across so I can fix my issue. Also been reviewing my messages in case they are needy/try-hard...but I'm also trying to balance rewarding their effort...while with minimal effort.
I thought getting the number online was supposed to be easy once they respond to your first message!!
