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Okay so it's been a slow month for me. Or even a month and a half, don't remember the last time I had sex. I cut contact with my fwb because she couldn't meet up with me twice in a row. She was super apologetic about it but still I felt like I would have been chasing if I contacted her again. I don't regret it because I wasn't much into her but I miss the sex on tap deal lol. Better to lose the girl than your frame though.
My work kept me quite busy for a while so I lost momentum. I've been on a few dates but none of them paid out in the end, just make outs and such (poor logistics due to stuff that was out of my hands).
I've actually started cold approach though! Before the handful of times I approached I got insta dates or lays even when my skill rate was lower and I've realised this was because I either I was in a highly confident mood or I capitalized on approach invitations. For the past three days I've been daygaming after work. I forced myself to just speak to 5 girls. It took hours and usually I was only able to do it because I promised myself I wouldn't go home unless I spoke to 5 girls. It actually became easier with each day. I was pleasantly suprised.
Today when I was walking I made eye contact with a girl. I said hi or something like that. She said hi and came up to me very warmly. Kissed me on the cheek and asked me how was Elif (I have no idea who). I asked who she was after a bit of banter (30-60 seconds). She apologized and said she thought I was someone she knew. She excused herself and went. I insisted a bit but couldn't make her stay. I realized afterwards that I should have just talked to her, got a bit of compliance then told her I didn't know who she was talking about. If I got past hook point it could have been something lol.
I got a match on okcupid (just downloaded the app today). She was cute, her profile said bisexual and sex-driven and artsy. (Saw her drawings, they were pretty cool) Exactly the kind of girl I'm good with. She sent the first message and I got her to meet up with me. She even travelled like an hour to meet up. I thought it was a done deal lol.
We meet up. The vibe was good. She was very receptive to my touch. I deep dived (dreams, her art, sexuality all good stuff) and flirted. She was sexually experienced even though she was 18. She seemed very into me. Evantually I extracted and went to a hotel and told her we'd go somewhere more private. When she saw the hotel she said she was on her period. I said I didn't mind then she stopped and said no. She said another day was fine but not today. I was smiling and saying yes. I tried to overcome her resistance for almost 2 hours. I was playful and sexual. I tried every trick in my arsenal. I told her she was free to go whenever she wanted, I said we would just chill or cuddle. I got her to sit down and whispered to her about she sucking my dick. Made her suck my finger. Touched her boobs under her shirt for a little to ger her horny. She wanted to kiss me. For a long time I didn't let her just teased her. Bringing my lips to her lips but not touching. After some time I kissed her as well when I saw I was going no where. She told me she made a bet with a friend. She wouldn't do anything sexual for a while or she would have to buy her friend a wine bottle. Then after like an hour with me trying to overcome her resistance (I did chill the vibe for a bit too like half an hour just to try it) she told me that she had sex too much and it was controlling her and it made her feel bad, she wanted to control it. I finally said goodbye. She was a bit pissed at the end. I wasn't, good vibes forever lol.
Anyway, hope this dry times come to an end soon
gonna continue approaching. I'm gonna master this shit!
P.S. She texted me afterwards if we were alright. I said sure and that I had a great time. She said good.
My work kept me quite busy for a while so I lost momentum. I've been on a few dates but none of them paid out in the end, just make outs and such (poor logistics due to stuff that was out of my hands).
I've actually started cold approach though! Before the handful of times I approached I got insta dates or lays even when my skill rate was lower and I've realised this was because I either I was in a highly confident mood or I capitalized on approach invitations. For the past three days I've been daygaming after work. I forced myself to just speak to 5 girls. It took hours and usually I was only able to do it because I promised myself I wouldn't go home unless I spoke to 5 girls. It actually became easier with each day. I was pleasantly suprised.
Today when I was walking I made eye contact with a girl. I said hi or something like that. She said hi and came up to me very warmly. Kissed me on the cheek and asked me how was Elif (I have no idea who). I asked who she was after a bit of banter (30-60 seconds). She apologized and said she thought I was someone she knew. She excused herself and went. I insisted a bit but couldn't make her stay. I realized afterwards that I should have just talked to her, got a bit of compliance then told her I didn't know who she was talking about. If I got past hook point it could have been something lol.
I got a match on okcupid (just downloaded the app today). She was cute, her profile said bisexual and sex-driven and artsy. (Saw her drawings, they were pretty cool) Exactly the kind of girl I'm good with. She sent the first message and I got her to meet up with me. She even travelled like an hour to meet up. I thought it was a done deal lol.
We meet up. The vibe was good. She was very receptive to my touch. I deep dived (dreams, her art, sexuality all good stuff) and flirted. She was sexually experienced even though she was 18. She seemed very into me. Evantually I extracted and went to a hotel and told her we'd go somewhere more private. When she saw the hotel she said she was on her period. I said I didn't mind then she stopped and said no. She said another day was fine but not today. I was smiling and saying yes. I tried to overcome her resistance for almost 2 hours. I was playful and sexual. I tried every trick in my arsenal. I told her she was free to go whenever she wanted, I said we would just chill or cuddle. I got her to sit down and whispered to her about she sucking my dick. Made her suck my finger. Touched her boobs under her shirt for a little to ger her horny. She wanted to kiss me. For a long time I didn't let her just teased her. Bringing my lips to her lips but not touching. After some time I kissed her as well when I saw I was going no where. She told me she made a bet with a friend. She wouldn't do anything sexual for a while or she would have to buy her friend a wine bottle. Then after like an hour with me trying to overcome her resistance (I did chill the vibe for a bit too like half an hour just to try it) she told me that she had sex too much and it was controlling her and it made her feel bad, she wanted to control it. I finally said goodbye. She was a bit pissed at the end. I wasn't, good vibes forever lol.
Anyway, hope this dry times come to an end soon
gonna continue approaching. I'm gonna master this shit!P.S. She texted me afterwards if we were alright. I said sure and that I had a great time. She said good.
