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Very quick backstory on this girl Diana Bell (I've changed her name for privacy but used one so I can remember who I'm talking about.)
Backstory
On a road trip with my best friends and acquaintances back in September 2022 I met Diana Bell who came on a trip and was invited by one of my acquaintances. It was a beach trip and for 80% of the day myself and this girl spent together doing the following activities:
From September 2022 to about April 2023 Diana Bell flaked on several dates repeatedly and other times when she said she was available I had work. So I cut contact with her for over a year. Fast forward about 6 weeks ago, there was this work opportunity and I knew she had experience doing so I reached out to her via Instagram to invite her and we later exchange numbers again via DM's.
About 3 weeks ago I invited her to another road trip myself and the same group of friends were going to and she called me up and said something along the lines:
"I know you like me so why not just skip asking me to come on a road trip and ask me out on a proper date? Even my best friend knows you like me and it's funny because we were talking about you a few weeks back just before you reached out via DM's"
I had already mentally written this girl off as a waste of time but the fact she called me and for about 20 minutes made conversation to hint she likes me very much and would like to skip a social invite to date me, I decided to give it a go and move for results rather than reactions.
My Pre Date Take On Diana Bell
The cold reads or assumptions I am making may be 100% wrong but I am going to list them anyway
And to be honest I really like this girl and I've not been active in the field for a few weeks (hence my lack of previous field reports) and I don't have the time or energy now to go looking for a gal to start from fresh with. I already have some chemistry with this girl. We have already seem each other naked (she made a slight comment about my dick as I pulled up my tight jeans pants back in 2022 when we first met... and I glimpsed to the right on that 2022 beach trip to see the hairs covering her pussy). We have had great conversations so long story short I went on a 1st date with her today.
Picnic Date
We were supposed to go on the date last week Sunday but she cancelled saying she had an issue with her ears and had to go to the doctor. Since she only has a day off on Sunday we rescheduled for today.
This morning I got some meals prepared. I cooked:
And bought ready:
I don't remember most of the conversation and the date lasted almost 3 hours so I'll give the highlights of what took place:
She initiated ending the date because she had obligations to deliver a present to one of her friends children. So we packed up the stuff.
At the end of the date as we walked to the exit of the garden she said "I actually enjoyed today, let me buy you an ice cream". However as we approached the ice cream truck, it was closed so that did not pan out.
At the main road I waited with her so she could get a taxi to go home and that wait was about 2 minutes. Right before she went in the car she gave me a sideways hug.
I texted her tonight about 4 hours after the date ended to let her know I enjoyed spending time with her today and asked if she got home safe.
Diana responded with a voice message saying "aww yeah I got in a while ago and it was so chill, so relaxing, no stress (laughing)"
My Rating Of The Date
With all those details above I rate this 1st date a 8/10
Why so high? Because it seems she had a really great time and so did I. I was being 100% myself. No fucks in this world. Yes I can see where I made a few mistakes such as having conversation about having kids e.t.c. that places me in the slow game / boyfriend territory. Or kissing her on her upper back while an older lady sat about 70 feet away looking at us. But you know what! Fuck it!
If I were more bold back in 2022 I probably could have fucked the shit out of this naked chick standing 3 feet away as we both changed from wet to dry clothes trying to pretend we were not looking at each other through the corner of our eyes.
So If I'm going to blow my opportunities with this girl, I'm going to blow it fast. I like this girl and would make her my girlfriend. But I'm on such a tight financial budget and have more important priorities at the moment that dating really should not be on my mind. But for peace of mind, getting regular booty, and just having a woman to consistently talk to, I think it's worth the shot. She is a very nice young lady. So let's see where this goes.
PeacockMan
Backstory
On a road trip with my best friends and acquaintances back in September 2022 I met Diana Bell who came on a trip and was invited by one of my acquaintances. It was a beach trip and for 80% of the day myself and this girl spent together doing the following activities:
- Swam together
- Skin to skin in the water i.e she was either on my back or in my arms face to face with me holding her. She had on a 2 piece bikini and I had on a shorts and underwear only. We spent about 40% of the day doing this while having conversation
- We shared out first meal together. One cup of soup and 2 spoons used to drink while she referred to me as "babe"
- 20% of the time spent having get to know you conversation in the water with no physical contact but in close proximity
- At the end of the day when most of the group had gone in a boat for a tour around the city, myself and her decided to change. The large bus (capacity 35 people) that transported us to the trip, myself and her used as our changing room. I probably had a chance to fuck her then and there 1st day of meeting her but I did not because I did not know how to escalate when a young lady I did not know entered the bus and started changing too. But that young lady wrapped herself tight in her towel to change in full privacy. Meanwhile myself and Diana Bell were literally naked side by side. I had a towel covering my penis only and she had a towel covering her vagina. If I glanced 90 degrees to the right I could see her ass and boobs and we were about 3 feet apart. So failed escalation to sex. My dick was hard as a rock and I used the towel to attempt to hide it because I did not know how to just make a 90 degree turn and touch her to fuck.
And I was not sure how the other young lady in the bus about 10 feet away would feel or respond.
From September 2022 to about April 2023 Diana Bell flaked on several dates repeatedly and other times when she said she was available I had work. So I cut contact with her for over a year. Fast forward about 6 weeks ago, there was this work opportunity and I knew she had experience doing so I reached out to her via Instagram to invite her and we later exchange numbers again via DM's.
