LR 28 years old Kenyan girl - beating the LMR

[Seppuku]

This woman is a 28 yrs old Kenyan girl, working as a taxi driver here. I contacted her on Sunday out of a systematic approach session in Badoo. Chat goes well, so we setup the date for Monday evening.

I see her at 7pm at the Kempinski hotel - here in Doha the places with music and alcohol are always in large hotels. Her pictures in Badoo were not that nice, so it’s a nice surprise when I see her because she’s actually feminine and pretty... And can’t help noticing these generous african shapes lol. We go to the Z Lounge (the skybar, with panoramic city view), I get social preselection from the staff there who recognizes me, including the gorgeous south african waitress.

Good vibe with my date. We have dinner and drinks, I'm on white wine, and she doesn’t drink alcohol. I do a little incidental touching while we eat. Teach her to use the chopsticks. Share some food. Then we chat and she does most of the talking, her ex husband, her american boyfriend before. I venture my arms around her shoulders as she talk. She’s not that touchy but she seems to accept my arm quite well. Two glasses of wine, two hours of deep diving, time to pull. I take her to look at the city view, have her closely in my arms while doing so. “Can I suggest we go to my place and listen some music?” said with a confident tone. She pretends to give a token resistance. Checks the time, it’s only 9pm. Lol, why do you think I start the date at 7pm darling ;-). Some blabla that I have to sleep early. Ok darling, let’s go, and we're off to my place. Good thing, she’s the one driving. Very rare with all the girls I meet here.

She comes home, sets herself comfortable. I serve her water (my orange juice is outdated, I otherwise only have wine lol) and put music. She’s in the sofa, on the Rubik’s cube. I solve it, then she wants me to teach her. She’s in my arms close against me. I start some kissing. We do a few moves on the Rubik’s cube, then I engage the kiss. Make out. Then neck. There are these two majestic boobs. “Hello!” I tell to the right boob. “Her name is Elena. Hello Elena.” I kiss Elena. The other boob is called Sofia. “Hello Sofia”. God, the boobs are well packaged, it’s a tight dress and bra. “What’s the secret to this dress?” As she asks what I mean, I already found the zip in the backside and pulled it a bit open.

There’s now a beginning of restlessness. “You need to drink your wine”. I pull out and drink a bit. She realizes I have opened her zip 10cm in the back other dress. I sense the LMR coming. But go for it nevertheless. My kiss is welcome so I doubt her determination. I get to pull the dress a little and extract one boob (Elena, the right boob) and suck it long. OMG she likes it so much. My hand under her dress. I extract her sister Sofia and suck it. Her hand is now under my Lacoste polo. I take it and put it on my dick. “This is my friend Paul”. She starts to mutter something about time to sleep and she should go. Her hand is on my dick, via the trousers. I remove my belt and unbutton my trousers, she explores and extract my friend Paul. No BJ, she just plays a bit.

OK now she’s adamant she want to go… But not that much convinced it seems. I say goodbye to Elena and Sofia then help her to put back her bra (the fancy fixation in the back). As she turns her back to me, I grab her two tits from behind. Venture a hand on her ass and pussy (through her underwear). She says she has to go. "Are you trying to help me go?" "No, I'm trying to make you stay. Come with me", and bring her to my bedroom. No more concerns that we could be seen through the window. I'm gently caressing her pussy through her pants. She explains her never on first date rule. "It’s alright, it will be just fine, it’s exciting". Rice and repeat the argument. "I used to have the same rule, I ditched it. Pointless. It will be exciting" (sexy and soft but confident voice). She lets me finish to remove her dress, I remove my polo and trousers. The underwear follow. I put her on the bad and start kissing the whole lot. Majestic african shapes. I put a condom and start.

Later after we lay a bit together, it’s time for her to go. I fuck her one last time, then take her to her car. For once, I won’t be the one driving.

It was my first time winning over the LMR... So it's possible after all!

 

[Ree]

Heheh...kudos for fucking my country mate.....

 

[Seppuku]

Hey Ree,

My pleasure, for sure! The girls from your country are so sexy and beautiful. Last year (february 2015) was my first time with a black girl (I'm white) and Kenyan, and she had an amazing sexuality, and after that I was keen to renew the experience.

What happened later with the girl in this LR: by the next day she started to show possessive behavior. Such as, "what if I come at your place unannounced, at any time?" or "where are you right now?" implying that she could pop up any time, randomly. It is a "No" in my book, so unfortunately I had to cut off the interaction.

Tomorrow I have a date planned with another Kenyan which seems very promising.

Cheers,
Seppuku

 

[Chase]

Seppuku-

Nice lay. Kenyan girls are so much fun.

