Just to make a distinction, I summarized several behaviors of "Nice Guy" beta supplications behaviors, if you are having difficulties laid you mostly belong to the first group. Hope it helps!
BETA:
(1) He views her as ideal, pure, untouchable beautiful girl. He admires her and puts her on pedestals. She is the most important 'thing' in his life. He waits till she tells him that SHE has time for HIM. He tells her that she is the most important in his life, that she is his FIRST priority. He puts too much value on her pussy, and sex with her is too important to him.
(2) He lets her dominate the relationship, he is rather submissive, afraid to tell her and show her what he wants. He is hiding his sexuality, is ashamed of it, worries what others thinks of him. He doesn't push for quick sex, rather waits, weeks and months, waits for HER decision. He hopes for good outcome (sex) but he is not pushing for it because he is timid. He is afraid to touch her, kiss her, even talk to her. He always agrees with what she suggests. When she asks him to do this and that, he always says YES. Then he goes and does even more. He is too compliant.
(3) He is a freaking OCD controlling freak, obsessed with her, dreams about her, stalking her, must control her all the time, doesn't give any space, is envious when she talks and having fun with other guys. There are no other women on this planet, she is the only one.
(4) He gets involved with her Feminine energy first - love, great feelings, good relationship, friendship - and sexual energy later on. He is trapped in feminine feelings, unable to push for sex.
(5) He needs constant advice as he is not sure what to do next. He is afraid of experiencing, paralyzed by failure and rejection. He always worries about what people thinks of him when he screws up. He is paralyzed by potential failure, thus it is safer for him not to try.
(6) He is never able to walk away from her and reject her. He always worries that he will hurt her feelings, and his feelings as well. He is always trying to meet HER standards by changing and adjusting himself to HER mind set. He has no rules for her to follow, but he follows her rules.
(7) He is afraid to talk about sex with women, he rather puts his eyes to the ground and his tail between his legs, then changes the subject. Or he is a fucking sex-talk maniac, sex this and sex that too.
(8) He is like a fucking orbital, orbits around her and orbits, and when she gets tired and opens the window of opportunity for him, he just backs away. When she closes the window, he comes back to her and orbits some more because in his mind he was so close! He only wants to fuck but he doesn't want to be rejected. So what choices he has other than remaining in orbit? None. After all, she is just so difficult to understand and he is already so much emotionally involved!
(9) He has a weak frame, his frame is too obvious and aggressive, or he has no frame. His frame collapses under her challenges, sweetness and great feelings. He fell in love with her even before he kissed her, and now he is unable to fuck her. His frame is gone, her frame dominates him, now he does exactly as she wishes. If he were a sailor on a boat going through emotional thunder, he would loose a grip on his rudder, loose his sight of the Lighthouse, and got lost in a dark ocean full of emotions. And should his boat sink among those waves, not only this fucking sailor can't swim but he doesn't even try!
(10) He is always confused about her mixed signals. Does she like me or not? How do I know? How do I find out? What do I have to do so she likes me? What do I have to do? It's always a fucking drama. He has hurt feelings, he feels sorry for himself, he feels sorry for her, he feels sorry for everybody else. He tells her how hurt his feelings are, blames her, makes her feel guilty, makes her cry, manipulates her. Texts and calls, calls and texts, hoping that she will feel sorry for him and change her mind. He is stalking her on FB, googling her up, following her on Twitter, asking her friends about her.
(11) He is a fucking hero. Savior, knight, person who protects her from bad stuff, bad people and bad boyfriends. He is better than anyone else. He pays for her, provides for her, he is just so fucking good and nice. She is just so gentle and lovable that he is afraid to fuck the shit out of her. Or he is a fucking villain, badass, asshole, does the exact opposite of that hero. He is an antihero, anti-savior.
