2016, reflecting and looking ahead.

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

2016 has been one of the wildest years not only for me but I can say also the world in general, whether it is politics or sports, it's been a wild year and it's not even completely over yet. For me, it was the year when I got laid more than at any other time of my life, confronted some of my biggest demons from the past, asked myself the tough questions, and saw the most progress than at any other time of my life. Whatever I learned from Girlschase, it really started to come to fruition in 2016 and I feel like 2017 might bring about even more fun experiences.

I am going to talk about my life in when it comes to women/dating, my top 3 accomplishments, 3 lessons I learned, and 3 goals for 2017/things I would like to get accomplished. Would like it if you guys did well for yourselves as well!

Women, dating and sex:

Lays: 16
Dates: About 24

16 new lays for 2016, 25 total but as you can see, the vast majority of them came in 2016. Moving to NYC was huge for me, the place is pretty much an all you can eat buffet (pun intended) in regards to women.

3 accomplishments:

1 - The obvious, got laid more than I have in any other year of my life.

2 - Became more confident with women to where I am usually the best with them in my crowd of friends. Approach anxiety hardly exists anymore and I am not as hurt by rejection as I used to be.

3 - 10 girls a week with Oh Pry. Keeping myself accountable with my journal and it has me approaching, already got me one amazing lay and I'll get back on it when I get back home to NYC. Some say 10 is too low but I say you have to start somewhere.

3 lessons:

I've learned more than 3, link at the end to a thread I posted a while but here are 3 to the specific situation.

1 - You don't need to get with your "type" in order to enjoy this. Used to whine about not being able to get blonde bombshells and I've gotten a couple this year (well tbh they're not really "bombshells", more like blondes that are cute) but most women I've been with fit the look of a sexy tanned skin brunette. Not even sure why but I tend to have a very easy time getting with women with that kind of a look and I've enjoyed the sex as well as the intimate moments a lot. In the back of my mind, maybe I want to get with more of my type but I am not as bothered by it because even if I don't, I can have some damn good times that will stay with me for a while.

Eating out a brunette with a nice athletic body was probably one of the highlights of my year when it came to women and dating.

2 - The advice might be good but in the end, it's all about getting yourself out there. There is a lot of improvising and thinking on your feet going on once you're actually out there, meeting women, and trying to close the deal. Some of the success I've had during the nights I closed the deal, it was nothing like I would have scripted, it just happened and it is so hard to describe how it did.

3 - Nothing gets women going like a workout. I would intentionally take longer walks to my apartment with my dates and sometimes use the stairs instead of the elevator. After they were tired, I would let them relax, make out with them, and they were down to fuck. The clothes easily came off, they quickly got nude, and the sex was that much better. I've thought about going jogging with my dates if I can and then finding a way to get them back to my apartment

3 goals:

1 - The most obvious one, validation and getting over my social demons from the past.

Not being one of the cool kids growing up, not fitting in as well, being a social outcast in my college days, not getting a taste of that sort of cool kid trendy life. I haven't fixed that part of my life, would like to, but I haven't. I have posted a few threads on it, they've got good discussions going, but I feel like I am just not there yet. By the end of 2017, I want to make significant strides in fixing this issue just like I fixed the issue I had with dating and attracting women before I came to this site.

2 - Grow my social life instead of just being good with women.

In the long run, I see myself getting into an LTR and having a big social circle that I get to enjoy things with. Instead of always approaching women and sleeping around, I want to do it to where I am satisfied with it and then move more towards an LTR. What will make me happy is having a girlfriend, having a lot of amazing friends, occasionally enjoying fun outings with them, and just living it up in my 20s.

3 - Get with more women who are my type.

I've said it, I mainly get with tanned brunettes and the sex is amazing, I can keep fucking cute tanned brunettes for the rest of my life and I'll likely hit triple digits fast because I just have an easy time getting with them. That being said, I would like to fuck a few blonde bombshells just to kinda get over that hump if guys catch my drift. If I fail to do so, it's not going to make me miserable like it would have made me a year ago because as I said, I'll take the many fun filled nights with some sexy brunettes who are just a lot more receptive to me but I'll continue to go after the women who are my type as well. Either way, I am going to be feeling good because the kinds of women I do well with can fuck.

How about you guys?

 

[Ergon]

Congrats on your 2016

For me 2016 was a year of change. Many times I felt like I couldn't recognize myself because of how big were the results and change in midsets I had.

Dates: 5
Pulls: 6
Make outs: about 10?

3 Accomplishments:

1. First direct approach, first date, first inviting a girl home.

2. I improved my physique by dressing better, eating better and working out at least 3 times per week. I'm still not where I want to be with these but enough that people compliment me on specific items or how I'm not skinny anymore, and I catch more girls staring at me.

3. In the period of one year and a half I went from can't-look-to-girls-in-the-eye to flirting with girls by habit.

3 Lessons:

1. Charming or socially savvy can mean you get favors, gifts, special treatment and attention from others without even seeking it.

2. When you work on being attractive, you take action and you feel confident , girls notice, flirt with you, get touchy, smile at you, approach you or grind on you. More than that? I still have to find out.

3. When you're good at something, it shows. Bragging or lying is mostly counterproductive.

3 Goals:

1. Lose my v-card.

2. Keep improving with girls and social savviness.

I've always been bad in these aspects. In elementary and middle school I was bullied. Then in high school I was under the wing of the most charismatic and sociable guys. So I found then that I wanted to be as good as them , although now I want to be among the best anywhere.
Also, I've been good in many things, but never in the social arena, so I want to prove myself that I can be the best at what I was the worst before.

