2 women like me, they know each other. Do I have to choose?

[TheGuy05]

Hi guys,

I'm new at this forum, but I know some game.
Now I'm in a situation where I haven't been before, and would appreciate the advice

There was a weekend, organized by a social club I'm in.
I met 2 women there, from the club with let's say location A.
My club is in location B, but we got together for the weekend. A gathering, so to speak.

Clearly both women are interested in me, and I am interested in both women.
Woman 1 has told me she's looking for a relationship eventually. She's more serious.
Woman 2 hasn't said anything about that, but she's certainly more the flirty kind.

I am sure that over the course of the weekend, they became aware that each has an interest in me.
The 2 women get along well with each other, and they meet frequently (since they're from the same club).

I could go on a date with each of them.
At the end of the weekend, Woman 2 even explicitly asked me if we could meet again.

What I want in general?
I want to date, then decide if I want to start a relationship with a woman who I truly match with.
Both could fit that description, as it's still very early.

Where do I need your advice?
I want to date both women equally, I can't choose at this point. But do I have to?
=> Do I run a risk of losing them both if I ask them both out?
(not for a date at the same time of course)


They know each other, they meet and I'm sure they talk.

 

[Fuck This]

Don't ask dont tell...

...meaning don't ask their permission to see the other one. Don't tell them about the other.

But ASSUME they are going to talk about you, and if asked if you are seeing the other turn the question on her...

"Would you want me telling your best friend(girl2) what you and I did on a date? You are welcome to, but I don't talk about my dates with other people." (implying discresion)

"I'm still getting to know you."

"so how do you (girl 1 and 2) know each other?" find out about their relationship. That will tell you about whether they are going to compete over you or gang up on you.

Date the most likely option first. The one who explicitly mentioned getting together.

 

[TheGuy05]

Don't ask dont tell...

...meaning don't ask their permission to see the other one. Don't tell them about the other.

But ASSUME they are going to talk about you, and if asked if you are seeing the other turn the question on her...

"Would you want me telling your best friend(girl2) what you and I did on a date? You are welcome to, but I don't talk about my dates with other people." (implying discresion)

"I'm still getting to know you."

"so how do you (girl 1 and 2) know each other?" find out about their relationship. That will tell you about whether they are going to compete over you or gang up on you.

Date the most likely option first. The one who explicitly mentioned getting together.

Since they probably talk and see each other frequently, do I not run a risk of blowing my chances with the woman who didn't explicitly ask to get back together? (If I asked her, she would 99% sure say yes to meet)

 

[Fuck This]

Since they probably talk and see each other frequently, do I not run a risk of blowing my chances with the woman who didn't explicitly ask to get back together? (If I asked her, she would 99% sure say yes to meet)

If she did not make her interest known overtly, that is your out if she is offended that you asked the other girl.

Is your goal to date them both?
Can you propose a double date with a wingman to further assess which is your higher probability? 1 out of 2 is better than 0/2.