(12) Everything is so fucking complicated and nothing is working out. Approaching her and getting her number is too complicated. Raising attraction is complicated, fundamentals are too complicated. Talking to her is complicated, the way he is supposed to touch her is fucking complicated, and when she finally gives in and is in his bed, half naked, nailing her is still too fucking complicated. If it doesn't work it is a misery, end of the world, another complicated failure. Too many fucking complications. This is complicated, and that is complicated too!
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Anti-Beta:
(1) He views her as a sexual object, perhaps just as horny and slutty girl, but also sees her as a person. She is never the most important 'thing' in his life, she is only a source of fun and sex. He exercises first and gets his stuff done first - before HE makes time for HER, and he makes sure that she knows she is on SECOND place. Her pussy has minimal value, sex with her would be great but it is not that important.
(2) He is bold, assertive, leading (her) and persistent. He pushes for result - getting laid asap.
He knows she craves dominance, and he provides it. He touches her often, doesn't really care whether she starts touching him first. He disagrees here and there, he is not afraid to say NO to her. When she asks him to do this or that for her, first he thinks: Go fuck yourself. Only then he politely smiles and says: Not right now, but if you remain good I don't mind doing it together, in a short while. HE demands compliance from HER, because it is simple: no compliance no fucking.
(3) He gives her freedom, lets her have fun on her own, doesn't care if she has fun with other people. He doesn't care when she talks to other guys because he knows he's the one who will fuck either her or her cute friend. Or other women.
(4) He gets involved with her Sexual energy first, Feminine energy second. He is friendly with her, relaxed, yet persistently pushing for sex. When he gets the first opportunity he escalates physically, and fast. He nails her first before he shows any feelings for her
(5) He doesn't really need too much of an advice. He does what he wants, learns from own mistakes, and only compares and supplements his own experience with knowledge of others. He is never afraid to screw up because he doesn't care what others think of him; He views failures and rejections as a natural part of learning
(6) He can walk away from her, he can reject her with no remorse. He walks away from her, he lets her go if she doesn't meet HIS standards, HIS mindset and HIS rules.
(7) He's not afraid to talk about sex. He doesn't usually initiate with words, but when challenged he confidently looks in her eyes, smiles, and says: Women love to suck my cock, and that is why I love to make love with confident women!
(8) There is no fucking orbiting. He get in fast and gets out fast. He comes in and sees if her window of opportunity is open. Great, he penetrates when he gets the first opportunity. If not, he gives her two more chances, and if it doesn't happen then she is simply out. No complications, no confusions, no hurt feelings, nothing to understand - she is simply gone.
(9) He has a firm frame. His frame never collapses under hers. His frame is solid, he is focused on nailing her asap without being too obvious, too open and too aggressive about it. If he were a sailor he would always keep a strong grip on his rudder. He would fucking tie his hands to that rudder just so he doesn't loose a grip of it. He always sees the Lighthouse, and he always finds his way through and around those huge waves. Should his boat sink, he'll just fucking swim towards this Lighthouse, and if he can't see this one - well, he'll just have to find another one!
(10) He is never confused about her mixed signals. He only chooses those signals that are positive and leading to sex, disregarding the others. There is no fucking drama, never. He just walks away, never calls her back, never texts her. He has no fucking FB either, doesn't remember her name to google her up, and never heard of twitter. There is no hurt feelings, no negativity, he just simply moves on.
(11) He is not a fucking hero nor great savior. He's not an asshole either, he has no reason to pretend to be a prick badass. He is just a normal person, a guy who likes females and who is not afraid to give her a fuck of her life.
(12) It is simple, he just talks to her and is friendly, positive. He simply shows his sexual interest by the way he looks at her, the way he expresses himself. He straighten his back, exercises to keep healthy, wears decent clothes and takes care of himself. He simply touches her, the way one human touches another one. Touching is touching, it is not a science. If she is willing to go with him, great, it will be a good fuck. If not he'll give her couple more chances, and even if that doesn't work he simply says: No big deal, good knowing you and have a great life, interacting with you was another exciting experience in my life!
