FR 10/10 Blonde French Girl

[Desert Eagle]

As per my new goals, I decided to get out in unfamiliar territory once and for all. Too often I've been stuck in warm environments, rarely ever meeting new people. I can't even remember my last cold approach.

So, I decided to go to this event being held by the International Students at our school. It took me a lot of effort just to convince myself to go inside (I circled the building twice). I know a guy that's a part of the program, so I saw him and paid him a hello. Didn't want to get sucked into a group mentality, so I left and then they started a flag ceremony.

A bunch of different countries waved their flags on a stage and walked around. Near the end this blond girl in a tight black dress and black stockings walks up. Every single guy in the room has his eyes on her, thinking to himself, "God, this girl is hot," with some guys audibly cheering and others lightly clapping on the side.

I, too, thought she was hot. One of the hottest girls I've ever seen.

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I start walking around after the flag ceremony to check out some booths and one thing is clear. These girls are cute as fuck. Korean girls and Japanese girls make up the majority of the people there, and hell there was a good selection of cuteness about.

I walk past the American booth (boring...) and right next to it happens to be... you guessed it, the French booth. There's an older lady there that I start talking to, then the French10 comes up to work at the booth. She looks at me and I look at her and we smile at each other.

Me: What do you have here?
Her: Want some food?
Me: What is it?
Her: *inaudible through her accent*
Me: Huh? *I lean in* (Note: in the future, get her leaning in!)
Her: Oh! It's crepes!
older lady hands me some flyers on travel abroad
Her: What do you want on it? We have blah blah blah.
Me: Can't I have it all? (Bad attempt at flirting, more on this below)
Her: *laughs and looks down* Well...
Me: I'll just have that though

Yes, I know, lame interaction. I could justify that by saying it's my first cold approach in ages, which is probably why I wasn't thinking about taking the conversation anywhere meaningful. It's not like I was feeling nervous with her.. Actually she was more nervous than me. As she prepared the crepe she kept apologizing to me, telling me that they were so unprepared, etc etc.

Failed to ask any follow up questions or expand the conversation any further. But I did succeed in going out and trying something novel, as well as talked to the hottest girl I've seen without really being nervous. Just wasn't thinking on improving my conversation skills, so all that came out of me was small talk.

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After that interaction I walked over to a German girl, but didn't have much of an interaction with her besides her explaining the foods she had with me awkwardly telling her I didn't really want any of it. Lol, whoops.

I wanted to talk to some asian girls but damn. They were in these giant circles and I was burnt out after forcing myself to go in there and forcing myself to engage in a few awkward encounters. Figured half-ass approaching a bunch of cute girls I was likely to bump into again wasn't worth it.

Lessons learned: Go into social situation with conversation goals (deep diving, social interaction). Get involved with international students, because they are some of the highest quality girls on campus and offer a different, interesting perspective on life. Luckily, I already know the world languages department head and he likes me a lot, so I can probably attend some events of his.

 

[theemann31]

Nice Report, 50 Cal (Desert Eagle reference). I'm kinda in the same boat as you at times, I feel I'm not being social enough at times even though I'm the most social person in my group of friends.

For instance, a few days ago, my friends and I went to an Apple Cider mill and the girl behind the counter was very attractive. My friends ordered there cider then instead of deep diving the girl like I normally would... I didn't, I wasn't nervous, I just didn't. I think I might have been the only one out of my friends who made eye contact with her though, just no convo.

Best thing I can recommend to you is to do what I have started doing now, which is to flirt and deep dive with every female you came into contact with. For instance, I had a problem with my bank account and called them up, then just ended up lightly flirting and attempting to deep dive the female representative. I had a problem with my Amazon order and heavily flirted and deep dove Melanie, my sweet Filipino representative in Seattle. I always talk to the girl behind the front counter (especially the ugly ones) when I enter campus housing and deep dive them on their day or their major and just be playful (even at 1 am when they aren't really feeling it.) I know it makes them happy when a sexy guy with strong fundamentals plays with them.

I think that's what we both need to do right now, but it's awesome that your'e going out alone to do this, that's really tough to do and I admire your dedication and audacity to achieving your dreams (girls blush and eat genuine compliments like that up by the way).

As per your interaction, personally, I would have asked the girl which food was her favorite and then asked why then played off of that information and worked in a light sexual reference or tease her on how she can eat that food but still retain her "lovely figure" or deep dove her on her past with French food "You seem well versed with French food... where did you learn so much?" then genuinely complimented her on something there and touch her somewhere and hold it... then moved to her major or life in France or something then try to relate and move on to something else (like her passion for traveling in Europe). That's what I would have done if I were you. Same thing with the German girl, just do it, it's fun.

Just take it one step at a time, the whole interaction can seem so overwhelming (my thought process: cute girl- i must deep dive and grab number- and flirt- and compliment- and tease- blah blah this requires too much effort *leave*). So just take it a step at a time, kinda like when your'e working out, you want to do 4 sets but tell yourself you'll do 3 then...just...1...more!!! To convince yourself to get it all done.

But chu got it Bruh! Happy socializing and keep posting
-Josh