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DonAngelo

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So i´ve been around the game for a total of 2 years before i tryed to settle down with a girl that didn't work out well, in fact i had so much trouble out of that relation that i took a year off dating and any other thing besides studies and fitness [I got a really good body now, my fundamentals are soooo good and i can tell by the looks on the steets, women are different with me, tighter shirts and gyms work my friends ;) ], good grades and ready to get back to the game.

First at the beggining i used my old tactics and managed to have sex with 2 girls straight in a row, then had to take a break again (studies) and then recently i've dated 7 women, one i took it so slow i got stucked with her, so i next it remembering one of the main rules in the game: "move fast". Dated a couple more but nothing more than one date, then the next 3 girls i managed to get them to my apartment, but when we started kissing they all told me the same thing: "I'm not so easy, i don't have sex the first time" "Not sure what type of girl you use to date but i'm not easy" and "I want you so bad, omg, but i'm not an object and i don't have sex if you are not willing to have a serious thing", well i took it like always: "This girl wants me to turn the shit on"(i know what you think, but i'm very good at foreplay, i always turn a women on, i can tell it by their skin, their moves, their breathing, their vagina gets like a beach, etc), so i kissed them, in every place in the most sexy way touched them in the right places....

they were turned on but why would i touch the red zone so many times? 3 times in a row is a patter, and before i used to have success in every single time i got them home, what am i doing wrong?
 

trashKENNUT

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DonAngelo,

DonAngelo said:
but i'm not an object and i don't have sex if you are not willing to have a serious thing",

Seems like attainability, comfort problem but can i ask,

What's the age of this girls?
Are they in school or working?
Their rough background?

Zac
 
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DonAngelo

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ZacAdam said:
DonAngelo,

What's the age of this girls?
Are they in school or working?
Their rough background?

Zac

Oooh boy, one is a University student who lives in 2 hours from my city, she came in here and stayed at my apartment, we hanged out kissed and everything fine until the end of the night that was a totally bummer. I stopped talking to her since i learned her father is into muddy business and is probably a dangerous man.

The two other girls are working, the "You thought we were having sex" one is a high class independant well educated woman, i picked her up at a night venue. When we came home she told me that and then "Hey, set the alarm at 5 a.m i gotta go to work", i actually laughed and couldn't believe it, neither of us drank that night, nothing happened.

The last one (who made me realize there's something really bad with my game) is a teacher at the University, she is a doctor and independant, she used to live in Germany and learned on our date that she used to live with a guy before, lol, everything was fine until she started the "I'm not an object, i want to have sex but we are nothing", i ignored all of that talk, kissed her and turned her, it was until i reached her nipples and started kissing them that she felt she couldn't hold back and said: "enough, i'm leaving".

2 years back i had a 100% success when they came into my apartment
 

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DonAngelo,

DonAngelo said:
Oooh boy, one is a University student who lives in 2 hours from my city, she came in here and stayed at my apartment, we hanged out kissed and everything fine until the end of the night that was a totally bummer. I stopped talking to her since i learned her father is into muddy business and is probably a dangerous man.

Yea, better. Unfortunately, safety first!

DonAngelo said:
one is a high class independant well educated woman, i picked her up at a night venue. When we came home she told me that and then "Hey, set the alarm at 5 a.m i gotta go to work",

I have this with Asian girls a lot. If the tone is overly harsh but she went back with you, she lacks calibration, and with Asian girls, you do feel the need to smash their head with a frying pan. (HAHAHA!)

But it's hilarious. Please tell me about this date. :D I try to see if this is an attainability thing, or is it about her calibration. Likely she is the latter.

DonAngelo said:
everything was fine until she started the "I'm not an object, i want to have sex but we are nothing", i ignored all of that talk, kissed her and turned her, it was until i reached her nipples and started kissing them that she felt she couldn't hold back and said: "enough, i'm leaving".

Not really your fault.

You could try and assure her that comfort and when she leaves, you could have tried to prevent her from leaving. I don't know why but women get wet when men chase after them without being needy after women decline escalation

I think it's the psychology that you really care about them, and you do.

But her last experience was really bad . I don't think any recovery would have work.

Zac
 

DonAngelo

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Hey Zac!

ZacAdam said:
I have this with Asian girls a lot. If the tone is overly harsh but she went back with you, she lacks calibration, and with Asian girls, you do feel the need to smash their head with a frying pan. (HAHAHA!)
Yes!!! Or sometimes the pan on yourself like in a cartoon!!
ZacAdam said:
But it's hilarious. Please tell me about this date. :D I try to see if this is an attainability thing, or is it about her calibration. Likely she is the latter.
In simple words: Patying game giving some looks beforehand she actually aproached..! Beforehand i was approaching other girls [I was warming up to go for one who was with her boyfriend, but the lady just had to look me when she was dancing :) ] but i said heck i'm sealing the deal early what the heck..! Danced with her and moved her to grab a snack before leaving to my apartment.
Bummer the thing ended up like this.

ZacAdam said:
Not really your fault.
You could try and assure her that comfort and when she leaves, you could have tried to prevent her from leaving. I don't know why but women get wet when men chase after them without being needy after women decline escalation
I really tryed until the point it felt awkard, then i had to drop it and say ok let's go, now she is texting me she wants to teach me "Anatomy and Physiology" . I think she just really wants to settle and had bad experience.

ZacAdam said:
I think it's the psychology that you really care about them, and you do. But her last experience was really bad . I don't think any recovery would have work.

I do, we all do don't we?, these days a gentleman is what we know as the "White Knight" but the Sexy man who knows how to please them and make them feel like a woman ;)
 

trashKENNUT

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DA,

DonAngelo said:
now she is texting me she wants to teach me "Anatomy and Physiology

so random. she is playing the long game. Just keeping you around to see if you hooked and make you wait.

Zac
 
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