BETA:
(1) He views her as ideal, pure, untouchable beautiful girl. He admires her and puts her on pedestals. She is the most important 'thing' in his life. He waits till she tells him that SHE has time for HIM. He tells her that she is the most important in his life, that she is his FIRST priority. He puts too much value on her pussy, and sex with her is too important to him.
(2) He lets her dominate the relationship, he is rather submissive, afraid to tell her and show her what he wants. He is hiding his sexuality, is ashamed of it, worries what others thinks of him. He doesn't push for quick sex, rather waits, weeks and months, waits for HER decision. He hopes for good outcome (sex) but he is not pushing for it because he is timid. He is afraid to touch her, kiss her, even talk to her. He always agrees with what she suggests. When she asks him to do this and that, he always says YES. Then he goes and does even more. He is too compliant.
(3) He is a freaking OCD controlling freak, obsessed with her, dreams about her, stalking her, must control her all the time, doesn't give any space, is envious when she talks and having fun with other guys. There are no other women on this planet, she is the only one.
(4) He gets involved with her Feminine energy first - love, great feelings, good relationship, friendship - and sexual energy later on. He is trapped in feminine feelings, unable to push for sex.
(5) He needs constant advice as he is not sure what to do next. He is afraid of experiencing, paralyzed by failure and rejection. He always worries about what people thinks of him when he screws up. He is paralyzed by potential failure, thus it is safer for him not to try.
(6) He is never able to walk away from her and reject her. He always worries that he will hurt her feelings, and his feelings as well. He is always trying to meet HER standards by changing and adjusting himself to HER mind set. He has no rules for her to follow, but he follows her rules.
(7) He is afraid to talk about sex with women, he rather puts his eyes to the ground and his tail between his legs, then changes the subject. Or he is a fucking sex-talk maniac, sex this and sex that too.
(8) He is like a fucking orbital, orbits around her and orbits, and when she gets tired and opens the window of opportunity for him, he just backs away. When she closes the window, he comes back to her and orbits some more because in his mind he was so close! He only wants to fuck but he doesn't want to be rejected. So what choices he has other than remaining in orbit? None. After all, she is just so difficult to understand and he is already so much emotionally involved!
(9) He has a weak frame, his frame is too obvious and aggressive, or he has no frame. His frame collapses under her challenges, sweetness and great feelings. He fell in love with her even before he kissed her, and now he is unable to fuck her. His frame is gone, her frame dominates him, now he does exactly as she wishes. If he were a sailor on a boat going through emotional thunder, he would loose a grip on his rudder, loose his sight of the Lighthouse, and got lost in a dark ocean full of emotions. And should his boat sink among those waves, not only this fucking sailor can't swim but he doesn't even try!
(10) He is always confused about her mixed signals. Does she like me or not? How do I know? How do I find out? What do I have to do so she likes me? What do I have to do? It's always a fucking drama. He has hurt feelings, he feels sorry for himself, he feels sorry for her, he feels sorry for everybody else. He tells her how hurt his feelings are, blames her, makes her feel guilty, makes her cry, manipulates her. Texts and calls, calls and texts, hoping that she will feel sorry for him and change her mind. He is stalking her on FB, googling her up, following her on Twitter, asking her friends about her.
(11) He is a fucking hero. Savior, knight, person who protects her from bad stuff, bad people and bad boyfriends. He is better than anyone else. He pays for her, provides for her, he is just so fucking good and nice. She is just so gentle and lovable that he is afraid to fuck the shit out of her. Or he is a fucking villain, badass, asshole, does the exact opposite of that hero. He is an antihero, anti-savior.
