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Yes, you read that right, a date that only lasted 10 minutes, I think I still have a chance, but need advice, seems like a complicated situation.
Met this girl a while ago, asked for her insta since she lived on my floor, not thinking much of it, although she was pretty attractive.
2 days ago I was waiting for a food order, and she walked in, happened to work there. She took a second to remember me, then remembered me and my name, a good sign imo. I struck up a convo with her when she was unoccupied from taking orders, talking with her about a variety of things, such as our experiences in college, our weekend activites(she doesn’t go out much while I do a bit more) and travel. Ultimately, I told her about the outdoor lounge at our place, to which she seemed curious about, so I invited her to study with me there.
Tried to get her out there yesterday and today, finally got her to come down today, since she wasn’t busy.
Made some small talk, asked her about halloweekend, she told me that she got cheated on this weekend, she was reluctant to tell me, I told her she could tell me whatever, expecting something completely different.
I gave her my condolences in a more monotone way and offered a hug, which she declined.
She also had to submit an assignment, so she was doing that as well.
I told her tounge in cheek “you have to talk to other guys now to make him jealous” to which she replied no I’m just tryna focus on my studies I’m just done with him.
I asked her “if you met a super cool guy” you wouldn’t even entertain it she misheard me and said “he was a cool guy” I asked her the question again and she heard me and said “yeah sure.”
At this point, the vibe hadn’t been really built up, I thought that there wasn’t really a point in this, and I thought how do I keep getting women out who aren’t open to being seduced? Anyways I persist, since I have her out in front of me.
She also mentioned she had a class soon, which she had to leave for in a few minutes, but she would be open to meeting me again.
I asked her about halloweekend, but this time to show me her costume, to which I replied “aww that’s cute.”
After this, I upped the flirty vibe by asking her to show me her nails, then gently but firmly grabbing her hands to inspect.
I joked about how I thought those nails were real, and that I wanted those nails, to which she found very funny, and the vibe was brought back up to a more flirty and fun. We started talking about jewelry, to which I did the same with her bracelet.
She told me the necklace she was wearing was her roommates, I told her “ahhh you stole it then.” To which she also found funny, and then I told her the significance behind my jewelry.
Unfortunately she had to go right after this, I thought if I had built up a vibe more I could invite her over tn might be soon for that.
Texted her that it was nice to see her again, lmk if you wanna hang/study soon.
Who here has experience seducing a girl that just got cheated on, and can anyone give me advice?
At first, the date did not have a good vibe, but I built the vibe up that it was left on more of a high note, rather than a somber one.
Met this girl a while ago, asked for her insta since she lived on my floor, not thinking much of it, although she was pretty attractive.
2 days ago I was waiting for a food order, and she walked in, happened to work there. She took a second to remember me, then remembered me and my name, a good sign imo. I struck up a convo with her when she was unoccupied from taking orders, talking with her about a variety of things, such as our experiences in college, our weekend activites(she doesn’t go out much while I do a bit more) and travel. Ultimately, I told her about the outdoor lounge at our place, to which she seemed curious about, so I invited her to study with me there.
Tried to get her out there yesterday and today, finally got her to come down today, since she wasn’t busy.
Made some small talk, asked her about halloweekend, she told me that she got cheated on this weekend, she was reluctant to tell me, I told her she could tell me whatever, expecting something completely different.
I gave her my condolences in a more monotone way and offered a hug, which she declined.
She also had to submit an assignment, so she was doing that as well.
I told her tounge in cheek “you have to talk to other guys now to make him jealous” to which she replied no I’m just tryna focus on my studies I’m just done with him.
I asked her “if you met a super cool guy” you wouldn’t even entertain it she misheard me and said “he was a cool guy” I asked her the question again and she heard me and said “yeah sure.”
At this point, the vibe hadn’t been really built up, I thought that there wasn’t really a point in this, and I thought how do I keep getting women out who aren’t open to being seduced? Anyways I persist, since I have her out in front of me.
She also mentioned she had a class soon, which she had to leave for in a few minutes, but she would be open to meeting me again.
I asked her about halloweekend, but this time to show me her costume, to which I replied “aww that’s cute.”
After this, I upped the flirty vibe by asking her to show me her nails, then gently but firmly grabbing her hands to inspect.
I joked about how I thought those nails were real, and that I wanted those nails, to which she found very funny, and the vibe was brought back up to a more flirty and fun. We started talking about jewelry, to which I did the same with her bracelet.
She told me the necklace she was wearing was her roommates, I told her “ahhh you stole it then.” To which she also found funny, and then I told her the significance behind my jewelry.
Unfortunately she had to go right after this, I thought if I had built up a vibe more I could invite her over tn might be soon for that.
Texted her that it was nice to see her again, lmk if you wanna hang/study soon.
Who here has experience seducing a girl that just got cheated on, and can anyone give me advice?
At first, the date did not have a good vibe, but I built the vibe up that it was left on more of a high note, rather than a somber one.