3. Make it consistent.

Throughout this year I had periods when I didn't go out or socialize at all. I need to adopt a sustainable lifestyle and make meeting girls a fixed part of my weeks. But for that I need to manage my time better, ditch bad habits and time sinks.

Extra: Finish the newbie.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

One more thing, if I can get over my anxiety in this regard, I am going to start posting pics of girls I've been with right after I have been with them.

 

[The Armani Code]

No lays, a couple dates, and at this point my mind is focused on moving out of the Bay Area.

3 accomplishments:

1 - A few dates.

2 - Got over approach anxiety.

3 - Got promoted at work!

3 Lessons:

1 - I need to move out of the bay area.

2 - Plans rarely go as you thought they would, a lot of stuff happens.

3 - Action over thoughts but you still need to have a gameplan.

3 goals:

1 - Get out of the bay area.

2 - Find a job in my favorite city, ideally out of CA.

3 - Finalize on what I want to go to grad school for.

 

[skin_man]

A bomb thread. Will return with my stats.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

To think how far I slipped on GC to where I have not even updated my New Years threads. To be frankly honest, I am not that big on New Years Resolutions anymore, you just kind of do it. Even looking back at it, how in 2016 I had about 25 lays total (two years into joining GC) and now I am north of 110, progress sure as hell feels great. It's fun to think that no matter where I am, I still have ways to go.

Lays: I lost count with so much going on, wanna say north of 20 but I don't post lay reports as much as I used to

3 Accomplishments

1. Found a way to get laid a lot through online dating, hobbies, and some social status situations with well above average looking women. I think this is something which has in some ways limited my game growth as I get approach anxiety cold approaching but at the same time, the benefits have been massive. I sometimes fap to the girls I have fucked in the past, it's been some memorable experiences!

2. Lost almost all past trauma and limiting beliefs about race, age, and college experience. I thank @Franco for dealing with my shit here but also other members who kept me honest. I feel mentally free right now which is huge.

3. Am at a point where I know the prime spots in Manhattan for meeting women and can take my friends and visitors to such spots as well. Huge to know that I am at a point where I am really a part of this city and can find the best parties, the many weekends of going out have paid huge dividends!

3 Lessons

1. No matter how good you get, you will miss that adrenaline rush of daygame and nightgame. Even if you have hobbies and social circle that feeds you women that want you, at some point you will still miss the times you could talk to a woman cold and take her out. I found that even though I was balls deep in a blonde bombshell I met through a hobby, I still missed that one time in college I took home that Arab French chick and had amazing sex with her.

2. Things are never the same inside when you are on the outside looking in. You may think certain guys are getting laid and sleeping with models, the reality is far from the perception. Even the top tier naturals are not living like a Dan Bilzerian, for more on this, read my locked there here on my biggest epiphany:

The biggest epiphany I've had about women, game and life to date. (Long Post)

I don't even know where to begin this, in fact, I was at a loss of words for hours when I went through this whole thing. I even thought about holding off on this post but then my gut finally told me that this could be a change that happens forever. It isn't that the conversation I had with an...

www.skilledseducer.com

3. Women still love to be worked and dominated before you fuck them. I found that some of the best sex I have had, I cuddled with her and carried her around a bit before putting my cock inside of her. Women love to be helpless when you fuck them (with consent obviously!), it is the weirdest shit I find true to this very day.

3 goals

1. Get a side job in nightlife. I am already too old for some bars and it is fucking me up a lot in the head. I didn't get to do it when I was younger and really wanna get it out of the system. It is about time I finalize and get on it for good, @Hue has given me good advice even though it is tough to apply in NYC.

2. Transition out of my cut-throat profession and into a more laid back career, potentially consider an MBA here if needed. I think the long hours and uncertain travel are doing a number on me, not sure how much longer I can take it before I collapse. Despite having the prestige, few people make partner, they just dangle the god damned carrot in front of you and the coworkers I have are also really cut-throat people.

3. Travel internationally. Went to France not that long ago and had so much fun with women there, set to go to Poland, Hungary, and potentially Russia in 2020. Not many good threads out there saying what countries are good for a handsome South Asian male, I'll lead that way, and only tell guys like @Grand Pooba and @Kvothe about it since I do not want creepy Indian dudes flooding into these countries!

Bonus:

Master daygame and nightgame for good.

Get back into amazing shape!

 

[Mike Silvertree]

One more thing, if I can get over my anxiety in this regard, I am going to start posting pics of girls I've been with right after I have been with them.

Please do not do that. As of December 13, 2019, that is not allowed here. Please read the post below.

We are serious about this. There could be legal hassles for us, and it violates the privacy of the women whose pics are posted.

POLICY UPDATE: No screen dumps, women's pictures, personal details, or "PM me for pics"

Howdy folks, We've had to warn several forum members recently over a handful of incidents: One member revealed personally identifying information he happened to have about another member that that member had not shared publicly Another member posted screenshots of women he'd had dates with...

www.skilledseducer.com

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Please do not do that. As of December 13, 2019, that is not allowed here. Please read the post below.

We are serious about this. There could be legal hassles for us, and it violates the privacy of the women whose pics are posted.

POLICY UPDATE: No screen dumps, women's pictures, personal details, or "PM me for pics"

Howdy folks, We've had to warn several forum members recently over a handful of incidents: One member revealed personally identifying information he happened to have about another member that that member had not shared publicly Another member posted screenshots of women he'd had dates with...

www.skilledseducer.com

that post was likely from 2016

 

[Mike Silvertree]

OK