(12) Everything is so fucking complicated and nothing is working out. Approaching her and getting her number is too complicated. Raising attraction is complicated, fundamentals are too complicated. Talking to her is complicated, the way he is supposed to touch her is fucking complicated, and when she finally gives in and is in his bed, half naked, nailing her is still too fucking complicated. If it doesn't work it is a misery, end of the world, another complicated failure. Too many fucking complications. This is complicated, and that is complicated too!
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Anti-Beta:
(1) He views her as a sexual object, perhaps just as horny and slutty girl, but also sees her as a person. She is never the most important 'thing' in his life, she is only a source of fun and sex. He exercises first and gets his stuff done first - before HE makes time for HER, and he makes sure that she knows she is on SECOND place. Her pussy has minimal value, sex with her would be great but it is not that important.
(2) He is bold, assertive, leading (her) and persistent. He pushes for result - getting laid asap.
He knows she craves dominance, and he provides it. He touches her often, doesn't really care whether she starts touching him first. He disagrees here and there, he is not afraid to say NO to her. When she asks him to do this or that for her, first he thinks: Go fuck yourself. Only then he politely smiles and says: Not right now, but if you remain good I don't mind doing it together, in a short while. HE demands compliance from HER, because it is simple: no compliance no fucking.
(3) He gives her freedom, lets her have fun on her own, doesn't care if she has fun with other people. He doesn't care when she talks to other guys because he knows he's the one who will fuck either her or her cute friend. Or other women.
(4) He gets involved with her Sexual energy first, Feminine energy second. He is friendly with her, relaxed, yet persistently pushing for sex. When he gets the first opportunity he escalates physically, and fast. He nails her first before he shows any feelings for her
(5) He doesn't really need too much of an advice. He does what he wants, learns from own mistakes, and only compares and supplements his own experience with knowledge of others. He is never afraid to screw up because he doesn't care what others think of him; He views failures and rejections as a natural part of learning
(6) He can walk away from her, he can reject her with no remorse. He walks away from her, he lets her go if she doesn't meet HIS standards, HIS mindset and HIS rules.
(7) He's not afraid to talk about sex. He doesn't usually initiate with words, but when challenged he confidently looks in her eyes, smiles, and says: Women love to suck my cock, and that is why I love to make love with confident women!
(8) There is no fucking orbiting. He get in fast and gets out fast. He comes in and sees if her window of opportunity is open. Great, he penetrates when he gets the first opportunity. If not, he gives her two more chances, and if it doesn't happen then she is simply out. No complications, no confusions, no hurt feelings, nothing to understand - she is simply gone.
(9) He has a firm frame. His frame never collapses under hers. His frame is solid, he is focused on nailing her asap without being too obvious, too open and too aggressive about it. If he were a sailor he would always keep a strong grip on his rudder. He would fucking tie his hands to that rudder just so he doesn't loose a grip of it. He always sees the Lighthouse, and he always finds his way through and around those huge waves. Should his boat sink, he'll just fucking swim towards this Lighthouse, and if he can't see this one - well, he'll just have to find another one!
(10) He is never confused about her mixed signals. He only chooses those signals that are positive and leading to sex, disregarding the others. There is no fucking drama, never. He just walks away, never calls her back, never texts her. He has no fucking FB either, doesn't remember her name to google her up, and never heard of twitter. There is no hurt feelings, no negativity, he just simply moves on.
(11) He is not a fucking hero nor great savior. He's not an asshole either, he has no reason to pretend to be a prick badass. He is just a normal person, a guy who likes females and who is not afraid to give her a fuck of her life.
(12) It is simple, he just talks to her and is friendly, positive. He simply shows his sexual interest by the way he looks at her, the way he expresses himself. He straighten his back, exercises to keep healthy, wears decent clothes and takes care of himself. He simply touches her, the way one human touches another one. Touching is touching, it is not a science. If she is willing to go with him, great, it will be a good fuck. If not he'll give her couple more chances, and even if that doesn't work he simply says: No big deal, good knowing you and have a great life, interacting with you was another exciting experience in my life!
