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Just broke up with this girl,
She came over after I hadn't seen her for about 1 month. To be honest I wasn't too excited about her, she's pretty but just not doing it for me, etc. But mixed with outbursts of negativities, I'm getting annoyed little by little.
She keeps reminding me of wanting to "go out" to a day party or bar, which is annoying as fuck, yes is more understandable since is during new year's Eve. I'm sick, coughing, and trying to quit alcohol, this does not register in her mind, telling her multiple times. Of course, don't bring a girl to a club.
I managed to find a place that is not too busy, a chill bar type of place. When we finally found a place we sat down for a bit, and more people started showing up. Then there was this older couple who came up to our table, asking if they could sit next to us without bothering us much. I hesitated but it was New Year's Eve so I just gave them the space next to us. When I did, my girl AGAIN said, "FUCK YOU! Why didn't you tell them no" to me. At this point I was done with her behavior, I started to call a taxi and wanted her to leave. She tried to stop me from doing it, but I was frustrated with her behavior and a bit too clingy, argumentative, and moody.
1 day seeing her was fucking overbearing, I can't take her.
We got in a taxi and went back to my flat. I told her to get her things and stay in the other room if she didn't have a place to go, I didn't want to see her anymore.
She pleaded and argued, I just didn't want to hear it, using gaslighting.
It already bothered me. I spent extra money getting an apartment on these specific dates, I have this bitch next to my ear nagging about going to a club/day party blah blah, which I know would be super crowded, I disliked the idea.
A couple of times she said my face was emotionless, didn't care about her. which may be true to some extent.
This one went from 8.5 to 6, how behavior could kill the attraction. She came across as more relationship-orientated and mentioned wanting a baby, I was scared by it subconsciously.
"take your thing, go to the other room, I don't want to see you anymore"
*continue with her nonstop confrontation and argumentative attitude.
When the situation was calmer she arranged a place to go, getting picked up by her sister.
Girl: "I'm sorry for everything"
I was emotionless and I didn't care.
When she was leaving, I couldn't even stand looking at her, I didn't want to make eye contact. She cried as I was emotionless and annoyed. When she exited my door I waited for her to get on the elevator after I just closed my door.
I hate celebrating holidays. It's super crowded, and you see a bunch of losers using specific dates to celebrate because they have nothing to be happy about in their own life and need an excuse to drink some urine(alcohol)
Now I just want to relax and not be bothered.
A couple of key points
-ordering me to wear different clothes, my initial choices weren't good
-asking me to drink alcohol, she DRINKS every time I see her
-bad language, cursing
-angry outbursts
-sex wasn't great, very selfish during sex
-not the "perfect" girl
I wasn't driven so much to have sex anymore, after seeing her again. Cause the past weeks I was just going crazy on the sex marathon which completely depleted me.
I want to make a memory of this girl, I will remember her, I need to move on. Logistics, attitude, smoking, and drinking alcohol all wasn't attractive to me at all.
May she find happiness elsewhere.
She came over after I hadn't seen her for about 1 month. To be honest I wasn't too excited about her, she's pretty but just not doing it for me, etc. But mixed with outbursts of negativities, I'm getting annoyed little by little.
She keeps reminding me of wanting to "go out" to a day party or bar, which is annoying as fuck, yes is more understandable since is during new year's Eve. I'm sick, coughing, and trying to quit alcohol, this does not register in her mind, telling her multiple times. Of course, don't bring a girl to a club.
I managed to find a place that is not too busy, a chill bar type of place. When we finally found a place we sat down for a bit, and more people started showing up. Then there was this older couple who came up to our table, asking if they could sit next to us without bothering us much. I hesitated but it was New Year's Eve so I just gave them the space next to us. When I did, my girl AGAIN said, "FUCK YOU! Why didn't you tell them no" to me. At this point I was done with her behavior, I started to call a taxi and wanted her to leave. She tried to stop me from doing it, but I was frustrated with her behavior and a bit too clingy, argumentative, and moody.
1 day seeing her was fucking overbearing, I can't take her.
We got in a taxi and went back to my flat. I told her to get her things and stay in the other room if she didn't have a place to go, I didn't want to see her anymore.
She pleaded and argued, I just didn't want to hear it, using gaslighting.
It already bothered me. I spent extra money getting an apartment on these specific dates, I have this bitch next to my ear nagging about going to a club/day party blah blah, which I know would be super crowded, I disliked the idea.
A couple of times she said my face was emotionless, didn't care about her. which may be true to some extent.
This one went from 8.5 to 6, how behavior could kill the attraction. She came across as more relationship-orientated and mentioned wanting a baby, I was scared by it subconsciously.
"take your thing, go to the other room, I don't want to see you anymore"
*continue with her nonstop confrontation and argumentative attitude.
When the situation was calmer she arranged a place to go, getting picked up by her sister.
Girl: "I'm sorry for everything"
I was emotionless and I didn't care.
When she was leaving, I couldn't even stand looking at her, I didn't want to make eye contact. She cried as I was emotionless and annoyed. When she exited my door I waited for her to get on the elevator after I just closed my door.
I hate celebrating holidays. It's super crowded, and you see a bunch of losers using specific dates to celebrate because they have nothing to be happy about in their own life and need an excuse to drink some urine(alcohol)
Now I just want to relax and not be bothered.
A couple of key points
-ordering me to wear different clothes, my initial choices weren't good
-asking me to drink alcohol, she DRINKS every time I see her
-bad language, cursing
-angry outbursts
-sex wasn't great, very selfish during sex
-not the "perfect" girl
I wasn't driven so much to have sex anymore, after seeing her again. Cause the past weeks I was just going crazy on the sex marathon which completely depleted me.
I want to make a memory of this girl, I will remember her, I need to move on. Logistics, attitude, smoking, and drinking alcohol all wasn't attractive to me at all.
May she find happiness elsewhere.
