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18 year old attracted to me, saw her mom, her mom is very hot too. Eeek!

DownEarth

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I'm not gonna do anything with this. I just saw this 18 year old woman, she was my cashier, at the store. Her name was on the receipt so I checked her out on FaceBook. Just to make sure her mom wasn't attractive as well (NOT good!), I wanted to see what her mom looks like and looked at her mom's profile. Her Mom is my age-ish, give or take a year, (I'm 43), which was to be expected. BUT.... her mom is also very attractive, something I was NOT expecting. To me, being in this situation would be extremely uncomfortable. EDIT: Her Mom is unavailable, but, would still be very distracting to me and like I said here, eek! That's why I won't do anything about this cashier at the store,

How many of you guys run into this? I can't do this. This freaks me the F out!

PS I looked through the rules and believe this is the right place for venting like this. I'm not entirely sure though, so if it's in the wrong specific part of the forum here, I apologize.
 
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Don't invest energy in things you aren't intending to follow through on. It messes with your head...

This FB sleuthing comes off as creepy. Yes we have all done it, but just DON'T....

I had a personal rule that I would not entertain a potential partner with a sibling, parent or offspring I wanted in a carnal fashion. You need to find a woman over 25. Personally if it was my 18 yo daughter you were leering at, I'd get pretty up in your face right now...
 

DownEarth

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Don't invest energy in things you aren't intending to follow through on. It messes with your head...

This FB sleuthing comes off as creepy. Yes we have all done it, but just DON'T....

I had a personal rule that I would not entertain a potential partner with a sibling, parent or offspring I wanted in a carnal fashion. You need to find a woman over 25. Personally if it was my 18 yo daughter you were leering at, I'd get pretty up in your face right now...



You wrote: "Don't invest energy in things you aren't intending to follow through on. It messes with your head..."

My intentions regarding this cashier:
1- "I'm not gonna do anything with this" (re: mom and daughter both being attractive)
2- "To me, being in this situation would be extremely uncomfortable" (re: mom and daughter both being attractive)
3- "Her Mom is unavailable, but, would still be very distracting to me and like I said here, eek! That's why I won't do anything about this cashier at the store," (this one shows that you and I agree: "I would not entertain a potential partner with a sibling, parent or offspring I wanted in a carnal fashion.")
4- "I can't do this. This freaks me the F out!"(re: mom and daughter both being attractive)

Your point was what... again? Nice start to your reply! LOL



You wrote:
"This FB sleuthing comes off as creepy. Yes we have all done it, but just DON'T...."

With her being young, I know that sometimes women her mom's age, my age, can sometimes still be themselves (to me) super attractive as well. As I've said prior to these words your eyes are currently on, we have the same rule. FB sleuthing helped me find out beforehand so that I could follow our (yours and my) mutual rule without that particular situation ever coming on either of my, hers or her mother's attention. That particular super headache: 100% avoided for all three of us (me, her, her mom)

You then write:

"Personally if it was my 18 yo daughter you were leering at, I'd get pretty up in your face right now..."

The whole reason for looking at her FB page was to know if she was legal or not. And she IS legal in these here United States. Considering that, I'm in the right, not the wrong, so back off, otherwise I take what you posted as almost being a threat to me.
 

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and NO...an 18 year old is NOT attracted to a 43 year old man...quit deluding yourself.
 

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and NO...an 18 year old is NOT attracted to a 43 year old man...quit deluding yourself.
After all I wrote, that's all you got?

Are you speaking for 18 year olds now?

Are you saying that, because in your view it's wrong for someone aged 18 to be attracted to someone who's 43 .... that it just doesn't happen?

Does it have to be, according to you, morally ok in your view so that it then becomes possible in real life?

Do things that are reprehensible (in general, and not just anything close to this topic) to you have to cease being so in order to be a reality that can be readily acknowledged by not just you but others as well?

She's legal. End of story.
 
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Are you speaking for 18 year olds now?
I'm a father of 2 that were and one that will be. If all you can get are naive children with daddy issues that's your problem. I don't envy you and truly pity your desperation. Moreover I pity the girl who most likely was just being nice from a customer service perspective and you took it as interest.

Remember these words when she is avoiding you after a failed attempt to ask her out....
 

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I'm a father of 2 that were and one that will be. If all you can get are naive children with daddy issues that's your problem. I don't envy you and truly pity your desperation. Moreover I pity the girl who most likely was just being nice from a customer service perspective and you took it as interest.

