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Mikedee

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Would you recommend daygame or nightgame for men over 40? After reading through blogs and forums, I’ve realized that, despite having a few long-term relationships, I’m still a newbie when it comes to truly having options.

I first came across this material 10 years ago but brushed it off because I fell back into my usual routines, which seemed to work at the time. However, now I want to elevate my game and reach for something better. What’s the best approach for a man in my position? Any advice would be greatly appreciated
 

alexlaguma

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Mike -

Short answer - both. Drink from all sources.

I personally prefer daygame because I don't have many good wings and I don't like night gaming solo. But I'm fine doing solo day game.

I think you could target high-end bars / clubs and have some success there. Likewise, if you wanted to day game, target malls with higher end retailers like selfridges etc. You will have plenty of options for approaching around there
 
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Mikedee

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Mike -

Short answer - both. Drink from all sources.

I personally prefer daygame because I don't have many good wings and I don't like night gaming solo. But I'm fine doing solo day game.

I think you could target high-end bars / clubs and have some success there. Likewise, if you wanted to day game, target malls with higher end retailers like selfridges etc. You will have plenty of options for approaching around there

Why higher-end stores, just out of curiosity? I ask because I’ve noticed that some of the most stuck-up women are hood chicks. Don’t get me wrong, there are plenty of baddies from the hood, but why do they seem so stuck up? I approach a lot of them since my job is in an urban area, but the lack of love from them is a mystery lol
 

Mikedee

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Mostly African American females between the ages of 20- 30. Anything over 30 gets significantly easier.
 

isildur1

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Tom Torero has a podcast for those gaming who are older:


TBH age is just a number imo - the older you are the easier some forms of game becoming- hooking girls was far easier in my late 20s than early 20s for the simple reason i'd done more shit with my life and was a much more interesting person.
 

isildur1

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Also torero had many clients in their 50s and 60s and they were successful - its never too late and i think older people between their 30s-40s have a lot more advantages daygame wise than people from 18-25 imo - women like older men, as they usually are more mature , life experienced and carry themselves better on average of course.
 

OldGuy

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No problem for older men, except women with baby rabies won't be interested in over 50 for fear the guy won't be around as long as the kids are.
 
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Would you recommend daygame or nightgame for men over 40?
For sure!
I'm 45 and still doing it.
Skills is almost 50 and does regular nightgame.
Even Chase is 40 if I'm not mistaken.
Age is just a number if your heart and mind are into it.
After reading through blogs and forums, I’ve realized that, despite having a few long-term relationships, I’m still a newbie when it comes to truly having options.
One more reason for you to learn.
What’s the best approach for a man in my position?
Start with the challenges from this very forum and proceed from there.
After you get some reps, come back and ask the guys about sticking points using your own real life samples.
Not much to add here, forget your age, get on the students seat and keep going untill you improve.
 
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