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Dylweed

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Meeting her
I approached her in a grocery store near the college campus, i was doing daygame with my 2 of my friends. I saw her and she had a cute body, id say she was an 8. Found out later shes 5'7" and 130 pounds. She was looking at apples and she had muffins in her basket and i walked up to her and said "are you trying to make a recipe with apples (pointed at them) and muffins?" She laughed and said "oh yeah!" I told her i was kidding and just wanted to talk to her cuz she was cute. I talked to her for a few minutes and suggested we hang out sometime and she agreed so i got her number.

Setting up the date
I texted her and she said it was nice to meet me too but when i tried setting up the date she said maybe and that she wasn't sure. I found this strange because most girls are either down to hang or they ignore me. She came up with all these excuses, saying she doesnt like people who smoke (i made the mistake of asking her in the grocery store if she was high, because i thought it was funny, i said because being high makes you want to buy everything). I told her i don't anymore (which is true). Then she said she was tired even though it was only like 8 pm and she didn't have to wake up till noon the next day. I told her she'd have all this time to sleep and she said no, that she just didn't want to that night. I figured if she didn't this night she never would but i texted her a few days later asking her what she was up to and the convo got a little strange.

She asked if i wanted the truth or if i wanted an answer to make her seem like a sane happy person. I said the truth is always better. She told me she was going to eat a bunch of food and then throw it up. You could tell in the tone through the texts that she was in a fuck the world type mood. We got into a very long convo about her being bullimic and i was in a good mood and was very understanding and kind. Even if it didn't work between me and her i was having fun because i felt i was helping her out by understanding and accepting her. I then suggested we hang out again and she still said maybe. I asked if i intimidate her and she said yeah, she said she has bad social anxiety. I told her everybody has it just different levels and that people are always in a different mood and sometimes she must forget she has it and that she seemed cool when i met her.

She said maybe she'd hang out in two days. She'd let me know that day if she was feeling up to it.

Date 1
She was down to meet that day. She told me she was going to be real nervous though. We met up downtown near her apartment to go for a walk and chill by the lake. She didn't seem nervous at all either. We walked to the lake and sat on the pier. It was dark out and warm. After sitting and talking for like a half hour i suggested we walk again and led us around random streets. At one point looking at her she looked real cute so i stopped walking and told her to stop. She said why? Then i went to kiss her and she denied me. I didn't react and i led us to this hill and suggested we run to the top and she agreed. I started slow then caught up and passed her but i slowed down to let her win but she wouldn't let me lose lol.

Into the date i started feeling awkward though because sometimes i have bad anxiety. We sat down on some steps and whatever i was saying wasn't getting a response out her so i just kept spewing random bullshit that she didn't care about. I knew i was fucking up. Sometimes she'd say something random from some positive emotions to direct the convo down a more present path but my nervousness would eventually bring her down. I couldnt relate with her positve energy at that moment and i did not have her laughing anymore. I was surprised she didn't just leave, i almost did myself. Also at one point i told her that im not looking for a serious relationship right now.

Eventually we got on a subject that we clicked on and it was going smoother again. We were sitting close making eye contact and she was looking sexy and she was looking at my lips so i tried to kiss her again, She wouldn't do it again though. I even tried a third time and again she wouldn't. I didn't get mad but i was like, do you got rules? She said no, she said she kisses someone if she feels like it and then laughed and apologized. I wasn't offended though and i kept the convo going. Eventually i suggested we end it. Told her she should show me her pictures in her apartment (she lives alone) but she said no. It was late too. She gave me a half ass hug also.

I didn't even wanna hang again cuz she wouldn't kiss me but i was kinda desperate, only got 1 fuck buddy. In texts i teased her about not kissing me and made the mistake of getting logical and asked her how soon was the soonest she ever had sex with somebody. She told me a month of hanging out multiple times a week. I then backed out of our plans and apologized but after texting some more i decided to go for it again anyways and she was down.

