2 Questions about Pick-up

[jimmykages]

Hi guys,

The past few weeks, about 1/3 of the girls i've approached, seemed excited and were compliant, however, when i'd suggest to go grab a coffee and exchange phone numbers, they would answer 'i have a boyfriend'. I did not persist after that, in all cases, respecting the fact they have a boyfriend and not to go into complications, but my question is, if you guys were in the same situation, would you have persisted anyways? And if so, how?

Second question, today in my 'girls hunt', I approached 4 girls, the first 3 didn't work out, however the fourth and last one, she was excited and compliant,we talked a little, and then I suggested for use to grab a coffee during this week, which she responded positively with enthusiasm. So as she was about to write down her number in my cell phone, my battery died. I couldn't remember my number so went with an option that strategically is not really good but was my only option - I gave her my facebook. When I returned home and saw her profile, her profile photo along with some other photos, are pictures of her with an other good looking guy and 'congratulations' type of comments underneath. It appears to be a serious relationship, however I may be wrong. My questions is, what do you think about this - why would a girl with a bf be so excited and compliant in meeting with me? And how would you deal with it?

Any suggestions to those questions are much appreciated!

Cheers!

 

[Loser2Winner]

9/10 wen a girl says she has a bf she's either serious and/or not interested in you.

there no point in trying to further the convo.

about the second question - girls love attention. if she msgs u then great, but if not it doesn't look like anything is gonna go down.

 

[Mr.Rob]

why would a girl with a bf be so excited and compliant in meeting with me?

I meet married girls from time to time that respond highly positively and sometimes don't even mention their married but aren't going to do anything with me. Girls enjoy being validated and having attractive men talk to them, simple enough.

As far as the boyfriend objection goes a lot of times it is a brush off (especially if your new) however sometimes girls say it matter-o-factly and if you have good fundamentals will follow your lead anyway (whether that's morally right on your part is for you to decide).
However there is another group of girls I've chatted with that say they have boyfriends and I personally don't believe them and just keep leading/chatting like nothing (or be like "cool I have a puppy at my house.. so anyway blah blah blah) happened. Sometimes you find they were originally trying to brush you off and didn't realize you were as cool as you actually are.