The date you took this girl on was extremely date-like. That’d be my top suspicion why you ran into LMR. Have you tried other date formats, and just found this one works best, or do you have another reason for using the dinner date setup?

Your handling here:

She says she has to go. "Are you trying to help me go?" "No, I'm trying to make you stay. Come with me", and bring her to my bedroom. ... "I used to have the same rule, I ditched it. Pointless. It will be exciting" (sexy and soft but confident voice).

… was fun. I enjoyed the “I used to have the same rule, I ditched it,” line. Nice pacing + leading there.

One other likely contributor to the LMR you faced here was the traditional-ness of the escalation: kiss, then breasts, then vagina, etc. Often you can avoid a lot of resistance by just bypassing the breasts altogether, since the breasts are often a trigger for a lot of girls that it’s time to start reeling this in. Skip the breasts and you can skip the trigger.

Good to see the consistent success you’ve been getting, Seppuku.

Chase

 

[Seppuku]

Nice lay. Kenyan girls are so much fun.

Thanks! Yes indeed they are! Very attractive and sexual women But also very experienced and used to deal with strong and dominant males.

The date you took this girl on was extremely date-like. That’d be my top suspicion why you ran into LMR. Have you tried other date formats, and just found this one works best, or do you have another reason for using the dinner date setup?

Incidentally, I am getting LMR maybe 15% of the time. I was able to conclude successfully on a later date with a few girls that initially exhibited LMR. Overall the date template works not too bad for me I think.

But well, here is the rationale. Due to the "wake up early" imperatives of the job (and her job as well) I aim to be finished by 11pm. For a first date pull, if I allow a minimum two hours of face time, plus one hour escalation plus a margin, I need to be started by 7pm or so. Then it seems just natural to incorporate the dinner into the date. I have eliminated the formal dinner date already (like restaurant), I do now either "grab a bite" in a bar (much less formal - which was the case in this lay), or first date dinner at my place if I can pull it.

The other date template I'm using is the post dinner drinks in a bar. If there is not enough time to attempt escalation (the 11pm or so objective), then I do a quick (one or two hours) date, where I build up her excitement but leave her wanting for more... Then second date at my place.

Chase, I would be very happy to hear your thoughts on the above? Or if you have any other suggestions? The constraint is that most of the time, extending late beyond midnight won't be possible, and I need to account for at least three hours for safe conclusion.

One other likely contributor to the LMR you faced here was the traditional-ness of the escalation: kiss, then breasts, then vagina, etc. Often you can avoid a lot of resistance by just bypassing the breasts altogether, since the breasts are often a trigger for a lot of girls that it’s time to start reeling this in. Skip the breasts and you can skip the trigger.

Great advice! I will remember it next time I face a girl which does not feel completely into it.

Good to see the consistent success you’ve been getting, Seppuku.

thanks! The pleasure is mine, so to speak ;-)

Cheers,
Seppuku

 

[Ree]

Seppuku-



One other likely contributor to the LMR you faced here was the traditional-ness of the escalation: kiss, then breasts, then vagina, etc. Often you can avoid a lot of resistance by just bypassing the breasts altogether, since the breasts are often a trigger for a lot of girls that it’s time to start reeling this in. Skip the breasts and you can skip the trigger.


Chase

Very illuminating...

 

[Chase]

S-

Incidentally, I am getting LMR maybe 15% of the time. I was able to conclude successfully on a later date with a few girls that initially exhibited LMR. Overall the date template works not too bad for me I think.

But well, here is the rationale. Due to the "wake up early" imperatives of the job (and her job as well) I aim to be finished by 11pm. For a first date pull, if I allow a minimum two hours of face time, plus one hour escalation plus a margin, I need to be started by 7pm or so. Then it seems just natural to incorporate the dinner into the date. I have eliminated the formal dinner date already (like restaurant), I do now either "grab a bite" in a bar (much less formal - which was the case in this lay), or first date dinner at my place if I can pull it.

The other date template I'm using is the post dinner drinks in a bar. If there is not enough time to attempt escalation (the 11pm or so objective), then I do a quick (one or two hours) date, where I build up her excitement but leave her wanting for more... Then second date at my place.

Chase, I would be very happy to hear your thoughts on the above? Or if you have any other suggestions? The constraint is that most of the time, extending late beyond midnight won't be possible, and I need to account for at least three hours for safe conclusion.

Okay, this actually sounds fine to me then.

Sounded like a classy place, wine, food, I was getting a picture of some expensive restaurant in my head. Meeting a girl at 7 and grabbing grub for efficiency's sake (when else are you and her going to eat?) is a perfectly workable date. I use it myself when brunch/lunch/hot chocolate isn't an option.

85% no LMR is very solid. You're doing all right!

Chase