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Hey fellas, I faced some last minute resistance again. I guess it’s an improvement, it’s better to worry about not being able to seal the deal rather than not being able to get a number.
We were out with a friend at a not-so-loud bar, which from now on is my favorite place to night game. I was talking with a girl that I had met earlier which was alone there and I just small talked her because she wasn’t attractive. Then my peripheral vision caught a seemingly beautiful girl next to me looking around for someone. I immediately ditched the small talk girl and asked the beautiful girl if she’s looking for a friend. I asked her to describe her so I could help her find her and then just proceeded to get to know her.
We talked for a good 5 mins before her friend came in, but she didn’t cockblock, I chatted with both of them briefly, then focused on the beautiful girl, let’s call her Alex, 18 years old. We talked and talked for a few more minutes, then her friend left us alone. At some point my dumbass friend tried to engage her in conversation, I saw that there is a chance that she would leave so I told her to go for a coffee and took her number.
I texted her to save my number the same night, then the next morning I texted her that it was nice to meet her blah blah. She responded with huge ass messages to my questions but without asking any back. I told her that I will go out of town for a few days but when I get back we should go for that coffee and she said yes. When I came back, I texted her and arranged a date for the next day. We lived a bit far, so I split the distance between us and arranged a date for somewhere in the middle, next time I will try to set one up even closer to my place.
We met, the place that I wanted to go would close soon so I just took her to a pub in lack of better venues nearby. I asked her what she would drink and she made it easy for me, told me that she would get her drink. We sat down, I dragged her chair close and it was one of these easy, get to know each other conversations because we were both equally contributing and on top of that she wasn’t giving boring answers. I touched her hand to exam her jewellery and also we were sitting close so I kept touching my leg against hers until it just remained there in contact.
Strange thing I noticed is that while in previous dates I sometimes can think on my feet, on this one my mind went blank. I couldn’t think of any backup topics/chase frames. Guess I must have been nervous, which is strange as well. I also tried to get her to talk more by staying quiet and maintaining EC and it worked well.
The only non-typical-date-talk that I did was when I asked about her room, she told me that she has a single bed, she asked for mine, and I told her that I couldn’t stand a single bed because you can’t have someone over. I also am not sure about this piece. The topic of marrieage came up.
I tried to set me up as a bad provider and be more polarizing, not sure if it was a good way. Anyway, I found out about series that she watched and found out that she hasn’t watched GoT, which I used to tease her first and then noted it for future use. Before I intended to ask for the pull I also told her about how I bought some cool posters for my room but haven’t set them up yet and she seemed intrigued. Then I got up and told her come on, let’s go and watch an episode of GoT and you can help me set up my posters.
She didn’t even ask how close I live, she just followed lol. Great moment. Went to the bus stop, pull talking all the way, got the bus and about 10 mins later we arrived at mine. My flatmate seemed eager to get to know her so I signalled him to leave us alone and took her to my room. Just the day before I had bought and read Drexel’s book and tried to follow the steps. I left her alone a couple of minutes in my room and then came back.
I brought my laptop (which mind you didn’t have any GoT in) just to give plausible deniability. We started setting up the posters which was fun and I thought was a great step. Then I told her hmm how can i thank you, I high-fived her and then pulled her in to hug her and then I kissed her. We kissed briefly, unfortunately even with my lack of experience I could tell she is a bad kisser, it was just awkward, our mouths had height difference if that makes sense, and I would always find her teeth, maybe she had her mouth too closed. Then everything went downhill.
Anyway, soon as I broke the kiss she went in for her phone told me that she has to text a friend. Told her that she can text her later, kissed some more and kissed her neck. She then took her phone and started texting, I wanted to stop her but I couldn’t. I tried to remain disinterested until after she was finished, then when she finished and came close to me I kissed her again. She told me that she hasn’t had dinner and she had to leave, and she started calling a cab.
I told her that she should stay for 2 mins to talk and then she could leave, but there was no changing her mind. She called a cab and then she started escalating on me lol. She kissed me very passionately and I instictively kissed and bited her neck and she was getting turned on, I could feel her hands grabbing me and pulling me.
I pushed her on my bed we stayed like that for some seconds then she came on top obviously turned on, I tried to take her top off but settled for lifting it up and kissing her amazing boobs. Then her phone rang !!! and she picked it up because it was her friend. When she came back the cab was there, I played it very aloof initially, she kissed me passionately which I took for a good sign so i asked her if she wants to go out again and she told me to text her. I know that’s it’s probably not gonna happen but still have to try.
I honestly don’t know if I could have done anything to avoid that… She just had to leave. Note that between escalation steps she would mumble some things like I want to get to know you better and stuff like that but then she would keep going like nothing happened. If I knew that she would leave immediately I wouldn’t have escalated and I would plan for a 2nd date. Now probably I lost her…
Takeaway points: Pulled very easy, turned her on enough to make her escalate on me. Sticking point is setting casual sex frame and being sexy on the date. I think I come off very provider-y even though I try hard not to.
