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So after the gym I had to do housework (in case) and get my killer outfit ready (tight white pants, blue shoes & belt, blue & red checked shirt in a medium with interesting detailing, lots of bling)...and write some letters etc...made it down to the shopping centre at midday with 3hrs before school pickup and a commitment to do 10 approaches or an insta date whatever comes first 
Initially some confidence problems, threw away several great oppties w hotties who walked into my path etc, threw away some other oppties with eye contact problems...followed another hotty for a few min but too slow, she disappeared around a corner...decided I needed a bit of momentum so went to buy some pyjamas for my kids, got some solid flirting in with assistant and some storytelling about crazy kid experiences, she looked up my membership by phone no. and I joked that now she has my number if she needs me to come and rescue her from the kids...stayed around for further chat but note my rule is working girls don't count atm (fish in a barrel hahaha).
Walked around a bit more and found a crowded coffee shop, another eye contact error as I glanced over at a prospect who wasn't actually that hot but since she caught me looking I decided to go over and ask to sit with her, made some desultory conversation but she was clearly uninterested (my approach was off in any case and I couldn't see a way to salvage with any sexual frames even though she was reading football section of the paper)...anyway then I was feeling better cos hey, that's #1 of 10 even if it was only so so.
Said goodbye to her and went into bookshop, this is where matters improved, spied an Asian hotty in the back of the store so I did a few circuits and eventually came up beside her, pre opened w an arm touch and said hi there, and asked if she could recommend something, she was receptive and accepted an introduction and handshake but my conversation was pretty boring and with no help from her fizzled out after a few min... decided she wasn't into me, squeezed in front of her and browsed in back section for a while... spotted another prospect coming towards me and bingo. Was initially wondering if it was the same girl (I would have joked it's nice to have her back and tried again) but no, she was taller and hot! when she came in front of me and then turned to the shelves right beside me it was the best invitation I was gonna get, I opened with a hi there and some chat about books and an introduction, asked where she was from and told her she looked absolutely stunning, game on
she recommended me some great books and accepted an insta date for hot choc, great compliance (I gave her $10 and made her get the drinks for us and told her where to join me and then ordered her to sit next to me after), deep dived & chase framed for 1.5hrs, we both have strong interest in travel, history, reading, languages so no hardship there. number closed halfway thru & got in principle agreement to a date same place early next week (a few min walk from my home). walked her to bus station & ordered her to come in for a hug and a kiss (she offered both cheeks). now on way to school so keeping it brief. 
Initially some confidence problems, threw away several great oppties w hotties who walked into my path etc, threw away some other oppties with eye contact problems...followed another hotty for a few min but too slow, she disappeared around a corner...decided I needed a bit of momentum so went to buy some pyjamas for my kids, got some solid flirting in with assistant and some storytelling about crazy kid experiences, she looked up my membership by phone no. and I joked that now she has my number if she needs me to come and rescue her from the kids...stayed around for further chat but note my rule is working girls don't count atm (fish in a barrel hahaha).
Walked around a bit more and found a crowded coffee shop, another eye contact error as I glanced over at a prospect who wasn't actually that hot but since she caught me looking I decided to go over and ask to sit with her, made some desultory conversation but she was clearly uninterested (my approach was off in any case and I couldn't see a way to salvage with any sexual frames even though she was reading football section of the paper)...anyway then I was feeling better cos hey, that's #1 of 10 even if it was only so so.
Said goodbye to her and went into bookshop, this is where matters improved, spied an Asian hotty in the back of the store so I did a few circuits and eventually came up beside her, pre opened w an arm touch and said hi there, and asked if she could recommend something, she was receptive and accepted an introduction and handshake but my conversation was pretty boring and with no help from her fizzled out after a few min... decided she wasn't into me, squeezed in front of her and browsed in back section for a while... spotted another prospect coming towards me and bingo. Was initially wondering if it was the same girl (I would have joked it's nice to have her back and tried again) but no, she was taller and hot! when she came in front of me and then turned to the shelves right beside me it was the best invitation I was gonna get, I opened with a hi there and some chat about books and an introduction, asked where she was from and told her she looked absolutely stunning, game on