10 Lays in 365 days, by Mak

[MaK]

His Main Objective: Obtain his first 10 Lays in the next 365 days.

His Background: Being inspired by his recent success, a high school student named MaK has decided to embark on a quest to get his first 10 lays in 365 days or less.

Just 6 months ago, our hero had gotten his first hug from a girl ...after months of work. But recently our hero has had a major breakthrough, after months of desperation and a seemingly endless void of stagnation, he made out with 3 girls in the span of 2 weeks, seemingly effortlessly.

Spurred on by his recent accomplishments, and driven by the great wells of ambition that these accomplishments have unearthed, MaK has set out on a journey. And a grand journey it shall be...

He will succeed by:
- Exercising, eating healthy, and sleeping at least 8 hours, every day.
- Meditating and visualizing 15-30 minutes just about every day.
- Continuously improving his Fundamentals/Vibe
- Going out 3-5 days a week once he has a car
- Analyzing his relevant interactions to improve his "game" and to develop his process.
- Using this journal to keep himself accountable
- ?

This journal will be updated at least twice a week, every day once MaK has a car.

*This post will be edited as needed
** The rest of the journal will be written in 1st person

 

[Ryan]

10 lays within a year for a beginner? that's pretty ambitious.. Best of luck to you though! I'll be following your journal

 

[MaK]

Yep, it is ambitious! Thats why I'm doing it!

Before I started kissing girls, I read an article about naturals and chase said "many of my natural friends had taken between 10 and 30 girls to bed before graduating high school", I was filled with jealousy and rage. Now that I got a taste of success(pun), I finally have the motivation to go for what I was jealous of, and I am confident I will succeed.

DAY 1

Summary: Came back to school after a long break and I had to kinda recalibrate because it's been so long. It was a pretty weird day. It was cold as hell so it was hard to concentrate on moving anything forward while outside (where most of my HS interactions take place). I also had some weird emotional feelings today, probably from too many sad Freddie Mercury songs, after listening to the songs my throat got tight and it was hard to talk for a while. Today I mainly got recalibrated with HS, and I am on track for the all my "He will succeed by" things except the Meditation/Visualization(I'll do that right when I get home from now on), so overall a solid first day!

One very important thing I learned is that when I feel %100 comfortable with myself and my abilities my voice and my speech comes out very resonant and confident, I must remember to keep the thoughts about myself focused on how great I am and how I will succeed.

Tomorrow I will remember to focus on moving things forward with the ladies, and keeping a positive frame of mind.

Unfortunately, things probably won't get too exciting until I get my car in a few weeks




Full Detail:

One of the girls that I was kissing is still trying to be my girlfriend, during the break I started liking her less and less, I thought she was feeling the same way but I guess it was just me. Today she got me a kinda crappy Christmas present and I didn't really thank her for it, but I probably should have shown some appreciation (reward all investment!). She was rude to me a few times (and apparently on her period), trying to command me to follow her or something, the first time I just went along but the second time I just didn't follow and she ended up coming back to where I was. What I SHOULD have done is to immediately deconstruct and take control of the situation to find a good result for both of us, I will remember to do this next time. She has family issues and I'm trying to get her to be able to go out alone with me (we already went out a few times, but with her parent approved friends). I'll probably just keep her in my orbit for now and see if the family situation improves, tomorrow I'll try to start making out with her again to get into practice again. Overall, I'm not excited about her anymore but she is good for practice and she might surprise me.

After going to a class while singing a happy Freddie Mercury song, I noticed that some girl that I am normally VERY nervious about (I was infatuated with her like 4 years ago..old times). But I wasn't nervous at all! And my voice came out very well, while normally in these situations I would have to force it out. I think it's because I've been beginning to accept myself more and becoming more proud of myself and not being afraid of showing myself and my interests (thank Freddie Mercury lol).

Another girl I'm trying to do things with, I am currently running the Zphinx Type HS Game(TM) with her. When I noticed her today she said that I am started to walk weird again (it took me a week to fix it last time), this coupled with a random unfortunate event that happened to me 10 minutes before made me feel bad and disappointed. According to the Chase man, shame is the second most attractive emotion to see on a man's face, so I guess it didn't do too much damage . These day it seems like all I have is Happiness, Pride, Shame, and occasional boredom. Anyway, I decided to tease her about something she was wearing but it came off as kinda an insult because of my lack of calibration and my sapped mental energy and because I was pretty sad at the moment. Near the end, she said I looked like a model (woooo, I got great fundamentals!) and then I asked if I was walking normally again.... the answer was no....and I left...ashamed.... :C

At class I sat next to this group of girls, one started a conversation about me deciding to sit there. I could tell that I was a bit rusty after not talking to girls for 2 weeks, I didn't really know what to say and I felt kinda lost, but everything came out fine. I made a few good low-energy jokes, but largely just sat there in shame/sadness while my teacher went on about some god forsaken story about his youth.

