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2022 EDITION*** In The Mirror And The Future - Annual Results And Goals

Swati

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Hey Guys, Happy New Year!!! Here is a throwback to the old days


******People who've been gaming, I would like to see your guys' input as well!*********


I flipped through ALOT of materials for quantity/quality but I can't seem to find many this post originally from Hector does a great job at keeping a score.

A LOT of people lie about their count/results

"HIS GETTING LAID ALOT!!!!" (turns out he gets 2-5 a year and bangs hookers too)

Lays correlate with your skills plain and simple. lays counts matter, you can see how you progress over time, shows your consistency. I know people who have been in the game for 6-7 years goes in dry spells for 3-4 month+ go to mega clubs all the time 6-7 nights a week, have dogshit game, meet to lays, shit habits, etc.

THEY ALL MATTER!

My conclusion of 2022 is that it always could have been better, calibration improvement, situational calibration, frame control, social frame, language, push-pull, and more technicalities

meet to lay ratio... OK.. the day when I'm pulling is around 10 approaches, give or take, had ones that are 1st approach or the last approach of the night on the 8th, etc nothing crazy like Mr. rat cake, claims 1/100 lol

Results 2022
New Lays: 20
LR- (BJ, sucking boobs, etc...): (I find this one funny, I've never had a blow but not fuck loL)
Total Dates: a few from online, I'd say if they went on a date 70% I'm closing including the foreign, lacking a social frame
Total Approaches: Game approaches 500-600, 95% night game approaches

Top Accomplishments 2022:
1. accomplished to found a solo game to be easier day/game, but requires overcoming mental blockage. Momentum, knowing how to build it
2. achieve gaming consistency
3. a better understanding of the social frame and having to set it
4. more confident, bettering frame control, and understanding of how to utilize frame/Metaframe, etc.
5. being consistent and putting in work in seduction

2022 Goals
1. GET MORE LAYS/FUCKS, improve the quality.... kinda achieved
2. Get more girls outside of my social frame... achieved
3. outcompete a lot of guys I know (not the most healthy mindset, but whatever)...
4. be able to pull solo and meet game guys who inspire me (met a few)...at times
5. have a rotation... failed


Top Learnings 2022: what you learned in 2022
1. Night game is more doable, and less intimidating compared to 2021
2. YOUR CAN"T GET every girl even if she finds you attractive
3. technical material always outperforms just go approach broooo
4. I'm attractive and ALOT of girls would LOVE to have sex with me
5. sexual field is ruthless, girls have no morals don't expect it, and pursue it until they can't. I quote from Chase,
"average men are more prude than the average women" and "women love sex"

Women's Goals for 2023:
1. Get 9+ on my scale, since my quality is improving from last year, the overall rating has gone down. but I also paid a lot of taxes! the overall is a bell curve distribution
2. implement more funnels to get girls
3. retain girls that I want, I lacked passion this 2022 and was too aloof after sex looking back resulted in losing GF-quality girls
4. have girls who are friends and be my wing girl, gonna be hard...
5. understand windows and subconscious behaviors better, and know how to capitalize on it
6. improving my ability to not be in a dry spell, or get out of it FAST, a couple of weeks of it I feel like a loser
7. work on my sex talk/NLP/ hypnotic talks
8. frame control, social proof ( work the room) improvements
9. Get better with mixed groups, have been improving
10. be more animalistic and sexualize when there's a window, be faster to set sexual frame. Have no shame in sexual desire, but deliver/game indirectly

Other Goals for 2023:
1. Become financially free, 2022 has fucked up my money pretty well lol! gotta have better time management methods to pull in more money
2. be able to travel more, and set up a couple of bases I like
3. Improve fundamentals
4. Meeting inspiring figures in seduction and making money
5. Getting access to HOTTER/beautiful/ gf quality girls
6. Close 50 girls
 
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Swati

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So it's game approaches 500 then - your post is a bit unclear and I assume English is not your first language.

Even if it's 500, that's still 1 in 25 ratio. Not 1 in 10.
congratulations, you know how to do 1st grade math

you really cant read. let me reiterate, "the day I'm pulling is 1/10"

@Helanes I'm giving an example of days I pulled. I mentioned there are times where I pulled it was the 1st or the 8th yes it also includes nights when I'm didn't pull. But when I'm not maybe 0/5 if I'm having a bad night.

if is not game I'm not counting it. reread the post noob. I should have also posted noobs aren't welcome to argue ratios or post here
 
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Don Giovanni

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I started this year with intention of figuring out night game. I moved to a completely foreign city 3 months before, 1 year student exchange, made a couple of friends, and was experimenting with game before day and night, but just couldn’t seem to get anywhere. I was posting reguraly in my journal about that. At the end of the year, christmas holidays I decideded to quit fumbling around and go all in on night game (which still got me more results) and to study just @Teevster articles.

January came, I started going out. Oh and I was 100% sober all the time. Which was a massive improvement for me as I was, still am sometimes, dealing with anxiousness, used to have panic attacks, and was numbing that with alcohol.

Here are the stats:

Lays: 4 (All night game - most memorable the girl with a boyfriend I fucked on the parking lot of a train station the train she was going on just 15min after she squirted over me 3 times… plus she was the hottest for my taste)

FU: at least 4 (most memorable the girl I was taking home then I stoped to help I guy passing out on the street ended up waiting for the ambulance and my girl, which I made out before in the club toilet, remembered she has a boyfriend. Oh or the one where I lifted the girl and carried her to the bedroom after we made out for 30min at some house party then the host threw us out… I remember those even more for some reason)
Approaches: I think around 200 - 300? I don’t know.

I guess that makes it 1/75?

The thing is I was still dealing with anxiety when I got to the club. It was my regular rutine to just calm my nerves, chill around at the club and then start after 30-60min when I relax.

Another thing which I think the reason I lost A LOT of lays is persistance. I was bailing out of sets too early, giving up on the night because I made my 3 approaches and “wasn’t feeling it” and stuff like that. I was hesitating when I should’ve just gone for it.

I also learned a lot about psychology while practicing material. It was just fascinating watching girls get compliant and horny when I delivered the material. I was starting to see the structure, I was starting to enjoy going out sober and it was great. I am really grateful again for opening, hooking and sex talk material I learned from @Teevster and I have still so much to learn.

My study year abroad came to an end at the end of summer. Returned back to my home town, back to my social circle. Sadly that same circle got me back into a habit of drinking on weekends, but this ends this year. Funny how you really are going to turn out just as the people you hang around with… Just that you don’t know it while you’re there.

2023 goals

1. Quantity… + 10
2. “make the hoe say no” - persistance
3. No alcohol, yup not a drop this whole year. I was just overall happier sober anyway.
4. Learn SMMA @Gunwitch

Unfortunately I’m not able to do 20a in a day/ night in a town I live in right now. My plan is to go out every Fri/ Sat, do some daygame by the side and every month take a trip with the train to a bigger city and do the spam approaching exercises there.

Also a reminder to myself: fuck social circle. As you change the country you see the great majority are just aquaintances.

@Helanes I respectfully ask you to keep me out of it.
 
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