DIRECT OPEN: Open a girl at teh bar seemingly by herself. Tell her ''hi - just saw you a thought you looked hot and thought i'd say hi''. She's looking at me like im speaking a made-up language. I try another statement of empathy and am like ''I know it's a bit weird!, but you caught my eye''. She's still kind of frozen. She says ''oh. Ok'' and kind of looks away and turns her back partially away from me. I think about asking her name, but shes made it clear she's not into me from her expression and bodylanguage and I bail
DIRECT OPEN: I am in a bar that has a dancefloor, and as i'm walking towards it, 2 gorgeous girls are walking towards me. I put my arm out to slow them down and they comply, and then I tell the hot one that I think she's cute and I wanted to talk to her. She just grabs her friend and they both basically run away lol
DIRECT OPEN: I open a girl on the dancefloor who is dancing near me. I'm trying to kind of force an IOI by dancing and gesturing with my hands etc, and after a few seconds she looks at me and we make eye contact. I move in like I just noticed her and I tell her she's sexy. She just looks at me with a kinda neutral expression (better than angry I guess!). I ask her name and she just spins around and dances away lol.
I decide direct isn't on my side tonight and i'll go more indirect. Different nights seem to have different success rates for each method for some reason
INDIRECT OPEN: I open 2 girls at the bar and rock an old school opinion opener. One of them laughs and the other is just passive. I ask them how they know each other and we do the usual names, ages stuff. I try to cram in a cold read based on her tattoos. I'm not sensing any attraction, and they just seem like social/friendly girls. I decide to test the waters and throw a statement of intent, but the interaction kind of instantly stalls there - like she doesn't want to lead me on and she kind of stops talking really. I try to plow a bit more but she ejects with her friends after a while. I think I wasn't her physical type and so she was happy to banter with me, but didn't want me trying to push it forward with her at all
INDIRECT/DIRECT: It's late and most bars have just closed. I decide to try 'indirect/direct' opener that some PUA's use. I see a hot girl on a bench sitting by herself. I open her and tease her massive handbag or something, and I just sit next to her. I ask how her night was, and then I tell her 'Actually, I just wanted to talk to you because I thought you looked Hot AF!''. She laughed and said 'That's cute, but you're not my type. Sorry''. I banter with her a little bit to make sure it's not a test, but after a few mins it's clear that she wasn't playing! I eject
INDIRECT/DIRECT - I spot a cute girl and put myself in her area. She asks me if I have a lighter. I say 'no' and then I ask her how her night is going. She's friendly. I tell her that my friend just ditched me and ask her if I can hang with her until I leave soon. She says 'yes' adn we start to chat. I go to the bar and buy a drink for me, her and her female friend. We all chat. We start to dance. I start to get handsy and we kiss. I pull away and we carry on chatting and dancing. I tried to kiss her again and she said something like 'stop trying to kiss me' lol. I thought i'd blew it here, but soon after we were grinding again. SOme guy she knows came up to me and congratulated me for pulling her lol. (she's hot and i'm not!). Her female friend is dancing with that guy now and we are now chatting again. Just asking her all kinds of questions. Favourite foods and anything that comes to my head. It's getting late and I tell her i'm going soon and she should come. She agrees. We hop in a cab and go back to my place.
DIRECT OPEN: I am in a bar that has a dancefloor, and as i'm walking towards it, 2 gorgeous girls are walking towards me. I put my arm out to slow them down and they comply, and then I tell the hot one that I think she's cute and I wanted to talk to her. She just grabs her friend and they both basically run away lol
DIRECT OPEN: I open a girl on the dancefloor who is dancing near me. I'm trying to kind of force an IOI by dancing and gesturing with my hands etc, and after a few seconds she looks at me and we make eye contact. I move in like I just noticed her and I tell her she's sexy. She just looks at me with a kinda neutral expression (better than angry I guess!). I ask her name and she just spins around and dances away lol.
I decide direct isn't on my side tonight and i'll go more indirect. Different nights seem to have different success rates for each method for some reason
INDIRECT OPEN: I open 2 girls at the bar and rock an old school opinion opener. One of them laughs and the other is just passive. I ask them how they know each other and we do the usual names, ages stuff. I try to cram in a cold read based on her tattoos. I'm not sensing any attraction, and they just seem like social/friendly girls. I decide to test the waters and throw a statement of intent, but the interaction kind of instantly stalls there - like she doesn't want to lead me on and she kind of stops talking really. I try to plow a bit more but she ejects with her friends after a while. I think I wasn't her physical type and so she was happy to banter with me, but didn't want me trying to push it forward with her at all
INDIRECT/DIRECT: It's late and most bars have just closed. I decide to try 'indirect/direct' opener that some PUA's use. I see a hot girl on a bench sitting by herself. I open her and tease her massive handbag or something, and I just sit next to her. I ask how her night was, and then I tell her 'Actually, I just wanted to talk to you because I thought you looked Hot AF!''. She laughed and said 'That's cute, but you're not my type. Sorry''. I banter with her a little bit to make sure it's not a test, but after a few mins it's clear that she wasn't playing! I eject
INDIRECT/DIRECT - I spot a cute girl and put myself in her area. She asks me if I have a lighter. I say 'no' and then I ask her how her night is going. She's friendly. I tell her that my friend just ditched me and ask her if I can hang with her until I leave soon. She says 'yes' adn we start to chat. I go to the bar and buy a drink for me, her and her female friend. We all chat. We start to dance. I start to get handsy and we kiss. I pull away and we carry on chatting and dancing. I tried to kiss her again and she said something like 'stop trying to kiss me' lol. I thought i'd blew it here, but soon after we were grinding again. SOme guy she knows came up to me and congratulated me for pulling her lol. (she's hot and i'm not!). Her female friend is dancing with that guy now and we are now chatting again. Just asking her all kinds of questions. Favourite foods and anything that comes to my head. It's getting late and I tell her i'm going soon and she should come. She agrees. We hop in a cab and go back to my place.