Thanks for reading!
We were out with a friend at a not-so-loud bar, which from now on is my favorite place to night game. I was talking with a girl that I had met earlier which was alone there and I just small talked her because she wasn’t attractive. Then my peripheral vision caught a seemingly beautiful girl next to me looking around for someone. I immediately ditched the small talk girl and asked the beautiful girl if she’s looking for a friend. I asked her to describe her so I could help her find her and then just proceeded to get to know her.
We talked for a good 5 mins before her friend came in, but she didn’t cockblock, I chatted with both of them briefly, then focused on the beautiful girl, let’s call her Alex, 18 years old. We talked and talked for a few more minutes, then her friend left us alone. At some point my dumbass friend tried to engage her in conversation, I saw that there is a chance that she would leave so I told her to go for a coffee and took her number.
I texted her to save my number the same night, then the next morning I texted her that it was nice to meet her blah blah. She responded with huge ass messages to my questions but without asking any back. I told her that I will go out of town for a few days but when I get back we should go for that coffee and she said yes. When I came back, I texted her and arranged a date for the next day. We lived a bit far, so I split the distance between us and arranged a date for somewhere in the middle, next time I will try to set one up even closer to my place.
We met, the place that I wanted to go would close soon so I just took her to a pub in lack of better venues nearby. I asked her what she would drink and she made it easy for me, told me that she would get her drink. We sat down, I dragged her chair close and it was one of these easy, get to know each other conversations because we were both equally contributing and on top of that she wasn’t giving boring answers. I touched her hand to exam her jewellery and also we were sitting close so I kept touching my leg against hers until it just remained there in contact.
Strange thing I noticed is that while in previous dates I sometimes can think on my feet, on this one my mind went blank. I couldn’t think of any backup topics/chase frames. Guess I must have been nervous, which is strange as well. I also tried to get her to talk more by staying quiet and maintaining EC and it worked well.
The only non-typical-date-talk that I did was when I asked about her room, she told me that she has a single bed, she asked for mine, and I told her that I couldn’t stand a single bed because you can’t have someone over. I also am not sure about this piece. The topic of marrieage came up.
I tried to set me up as a bad provider and be more polarizing, not sure if it was a good way. Anyway, I found out about series that she watched and found out that she hasn’t watched GoT, which I used to tease her first and then noted it for future use. Before I intended to ask for the pull I also told her about how I bought some cool posters for my room but haven’t set them up yet and she seemed intrigued. Then I got up and told her come on, let’s go and watch an episode of GoT and you can help me set up my posters.
She didn’t even ask how close I live, she just followed lol. Great moment. Went to the bus stop, pull talking all the way, got the bus and about 10 mins later we arrived at mine. My flatmate seemed eager to get to know her so I signalled him to leave us alone and took her to my room. Just the day before I had bought and read Drexel’s book and tried to follow the steps. I left her alone a couple of minutes in my room and then came back.
I brought my laptop (which mind you didn’t have any GoT in) just to give plausible deniability. We started setting up the posters which was fun and I thought was a great step. Then I told her hmm how can i thank you, I high-fived her and then pulled her in to hug her and then I kissed her. We kissed briefly, unfortunately even with my lack of experience I could tell she is a bad kisser, it was just awkward, our mouths had height difference if that makes sense, and I would always find her teeth, maybe she had her mouth too closed. Then everything went downhill.
Anyway, soon as I broke the kiss she went in for her phone told me that she has to text a friend. Told her that she can text her later, kissed some more and kissed her neck. She then took her phone and started texting, I wanted to stop her but I couldn’t. I tried to remain disinterested until after she was finished, then when she finished and came close to me I kissed her again. She told me that she hasn’t had dinner and she had to leave, and she started calling a cab.
I told her that she should stay for 2 mins to talk and then she could leave, but there was no changing her mind. She called a cab and then she started escalating on me lol. She kissed me very passionately and I instictively kissed and bited her neck and she was getting turned on, I could feel her hands grabbing me and pulling me.
I pushed her on my bed we stayed like that for some seconds then she came on top obviously turned on, I tried to take her top off but settled for lifting it up and kissing her amazing boobs. Then her phone rang !!! and she picked it up because it was her friend. When she came back the cab was there, I played it very aloof initially, she kissed me passionately which I took for a good sign so i asked her if she wants to go out again and she told me to text her. I know that’s it’s probably not gonna happen but still have to try.
I honestly don’t know if I could have done anything to avoid that… She just had to leave. Note that between escalation steps she would mumble some things like I want to get to know you better and stuff like that but then she would keep going like nothing happened. If I knew that she would leave immediately I wouldn’t have escalated and I would plan for a 2nd date. Now probably I lost her…
Takeaway points: Pulled very easy, turned her on enough to make her escalate on me. Sticking point is setting casual sex frame and being sexy on the date. I think I come off very provider-y even though I try hard not to.
Thanks for reading!