I had to go to the office because my school messed up my scheduale, a nice looking girl whom I suspect was attracted to me sat near me. At this point, I was too engrossed with my Freddie Mercury music and too intimidated by my social rustiness, and I didn't talk to her, next time I will!!! I listened to this really sad song by Mercury about how lonely Mercury was, even with all of his fame and sex parties, and how his lifestyle lead to him dying too soon, and while still lonely. I had a strong emotional reaction and my throat got tight and my voice weak, I largely recovered by next class.

In the next class there is this girl I really like so far, I have reason to believe she likes me too, but its mostly circumstantial evidence (lol), so far we have only exchanged pleasantries a few times. I will use the Zphix HS game on this lucky lady, but today I was exhausted and disturbed by the days events, so I decided to ride out the last class of the day in style, by studying. I should start working on her tomorrow, I WILL start tomorrow.

At home, I did some stuff to get me the car sooner, and I stayed up late writing this long ass journal



Thing to remember:
- NEVER listen to sad Freddie Mercury songs about his ironically lonely life and death unless you wanna be depressed for an hour
-reward all investment, even if you don't wanna
-if a girl tries to assert dominance or there is a conflict, I must take control of the situation and find a win-win-win resolution
- teasing =/= insulting
-The mind set of "Everything I do is right" really helps my voice and energy, I will instill this belief more and more as I go on.
-Once one gets to the point of mental exhaustion, one must push himself further, for that is how one improves the fastest.
- Tomorrow I must start moving things forward with every girl I can every time I can
- Start writing your journal earlier so I actually have time for that 8 hours of sleep!
- Do Meditation/Visualization right when I get home so I have time


At this rate, I'll have a whole novel by the end of the year.... looking for a publisher

May tomorrow bring more success!

 

[MaK]

I decided that worrying about my grammar would not be conducive to my success because worrying about grammar makes me not want to write journals, so I will need to sacrifice my grammar at the altar of seduction. After all, this journal is for personal growth, not legibility.


DAY 2

Summary: For all intents and purposes, today was pretty much the same situation as yesterday, but with substantial improvements on my end, albeit not revolutionary improvements. I worked on the girls that I was around, I was making out with the girl that wants me as a boyfriend, she still isn't allowed to go out alone though... Another girl I was getting flirty and touchy with and probably could have successfully asked out or pulled in to cement a romantic relationship with a kiss perhaps?, but alas I did not, next time I will do better and take advantage when an opportunity presents itself! I didn't focus on getting that car as much as I should have today, but no damage was done to the timeline.

My voice was better, didn't listen to sad music, I did visualization/meditation and I think it helped....


Details:

I talked to the girl I accidentally insulted, nice interaction with flirty smiles going both ways, I naturally and genuinely complimented her twice to make up for any auto-rejection from the "insult", based on our experiences I highly doubt she would see me as a "nice guy" anyway. There were people bothering us so that made it more difficult than usual to ask her out, when lunch ended and we walked I didn't exactly lead her as well as I should have, but this might be unavoidable because she was with a friend. After her friend left we had a few moments together, she wanted me to fist-bump with her, and I used that to get some good touching going, but looking back I SHOULD have used the opportunity to pull her in, maybe kiss her? I'm not sure how she would react. I'll ask her out tomorrow even if we just have a few moments together, as long as she has been investing in the interaction and enjoying herself and the interaction is sexual/flirty that should be good enough for me to ask her out. Usually when we are together she is with friends so I have a dilemma of whether I should make a move or not, she might react less favorably because the social setting, and plus her friends (mostly male, some orbiters) might be disruptive. Overall, she was responding quite well to me today and I should have asked her out, we still had good progress and I'll ask her out very soon. When we were alone and going to class we stopped and she said "I don't want to go to class" and after doing some touching I said I have to get to class and told her to have a good day, I may have just missed an escalation window right here, oooohh nooo, I need to grow some balls and I need to think faster and be more decisive.

I spent too much time on this girl, even by HS Game standards, and I made quite a few mistakes starting out, so if I don't get a date by the end of this week I'll start seeing her less, and if by the end of next week she's till not dating me I'll never see her again.


Things to Remember
-When interacting with girls, always be leading toward the desired outcome and when an opportunity (escalation window) presents itself, I must act with boldness and precision
-Work toward car, because with the car comes the most opportunity for girls via cold approach

Tomorrow Will Bring More Personal Growth!

 

[Smurf]

Hey MaK!

Great to see another High Schooler on the boards! I am as well so I feel like I'll be looking at this journal often

Your goal seems reasonable as long as you apply yourself!

I can feel with you trying to talk to girls when you're at school. It's hard for a couple reasons: because people may try and interrupt the conversation you're having (The cuter the girl, the more this will potentially happen) and it's much harder to isolate and escalate with her. So you're on the right track trying to ask her out.