About 3 weeks ago I invited her to another road trip myself and the same group of friends were going to and she called me up and said something along the lines:
"I know you like me so why not just skip asking me to come on a road trip and ask me out on a proper date? Even my best friend knows you like me and it's funny because we were talking about you a few weeks back just before you reached out via DM's"
I had already mentally written this girl off as a waste of time but the fact she called me and for about 20 minutes made conversation to hint she likes me very much and would like to skip a social invite to date me, I decided to give it a go and move for results rather than reactions.
My Pre Date Take On Diana Bell
The cold reads or assumptions I am making may be 100% wrong but I am going to list them anyway
- Based on my previous conversation with my female best friend in 2023 this girl may have flaked on dating me because she had a boyfriend and their relationship rekindled.
- This girl was 28 in 2022 and she will be 30 years old in a few months. She had made it clear she is done with her ex boyfriend and it seems that she has either hit the wall or has decided to give me a chance because she really liked me but was just unavailble. It seems her boyfriend at the time when she was 28 was incredibly insecure and could let go of her so she decided to keep dating him.
- Diana said she works 6 days per week and only has Sundays off and she is tired of spending the days and nights not socializing. So now she is back again the dating market looking for her next boyfriend.
- I'm getting indicators she is looking to slow game me for a long term boyfriend or marriage.
And to be honest I really like this girl and I've not been active in the field for a few weeks (hence my lack of previous field reports) and I don't have the time or energy now to go looking for a gal to start from fresh with. I already have some chemistry with this girl. We have already seem each other naked (she made a slight comment about my dick as I pulled up my tight jeans pants back in 2022 when we first met... and I glimpsed to the right on that 2022 beach trip to see the hairs covering her pussy). We have had great conversations so long story short I went on a 1st date with her today.
Picnic Date
We were supposed to go on the date last week Sunday but she cancelled saying she had an issue with her ears and had to go to the doctor. Since she only has a day off on Sunday we rescheduled for today.
This morning I got some meals prepared. I cooked:
- Fried Chicken
- Creamy mashed potatoes
And bought ready:
- Chocolate bar
- Round bread rolls
- Chocolate cake
- Soda
I don't remember most of the conversation and the date lasted almost 3 hours so I'll give the highlights of what took place:
- Conversation: Most of the conversation was around the topics of 2 truths and a lie, music playing on the bluetooth speaker, general deep dive about future aspirations eg. how much kids she wants, the food I cooked she judged and rated me an 8/10 chef. There was a lot of playful banter
- Touch: I was in the mental state of "fuck it, if I never see this girl again I'm going to have a good time". The area I selected for the picnic was semi secluded except for an older lady sitting across who kept looking at us. Anyhow I escalated to light kisses on her hand playfully. I casually asked her "what would happen if I kissed you" and she responded with "I'm not much of a kisser for most guys". One of the times she wanted me to retie the strings to her top and as we sat she turned around and I kissed her on her upper back and she laughed. Other times while I sat upright she leaned her back into me as we made conversation. Other times I placed my head right below belly button while she wrapped her legs around my stomach. The overall vibe was we were already a couple except she refused to kiss me on the lips. I attempted to escalate with other forms of touch and ask for compliance eg. hand me the fork, touch her necklace e.t.c.. At one point in time she casually and flirtatiously said "I hate you why are you touching me like this with people passing every now and again". So I stopped at that point and only touched in ways she approved of. Basically all touch she approved of except any to do with kissing. She even sat on my lap as we watched a video. She even casually placed her hand on my dick print.
She initiated ending the date because she had obligations to deliver a present to one of her friends children. So we packed up the stuff.
At the end of the date as we walked to the exit of the garden she said "I actually enjoyed today, let me buy you an ice cream". However as we approached the ice cream truck, it was closed so that did not pan out.
At the main road I waited with her so she could get a taxi to go home and that wait was about 2 minutes. Right before she went in the car she gave me a sideways hug.
I texted her tonight about 4 hours after the date ended to let her know I enjoyed spending time with her today and asked if she got home safe.
Diana responded with a voice message saying "aww yeah I got in a while ago and it was so chill, so relaxing, no stress (laughing)"
My Rating Of The Date
With all those details above I rate this 1st date a 8/10
Why so high? Because it seems she had a really great time and so did I. I was being 100% myself. No fucks in this world. Yes I can see where I made a few mistakes such as having conversation about having kids e.t.c. that places me in the slow game / boyfriend territory. Or kissing her on her upper back while an older lady sat about 70 feet away looking at us. But you know what! Fuck it!
If I were more bold back in 2022 I probably could have fucked the shit out of this naked chick standing 3 feet away as we both changed from wet to dry clothes trying to pretend we were not looking at each other through the corner of our eyes.
So If I'm going to blow my opportunities with this girl, I'm going to blow it fast. I like this girl and would make her my girlfriend. But I'm on such a tight financial budget and have more important priorities at the moment that dating really should not be on my mind. But for peace of mind, getting regular booty, and just having a woman to consistently talk to, I think it's worth the shot. She is a very nice young lady. So let's see where this goes.
PeacockMan
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