30 Day Challenge, Night 02 (I got a number!)

[nexus321]

Okay so this is what happened. 2 girls sitting at this small circular table at this bar. Looking bored as fuck. I approached them, we started talking and i found out they were sisters. One was a nurse the other was studying law. I liked the one who was studying law. Zorena was her name. Zorena asked me what my name was and for some reason I lied and gave her a fake name.

I had them smiling and laughing after a while. And after 5-8 mins. I asked if she would go on a coffee date with me. She started to sway left and right slightly while smiling and said I don't know. That's when I looked at her sister and said. "Don't u think she should give me a little chance" The sister was like "he's nice give him a chance!" That's when I was like "see even your sister agrees with me" That's when the Zorena said "I'm not looking for a relationship right now"
That's when I said "what about friendship?" then she nodded and said yeah we can be friends. I handed her my phone and she typed it in. I gave both the girls a hug then I bailed.



I sent her a text message when I got home, a little while later she responded. What do I do now?

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p.s.
How do you post pics on the forum???

 

[Mr.Rob]

I told you Nexus your luck can change on a dime, always remember that. The next success is just around the corner.

I sent her a text message when I got home, a little while later she responded. What do I do now?

Don't get overeager first off.

I personally try and banter a bit with the girl I'm talking to (1 to 2 texts nothing more) and then ask about her schedule and try and set up a date. If she declines the date or says she's busy (she's probably not and just trying to be nice) then I'll not reply and call her in a day or two and try and build some rapport and attraction. If that fails I might text her again and push it otherwise I move on to the next one and don't think twice about it.

This isn't the "sure fire" method but it's what I do and it's how I got my last date from a phone number.

Just do something is all that matters.

Glad you went back out after a perceived failed day and made something happen anyway, that's what gangsters do. Continue to be gangsterlike lol.

-Rob

 

[nexus321]

I told you Nexus your luck can change on a dime, always remember that. The next success is just around the corner.

I sent her a text message when I got home, a little while later she responded. What do I do now?

Don't get overeager first off.

I personally try and banter a bit with the girl I'm talking to (1 to 2 texts nothing more) and then ask about her schedule and try and set up a date. If she declines the date or says she's busy (she's probably not and just trying to be nice) then I'll not reply and call her in a day or two and try and build some rapport and attraction. If that fails I might text her again and push it otherwise I move on to the next one and don't think twice about it.

This isn't the "sure fire" method but it's what I do and it's how I got my last date from a phone number.

Just do something is all that matters.

Glad you went back out after a perceived failed day and made something happen anyway, that's what gangsters do. Continue to be gangsterlike lol.

-Rob

The thing is she told me that she's leaving tomorrow and that she won't be back until August. So what are my choices, I don't want to seem over eager. Wait until august to contact her again or...????

 

[Mr.Rob]

Well if that's the case call her now and find an excuse for yall to meet up tonight or before she goes away.

Doesn't matter the outcome just as long as you take action and attempt to move things forward in a hopefully dominant way.

By the time August comes around she won't remember you anyway, so attempt to make something happen now.

It probably won't pan out but it's good learning experience and you never know.

-Rob

 

[Drck]

Great job Nexus, keep rolling! Most guys don't have guts to approach girls, you are doing great!

My best guess is that she won't go for a date with you. In my opinion, and it is only an opinion, it would be silly to try pushing things forward with her at this time, she is already "moving away" from you. To contrary to what you read everywhere here, for now I would take her only as a friend and see where it goes.

Or, maybe, I would try totally different strategy, e.g. take her as a friend. Tell her that you are considering her as your friend, and tell her all your plans about approaching other girls. Tell her that you want to be great seducer and have many girls. Just be totally truthful and open, play a little dummy, and perhaps even ask her if she can give you some insight. See how she reacts.

If she is cool she might give you great insight. What more, she might get little bit insulted because you tell her that she is your friend, thus she will see that you are not considering her as a potential mate. You kinda ignore her, which is actually great - she might want to prove herself to you by trying to raise her sexual value. It might be a HUGE challenge for her to be around guy like you (think about it, how many guys she met would tell her stuff like that? Most likely 0). If done correctly, she will start chasing you...

Just a thought...