Date 2
This time we walked around downtown at night again but explored new parts of the city. Madison WI is an awesome city. I was in a great mood this time, had her laughing a lot and great eye contact. She still wouldn't kiss me though. Tried twice while we were outside and then once in her apartment when she gave me a quick tour before i left. Couldn't believe she still wouldn't and i thought id never see her again.

But a few days later she texted me and i suggested we try to chill again. Figured shed kiss me this time at least.

Date 3
She agreed to come over to walk by the lake by my apartment on the lake during the day. Was in a good mood when she showed up, i met her in the parking lot and told her i had to put shoes on so we had to go inside my place quick. I gave her a tour of the whole place and she walked in my room to pet my cat. we played with my keyboard for a little bit before we left for the walk. When we got outside i tried to kiss her and she denied me. I didn't react though. We walked by the lake and i told her to close her eyes so i could kiss her. she wouldnt do it. But a minute later i just went for it and she finally kissed me. I pulled back after not long and suggested we go on the swings. We then hugged this giant tree where we couldnt reach each others hands lol.

Then i suggested we either go get a ball and play basketball because she said she plays or else i suggested we go to walmart so i could do some of my grocery shopping. She said she didn't care and i picked walmart. We got the grocerys and came back. While unloading the grocerys we looked at each other very seductivly and close and she looked at my lips so i kissed her again and she kissed me back.

Then i told her to play something on my keyboard in my room. We got in there but she wouldn't play anything. She told me to record some rap lyrics. I did and i recorded an 8 bar verse ive been working on and she told me she was impressed. We listened so some of my other songs then and then we chatted some more in my room. She said she was hungry. I showed her my empty fridge lol She asked if i liked chinese food and i said yes. I sat in my computer chair to google chinese places and told her to sit on my lap. i started getting a boner so i went to kiss her and we made out for a while till the computer chair almost fell over lol.

Then we walked outside to drive to get some food but i suggested we go check out the pool because it was so hot. She put her legs in and we chilled there for a few minutes till i suggested we go get the food. At the restaurant she asked me how much money i make lol. She seemed like she was upset that i dont make more (im 23 and only make like 17 g's a year lol). We got the food and brought it back to eat at my place.

The final fuck lol
Then we sat on my living room couch and watched youtube vids. We weren't even touching on the couch but after like 15 minutes i went to kiss her. We started making out and i pulled back but she wanted more. She started getting into it grabbing on to me. Made me real horny and i basically got on top of her on my couch and was feeling her whole body, getting real passionate. Then i pulled back and joked that my roommate was gonna walk in and see us. she laughed real hard. I suggested we move to my bedroom so that wouldn't happen.

She followed me and sat on my bed. I put on a song and sat next to her and started making out, got on top of her again. Pulled her shirt down from the top and sucked on her titties and eventually we fucked. No resistence at all. It was like this girl had a wall up around kissing guys but once you break past that she's down to fuck.

I only lasted like 15 seconds lol, couldn't believe it. Said it was embarassing and she laughed. Told her id take care of her again real quick and she laughed. Literally only like 2 mintues later i was horny enough to fuck again. Quickest refractory period of my life lol Being with a new cute woman is so fucking awesome lol That time i made her cum and i couldn't finish myself but i was satisfied. We cuddled and talked and she asked if i was sleeping with other girls. Was surprised she asked but I told her yes, she asked how many, i said 1. Told her that was why i told her im not looking for a serious relationship and that if she wasn't cool with it that that was okay. She didn't seem to care at all though, i didn't think she was going to. Then we talked more about sex. I asked her old she was when she lost her virginity. She said 16. I gave her a high five lol She asked how old i was when i lost my virginity. I told her she would never guess it and then she said 22. I was surprised and said yes(im 23 now). She didn't seem that surprised. Then she asked me how many people i slept with and i asked are you sure you wanna know? She said yes. I told her she was the 12th. She was very surprised at that. I was her 5th.

Then not too long later i was horny again so we started getting ready for round three and she was like "you can just keep going" lol like she couldn't believe it. Then I asked her what the most times she ever had sex in a day was and she said 1. I couldn't believe it. We went for the 3rd round. Then i drew her naked laying on my bed like it was titanic lol was getting turned on just drawing her. Then we went for round 4. This girl was making me so horny. Couldn't finish though. She asked me how big my dick was lol So i had her jack me off so i could measure it which we did but then she finished me off and then i tried making her squirt with my fingers. Didn't make her squirt but she really liked it.