Remember these words when she is avoiding you after a failed attempt to ask her out....
Your answers appear to come in the form of mind-reading, insinuations, and no proof outside of this one thread where you've gained all your experiences of who I am and what makes me tick. This one thread, think about it... is where the center of your knowledge of me exists. Your knowledge of me exists nowhere else and it never will. It's impossible because I will forget about you once this thread has run it's course, which is right after I post this reply.

Back to some things to be addressed:

I wrote "Do you speak for 18 year olds" which is a yes or no question. You answered without a yes or no as ALL people on here can see above.

There's also these pesky questions that never got answered:

I wrote "Are you saying that, because in your view it's wrong for someone aged 18 to be attracted to someone who's 43 .... that it just doesn't happen?" but you didn't answer this one.

I wrote "Does it have to be, according to you, morally ok in your view so that it then becomes possible in real life?" Hmm... this one wasn't answered either.

I wrote "Do things that are reprehensible (in general, and not just anything close to this topic) to you have to cease being so in order to be a reality that can be readily acknowledged by not just you but others as well?" yet another one that wasn't answered.

There's TONS of challenges I made to you in this thread, not just this reply, that you backed away from.

I'm gonna make the next question in HUGE font so you can't possibly miss it:
Do you have a habit of not answering all questions in a debate thread like this, where not answering them is front and center for all to see and expect to win said debate?

Here's some stuff for you that I've witheld until now:

All of my action from the ladies comes from women aged 35 on up to no older than ten years older than myself. But I write ONE post about ONE person, ONE time, and this is our (you and I) ONLY time interacting on this planet, and you make me out to be someone who only seeks out girls who have yet to hit puberty. Buddy, I seek out women who are MIDDLE FUCKING AGED because that is what I am mostly attracted to.

You know.... totally ugly women with no physically attractive traits. Basically, my female counterparts. The way you talk about me, it's as if I'm this ugly middle aged guy with a flabby midsection instead of looking BETTER than I did when I was half my age.

I have ALWAYS had a thing for women in their 40s and even some in their 50s.

But I make one single mention about one single younger woman.... and you wrote this:

"Personally if it was my 18 yo daughter you were leering at, I'd get pretty up in your face right now..."

All this because of one post.
 
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I'm not debating with you. I simply think you are a delusional idiot....bu-bye......
 

DownEarth

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I'm not debating with you. I simply think you are a delusional idiot....bu-bye......
Call it what you will, but it's all here on this forum, I chose to call it a debate, you chose to call it something else, but the fact remains: We're referring to the same thing.

I wrote a number of challenges to you and 99% of them you did not respond to. Me thinks you're a coward.
 

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I once fucked a girl, young and month later, her mum (didn't know she was her mum until i saw a pic of my previous pull on her night table - "who's that" ... "oh it is my daughter").

Good times!

Best,
Teevster
 

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I once fucked a girl, young and month later, her mum (didn't know she was her mum until i saw a pic of my previous pull on her night table - "who's that" ... "oh it is my daughter").

Good times!

Best,
Teevster
Legend .
 

Rain

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Ross jeffries and others are documented sleeping with 18 year olds almost hitting 60.... i dont understand why they choose this but 43 seducing 18 is possible...
Besides Ross Jeffries, who were the others that were documented to have done that?
 

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Besides Ross Jeffries, who were the others that were documented to have done that?
There were many guys in nextasf doing this with proof, forgot the name of the dude, (he use the photographer angle)... this is not something cant be done, i think cocporn also is another... if i try i can do it as well, it can be done that is my point, the why would you want this i dont get.... the post in general is retarded to be honest... dude goes shopping, look for cashier in facebook that he does not even know find out she has a hot mom, makes a post... one of the most absurd silly post ever...
 
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you miss 100% of the shots you don't take

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@DownEarth,

In the old pickup community what you're doing here was labeled 'mental masturbation':


i.e., going deep into investigating, overthinking about, and now asking for opinions on a non-event that hasn't happened.

It's also a pretty clear sign you should be meeting more women. If you were you would not be constructing elaborate "What if...?" scenarios about a girl you haven't even asked out.

Good rule of thumb: if you haven't laid her yet, it's not really worth fretting over what ifs about her relatives/friend group/connections, unless this is a deep social circle lay that risks lots of complications for you.

Also, if you can't ask out one girl, because you're also attracted to someone else tied to her in some way... well that doesn't leave you many options. Most good-looking girls have good-looking friends, sisters, mothers, cousins, etc. somewhere or other...

If you see a girl, ask her out; if she says yes, go on the date; if she comes out, see if you can lay her; if you lay her, see if you keep seeing her; if you keep seeing her, and end up meeting other women in her life, and for some reason cannot control yourself around them, I guess that would be the time to make a post about it ;)

Chase
 
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