20 Guys To Deal With

[Smurf]

Hey guys.

So I'm trying to talk to this girl at school, and apparently, she's very attractive because whenever I see her, she is literally being FOLLOWED by two or three guys. Each time it's a different one, too. I tried talking to her today, but she was surrounded by 3 guys so I didn't see a point in trying to talk to her so I just ejected. If anyone has any tips to get her alone, I'd VERY MUCH appreciate it. I do think she's interested in me, I just have to pull this off right.

Jake.

 

[Thedoctor]

Jake,

First off, make sure your fundamentals are 100%! Then, when she has 2 or 3 guys around her, walk right up to her and address her directly. Say something along the lines of this conversation:

"Hey, I was wondering if you're dating either of these guys you're here with?"
Her: "No"
You: "Well, I'd like to take you out to lunch ...you know, somewhere where you don't have your fan club with you."

Obviously, there's a better chance if you do at one point spot her on her own. But, from what you're saying, it seems that having guys around is usually the case. This is more of a hail-mary and depends even more on your fundamentals and approach. Even if she says no, handle that well, and you'll definitely be under her radar.

-Doc

 

[Smurf]

Hey Doc,

That's an interesting technique - bold is definitely the word. I'll try it out and report back if I don't find her alone. I've been laying low so I don't chase before I get a plan ready.

Jake.

 

[Flames]

I'd like to add to the previous comment in that the way I do it is engage, then walk away (disengage). This works very well for me and will make them chase you, usually, which is what you want.

 

[hillshift]

Do not be intimidated by any other dudes around her for sure - in fact, introduce/befriend them. Be the X-factor, something new that she's never seen before. I like the idea of engaging with them confidently and then going about your business. Don't become one of the followers, it doesn't sound like a cool club. You can only do this if you completely accept failure as an option and do not care one way or the other.

Try to look at the situation with a knowing smirk ("these guys are wasting their time following her around like that...") - extra points if she can pick up on that subtle look when you are around them. The truth is, they probably are wasting their time, she is probably an attention whore and uses these poor schmucks to boost her self-esteem. I don't know the situation, but what girl wouldn't use that boost her ego? A rare one, that's for sure...

Also, work on more girls in your spare time as well - nothing builds confidence knowing you have options or potential options. Eventually you will see that you can create options for yourself - she would notice confidence like that. It would prob. be in start contrast to the dudes who follow her around like puppies lol...