Then she was telling me about all the guys she slept with and kinda seemed like she thought i was the coolest. But after hanging out for 6.5hrs she left. I thanked her for coming and she said she had a lot of fun.
 

ray_zorse

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Sweet, mate. I really smiled at the last parts. Sounds like your lovemaking was very chilled and fun. It's interesting how honest you were about your fuckbuddies and lifestyle, this isn't normally recommended but it's great to get into that zone where you DGAF, they can basically just like it or lump it,haha. I recently had this late-night deep convo with a gf in which I told her I had to approach about 1000 women in order to meet her and sleep with her, the first 100 told me to fuck off, the next 100 would tell me their name, the next 100 were up for a brief conversation... an oversimplification but it got the point across. I felt I was leading her on a bit and a bit guilty about it, so I had nothing to lose by being honest since if I lost value by being honest and she stopped seeing me it would just make my life easier... but of course, she loved the honesty. Haha, in your LR her reaction seems similar. But I'm rambling, the reason I replied was firstly to say props on the,lay, and secondly to share a tip: bulimic girls are funny about kissing, they're worried they'll have vomit breath. Even if she hadn't thrown up that day it might just be a habitual or ingrained worry. Also, for instance, girls that have eaten garlic or curry that day, or any of a whole host of other similar reasons, might not be down for kissing. So it's good to have some other tools at your disposal such as kissing her neck, nibbling her ear, feeling her up (stomach or legs a good place to start), having her touch you... this can also help to bypass defenses, in much the same way that we recommend going for the pants instead of the tits. Anyway, great lay, a fun read, nothing to really critique here, keep it up. ;)

Ray

PS I hate that feeling of nervousness on a date, last time I got it I kinda recovered but FU'd later, good that you stayed in the game and persisted through it. Great going... ;)
 

ocantu1987

Space Monkey
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great job man. I was expecting this girl to give you alot of LMR because of the refusal to kiss you, but not the case.
 

Smurf

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Damn, this was just dope honestly!

Love how you pushed through, dude. I probably would've given up hella early if she didn't kiss me first date.

Sick how you just kept going for it and didn't care. She probably sensed that and liked it haha

She seemed like she was upset that i dont make more (im 23 and only make like 17 g's a year lol).

You already verbally made sure you weren't boyfriend material, but this probably cemented that. But you still have your own place with a roommate though, so you make enough money to me, haha!

Good persistence, dude!

Jake.
 

mindful

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radeng said:
This is excellent man. Chase talks a lot about how most girls have one huge barrier of resistance and after you break it it's usually smooth sailing. This girls was just kissing.

Also a bit of an inspiration to me to push through more dates as I have a tendency to next if there's no sex on date 1. I think I've been missing out on some opportunities by being impatient. Have been rethinking this strategy lately:)

Radeng

I have this mindset as well. However, the most recent girl I met I didn't even try to hook up with her the first date. We grabbed drinks then we departed. Second time I got her back to my apt but couldn't escalate to sex. Third time, we ended back at my apt again and I could tell she was horny. Gave me no resistance.

Sometimes you never know.
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers

Dylweed

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Yeah i was almost embarrassed to be spending all this time with this girl who wouldn't kiss me but im glad i persisted.

She texted me first the next day after we fucked and this is what she said

Her: I'm a little bit bruised from last night. That's kind of awesome haha
Me: Glad thats awesome! haha that was fun, hope youre not too tired today ;)
Her: I was a bit worn out this morning but I'm right now. I just want to do that again... lol
Me: Hell yeah I'm down, I'm getting kinda horny thinking about it
Her: I've, uh, kinda been horny all day thinking about it
Me: Well thats awesome, also a little frustrating lol
Her: Haha yes a bit of both :p

Then later in the convo she said
You are just a horny mess! :p in the best way possible of course

lol so were hanging out tomorrow
 
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