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Ok, a little bit of background first: I met up with my friends at their house. We texted a bunch of people to try to find parties as we took shots. This was from about 7-10:30. By coinicdence, it turns out the neighbors were having a party. There was no official invite, but we just walked cause we have 4 girls and 2 dudes...so we can do that. lol
Anyways, they had a dj and a dance party going on in the garage. I've been meaning to try out Alek Holestead's dancefloor escalation series for a while now. I figured this was the perfect opportunity. I walk up to a girl, shake her hand. Ask her what her drink is (still holding her hand), she answers. I say "cool", I pull her in. We start dancing. I do escalation ladders with her and eventually try to pull her. I don't say anything. I just lead her towards the door. She realizes what I'm doing and says "she's not down". I later find out she has a BF and he's at that party.
I go back to the dance floor. I do the same process on this one other girl. Very small Asian girl. Not really my type...but I'm kinda tipsy so idgaf. I start doing escalation ladders with her. First, I put my hands on her hips. Then I slowly move up to her breasts. Then back to her hips. I do this several times. Eventually, I just keep my hands on her breasts. After a while, I moved back down to hips, then I go to her legs. Then I put my hand on her pussy and start rubbing it. Right as she was about to block me, I move my hands back up to her hips. Rinse and repeat several times. Eventually, this broke her resistance and I started fingering her. Instantly, she was turned on. I turn her chin towards me and start making out with her.
I then turn her around, bring her to a nearby couch and start making out hardcore. She starts dry humping me. I knew it was time to pull. I literally pick her up and weave through a crowd of people to get to the door.
Her: Where are we going?
Me: This really cool place.
Her: Where is it? [She says this as we walk up the steps to the house I was prepartying with my friends at]
Me: This is my house.
Her: Oh, cool. My name's Stephanie btw.
Me: I'm bboy
Her: Ok, cool.
Here's where I make a crucial mistake. In my tipsy stupor, I take her to the room of the girl I got a BJ from the previous night. LOL See: viewtopic.php?f=5&t=11749
Anyways...By some unfortunate turn of events, said girl walks in like, 5 secs later. She tells me to get out. I do. So I decide to lead Stephanie downstairs to a bathroom in the house. We start hooking up. Was kinda hard to get my dick up at first cause too much alcohol. But eventually, after several bjs, I got it up. Anyways, we fuck for five maybe 10 mins. ---So far I had known this girl for literally 5 mins. Fastest hookup of my life.
Eventually, I hear someone screaming my name. I don't answer. I keep fucking Stephanie. The other girl screams my name louder. I now know who it is. Its one of my female friends who lives at that house (different from the girl who told me to get out of her room earlier). Kinda hard to explain the rest. But basically, after a while, she figured out we were in the bathroom. She along with two of the other roomates started banging on the door loudly and telling me to get out. I start to feel really shitty cause I put Stephanie in this poseition. Worse yet, some dude who I don't recognize starts calling her name. More bad luck. By some random turn of events, one of the roomates had invited the guy Stephanie came to the party with to this house.
Him: Shame on you Stephanie!
Stephanie: I'm sorry! Don't judge me!
So needless to say, Stephanie is mortified. Her reputation has been completely shot at this point. We put on our clothes and leave the bathroom.
I talk it over with the roommates, we're chill now.
I go back to the party. Stephanie is there dancing..again. LOL. So I start dancing/"seducing her again" with the intention of pulling her to my car this time. She resists. This time, she didn't even like me touching her breasts on the dance floor. Strangely enough, she was still open to grinding and having my hands on her hips.
At any rate...we talk about what happened earlier. I tell her I'm really really sorry for putting her through that shit. She said its ok, the roommates (my friends) were apparently really nice/reassuring to her about it, so she's chill. She put her number in my phone.
If I do decide that I want to see her again, what should I text her now?
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Additionally, Stephanie's social circle happens always be at the parties I go to. Word is bound to get out that she hooked up with me (being that so many people know, and girls talk anyways). In particular, the alpha-female of their social circle is of interest to me. So there are two elements to this:
1. I hooked up with Stephanie. This equals preselection for me. <---Good
2. I failed miserably at making it discreet at all whatsoever.<---Bad.
This other girl of interest to me (lets call her Hannah)- I got her phone number a week ago. The next day I texted her asking her out. She said she was down but "didn't know when she'd have time and she'll message me when she finds out". This equates to never messaging me ofc. So I text her two days later asking to grab coffee with me on Sun. She didn't reply. I turns out that party I was just at was her 20th bday. As soon as I walked in.
Her: Bboy come downstairs! We're gonna dance! <---This was me+five other girls+3 other dudes. So it wasn't a request for me to dance with her so much as it was a request to join the dance party in general.
Me: Ok. <---But I don't actually do it. I figure she's trying to put me in an orbiter slot, so I had NEXTED her.