What sucks is trying to cut contact completely with girls in high school, and one of the highest disadvantages. It'll seem off if you completely stop talking to her, so try and gradually talk to her less and give her less warm responses.

Great to see you starting up, MaK!

Jake.

 

[MaK]

Yo Jake, thanks for the support!

So far cutting contact hasn't been too much of a problem for me yet because I met most of these girls during my lunch which has more than a thousand students, and I've been mostly a nomad in this school anyway.

But I'm trying to get a few girls in my classes now, so I'm going to need to be careful with them!



DAY 2-5

Summary: I've attained two valuable realizations in these past days. Most importantly, I've discovered a "limiting belief" that has been sabotaging both my progress and my happiness, it dates back to my early childhood and had made me sabotage myself in trying to do what is most important to me, and made me have a lot of doubt, and made me less confident in general. Basically, unfortunate event that occurred during my childhood caused me to develop a negative mindset about achieving my goals because when I was a child, my attempts to reach the goals I highly valued often lead to ridicule and humiliation. I feel like eliminating this belief will have a major impact on my personal progress, and so far, it has.

I also had the realization that I have been greatly neglecting my "game", while instead focusing on my fundamentals and vibe, the results were rather embarrassing and may have cost me 1 (or 2?) girls. Recently my game was wildly inconsistent, using a lot of investment/compliance with some girls while completely neglecting it with others, showing lots of value to some and none to others, not good!

But now that I am aware of these problems, they will be handled quickly and deftly, my limiting belief is already pretty much gone.

In other news, my voice is almost perfect, my walk is almost fixed (permanently this time!), my desktop background is now a Vision Board, my obtaining of a car is progressing smoothly.

Them Details: So that girl that I was kissing was being horrible. A large chunk of it was my "fault", I stopped getting investment after the break, and when she was upset and withholding I was like "omg what's wrong?" instead of ignoring her until she decided to be more productive. She is a emotionally broken person and I've been seeing more and more of this side of her recently, although it was obviously there from the beginning. When I think about her I feel disgusted, because of the negative and emotionally abusive way she has been treating me, and of course, because of my mistakes with her and the fact that I spent time with her in the first place. I'm not going to spend any more time with her.

That girl I said I would asked out by the end of the week, I did. She said that she has to ask her mom if she can see me... I think she was telling the truth because I've heard from some of her friends that her mom is strict like that. This is also the girl that I forgot to get compliance with, I actually got some negative compliance, I will be improving upon this. I've made a lot of mistakes with this girl, and I took way too long to make these mistakes! If we don't go out, all my ships will be scuttled and I will start anew, with no existing relationships with girls, either way these next few weeks will be exciting!

I started with both of these girls long before I had my first breakthrough and started kissing/making out with girls. So while that means these girls got me a lot of experience and helped me level up, it also means that the precedent I set with these girls is far below par for what I am now capable of.


Things I Shall Remember

- Remember Value , Investment-Compliance, and Attainability all day, every day, every time
- NEVER EVER Reward bad behavior with attention! NEVER EVER! IT AIN'T CLEVER!, just be bored until she becomes more productive
- Meditation is useful for uncovering and correcting faulty mindsets
-don't stay up late writing journals

 

[MaK]

Day 5-23

Mak is bak!

I never really left though.... so few things happen in a single day that it usually doesn't feel important enough to post.

Summary: Over the past 2 weeks I've cut contact with all the girls that were not giving me results, and the one girl who was kissing me but being rude. At first, I felt lost because it had been a long time since I met new girls, after a week of mindlessly bumping around school I've started talking to a whole new slew of girls. Many promising leads.

More importantly, I am very close to my car, once I get it its game on


Those Details

A lot of my interactions have been when I am walking to and from class, meeting girls this way was new to me and its a race against time! I will work on making these interactions running more smoothly and to always be leading to the desired objective.

A girl who's been looking at me all year, I started a conversation with in the hallways with the trusty "Complain about the weather" opener. It worked surprisingly well, over the last 2 days, we talked while in the hallway for less than 2 min altogether and I managed to exchange names, get investment, have relatability, complimented her on her weather prediction skills, and I managed to move her! I also rewarded her for moving with me right after, which will make her more apt to take my lead in the future.

Also, there been girls that I barely know who have been starting conversations with me in the hallways and many of them seem promising, but I need to learn how to get more good interactions in the small amount of time we have in the hallways.

I believe I have internalized enough game for now, and I should focus on getting more interactions and being more bold and forthright in my interactions. I will, of course, be mentally reviewing these interactions after they occur.

ReMeMbEr:
- Start conversations with girls whenever possible
- Always have an end goal for the interactions, and always be heading towards that goal
- Don't be afraid of taking a risk, actually it don't matter if I feel fear, I need to do it anyway