"3 sorts of Lady-Killers" - How do I become the hedonistic?

[The Armani Code]

I recently read Chase's article here:

https://www.girlschase.com/content/3-sor ... ne-you-are

The idea of being a hedonistic type of guy appeals to me quite a lot but I am running into problems on how to actually create a lifestyle that makes it possible for me. I want to be the living image of that kind of ladykiller but after clicking on the links that led me to articles by Colt Williams about partying, it is like I ran into a brick wall when he said that the wild partying just cannot be done after college or it becomes less frequent and I graduated college...

When I got into Girlschase, my goal was to just rack up as many lays as possible and not create anything meaningful with women. I just want to have sex with as many different women as possible and enjoy the things in life like parties and wild experiences to go along with it, kinda like Jordan Belfort from Wolf of Wall Street.

The problem isn't the mental aspect of it, it is the situational aspect of it. How do I set up lifestyle to where being a hedonistic kind of guy becomes a very doable thing for me?

I live in the United States so I was wondering how I can make that lifestyle a reality here since we do have some strict strict strict laws compared to European countries.

 

[ray_zorse]

I haven't actually read the article but I'd imagine it's more about identifying your latent personality traits than about how to change yourself into a certain thing.

The first thing to ask yourself is, do you actually enjoy partying all night, dancing, drinking, taking drugs, lost sleep, doing crazy shit like throwing everyone into the car at 3am and driving to the beach, etc... going away down the coast for big weekends of drinking and carrying on... and do you go for spontaneous hedonistic pursuits, for example do you impulsively look up skydiving in the yellow pages and call up and put your last $600 on it? If that's what you enjoy, why aren't you doing it? You don't need to be a seducer... although a willing circle of like-minded friends is helpful. I don't really see what college has got to do with it, I realize that keggers and things are good at college, but if anything, professional people with decent incomes etc are capable of partying harder and longer, haha.

Well if you're keen to set up a circle of adult partiers there's an article somewhere here about exactly that, the gist of it, is that you cold approach shitloads of people in your city and invite them to a party you're organizing, get their facebook details and create a huge facebook group which you then use to leverage your way into VIP rooms at clubs and shit like that... high effort high reward (I took some initial steps in this direction and hosted a party as a trial run, but put off the harder part of cold approaching strangers)... alternatively what I'd suggest is, if you have decent logistics, get into nightgame (going out 2-3 times a week), and each time you meet an interesting circle of people (or just any bunch of randoms) invite everyone back to yours after close, make sure you have alcohol etc.

As a separate prong of your approach you want to be trying to get good with women and this would just involve the standard thing of cold approaching lots of women and inviting them on dates, working on your conversational skills and sexiness etc, when you get to a certain level you'll be able to leverage this in the social circle that you're independently working to create... you might also consider trying to get good at nightgame, I'm more of a daygamer and I go for more serious type girls but if you want party girls who are into hedonistic shit then you will want to do at least half of your seducing in the more competitive nightgame environment. This is basically a party environment, so it will be useful practice for pulling girls when you are hosting parties at your place and so forth. Good luck

Ray

 

[Slippin' Jimmy]

Ray is correct, the article was about identifying which type you naturally are, or what motivates you; you can't change the type. But based on what you said it appears you already would fit in to the hedonist type. So what you are really asking, is how to create a wild hedonistic lifestyle with lots of women and partying.

Fucked if I know.