So my question is, how will my hooking up with Stephanie (a girl in her direct social circle), affect her attraction/my relationship with her? When this spreads word, how will this affect my reputation in general?
Anyways, they had a dj and a dance party going on in the garage. I've been meaning to try out Alek Holestead's dancefloor escalation series for a while now. I figured this was the perfect opportunity. I walk up to a girl, shake her hand. Ask her what her drink is (still holding her hand), she answers. I say "cool", I pull her in. We start dancing. I do escalation ladders with her and eventually try to pull her. I don't say anything. I just lead her towards the door. She realizes what I'm doing and says "she's not down". I later find out she has a BF and he's at that party.
I go back to the dance floor. I do the same process on this one other girl. Very small Asian girl. Not really my type...but I'm kinda tipsy so idgaf. I start doing escalation ladders with her. First, I put my hands on her hips. Then I slowly move up to her breasts. Then back to her hips. I do this several times. Eventually, I just keep my hands on her breasts. After a while, I moved back down to hips, then I go to her legs. Then I put my hand on her pussy and start rubbing it. Right as she was about to block me, I move my hands back up to her hips. Rinse and repeat several times. Eventually, this broke her resistance and I started fingering her. Instantly, she was turned on. I turn her chin towards me and start making out with her.
I then turn her around, bring her to a nearby couch and start making out hardcore. She starts dry humping me. I knew it was time to pull. I literally pick her up and weave through a crowd of people to get to the door.
Her: Where are we going?
Me: This really cool place.
Her: Where is it? [She says this as we walk up the steps to the house I was prepartying with my friends at]
Me: This is my house.
Her: Oh, cool. My name's Stephanie btw.
Me: I'm bboy
Her: Ok, cool.
Here's where I make a crucial mistake. In my tipsy stupor, I take her to the room of the girl I got a BJ from the previous night. LOL See: viewtopic.php?f=5&t=11749
Anyways...By some unfortunate turn of events, said girl walks in like, 5 secs later. She tells me to get out. I do. So I decide to lead Stephanie downstairs to a bathroom in the house. We start hooking up. Was kinda hard to get my dick up at first cause too much alcohol. But eventually, after several bjs, I got it up. Anyways, we fuck for five maybe 10 mins. ---So far I had known this girl for literally 5 mins. Fastest hookup of my life.
Eventually, I hear someone screaming my name. I don't answer. I keep fucking Stephanie. The other girl screams my name louder. I now know who it is. Its one of my female friends who lives at that house (different from the girl who told me to get out of her room earlier). Kinda hard to explain the rest. But basically, after a while, she figured out we were in the bathroom. She along with two of the other roomates started banging on the door loudly and telling me to get out. I start to feel really shitty cause I put Stephanie in this poseition. Worse yet, some dude who I don't recognize starts calling her name. More bad luck. By some random turn of events, one of the roomates had invited the guy Stephanie came to the party with to this house.
Him: Shame on you Stephanie!
Stephanie: I'm sorry! Don't judge me!
So needless to say, Stephanie is mortified. Her reputation has been completely shot at this point. We put on our clothes and leave the bathroom.
I talk it over with the roommates, we're chill now.
I go back to the party. Stephanie is there dancing..again. LOL. So I start dancing/"seducing her again" with the intention of pulling her to my car this time. She resists. This time, she didn't even like me touching her breasts on the dance floor. Strangely enough, she was still open to grinding and having my hands on her hips.
At any rate...we talk about what happened earlier. I tell her I'm really really sorry for putting her through that shit. She said its ok, the roommates (my friends) were apparently really nice/reassuring to her about it, so she's chill. She put her number in my phone.
If I do decide that I want to see her again, what should I text her now?
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Additionally, Stephanie's social circle happens always be at the parties I go to. Word is bound to get out that she hooked up with me (being that so many people know, and girls talk anyways). In particular, the alpha-female of their social circle is of interest to me. So there are two elements to this:
1. I hooked up with Stephanie. This equals preselection for me. <---Good
2. I failed miserably at making it discreet at all whatsoever.<---Bad.
This other girl of interest to me (lets call her Hannah)- I got her phone number a week ago. The next day I texted her asking her out. She said she was down but "didn't know when she'd have time and she'll message me when she finds out". This equates to never messaging me ofc. So I text her two days later asking to grab coffee with me on Sun. She didn't reply. I turns out that party I was just at was her 20th bday. As soon as I walked in.
Her: Bboy come downstairs! We're gonna dance! <---This was me+five other girls+3 other dudes. So it wasn't a request for me to dance with her so much as it was a request to join the dance party in general.
Me: Ok. <---But I don't actually do it. I figure she's trying to put me in an orbiter slot, so I had NEXTED her.
So my question is, how will my hooking up with Stephanie (a girl in her direct social circle), affect her attraction/my relationship with her? When this spreads word, how will this affect my reputation in general?
