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4 Hour Trip: How Do I Stay Sexy/Interesting?

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Space Monkey
space monkey
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I'm going on a trip to a city that's a 2 hour drive each way with this girl who I've been flirty/sexual with.

We've deep dived before so a lot of talking has already been done. I know a ton about her background and deep diving led me to talk a lot about myself after she asked. So what do I do since it's a 2 hour dive each way. Do I just let the iPod play music? I don't want to talk too much with her but at the same time I don't want to stay boring.

Any suggestions?
 

Richard

Tribal Elder
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Play the pauses bro, meaning, have a conversation for a while then let their be a pause for a few minutes (that'd be a good time to play music). Don't continually allow for conversation for 2 hours because it will leave alot less things to talk about later on, let some music play for intermissions, talk, throw on a song you both know, and have a good time lip syncing the lyrics ( it's always fun). Also, deep dive on things she didn't explain quite clearly, like for instance, if she mentioned something like: "I'm going into the medical field," and left it at that before, or if you didn't ask anything more about something like that, now is a great time to ask like "The other day you were telling me your dad is a flesh eating alien from another planet right? What the hell is that about!?"
 
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