Hey guys!
My name is Barney, I'm from England, and this is my first post on this forum. I'd like to go ahead with it straight away, because it's quite specific.
So, commencing on Sunday, I'll be on a 10 day long Buddhist retreat (that's right, I'm religious. boo). We will have completely random people coming in from London, all on a similar (not the same) page about spirituality, complete mix in terms of age and gender, some of them I've met, some of them I haven't.
We will be in a county Center, secluded, calm, beautiful and all that. Mobile phones off, no screens. We'll be staying at separate quarters for obvious reasons.
Quite heavy atmosphere, meditation, eating together in big groups, spending a lot of time together, deep discussions in groups. No sex on site (it would be hardly possible anyway).
The reason why I'm giving you this description is, what seems to be the "normal" procedure of 'either take her home straight away or keep it short and ask her out later" does not work here. We WILL be together for 10 days,but we can't get directly involved in each other (just yet). It's gonna be like dancing a bit.
The point: I want to approach someone. In fact, I WILL approach someone. What to do, and what not to do?
I know this may sound a weird subject, and I'm happy to give more details if you wanted (I already feel it's a bit too much).
Lot's of thanks:
Barney
My name is Barney, I'm from England, and this is my first post on this forum. I'd like to go ahead with it straight away, because it's quite specific.
So, commencing on Sunday, I'll be on a 10 day long Buddhist retreat (that's right, I'm religious. boo). We will have completely random people coming in from London, all on a similar (not the same) page about spirituality, complete mix in terms of age and gender, some of them I've met, some of them I haven't.
We will be in a county Center, secluded, calm, beautiful and all that. Mobile phones off, no screens. We'll be staying at separate quarters for obvious reasons.
Quite heavy atmosphere, meditation, eating together in big groups, spending a lot of time together, deep discussions in groups. No sex on site (it would be hardly possible anyway).
The reason why I'm giving you this description is, what seems to be the "normal" procedure of 'either take her home straight away or keep it short and ask her out later" does not work here. We WILL be together for 10 days,but we can't get directly involved in each other (just yet). It's gonna be like dancing a bit.
The point: I want to approach someone. In fact, I WILL approach someone. What to do, and what not to do?
I know this may sound a weird subject, and I'm happy to give more details if you wanted (I already feel it's a bit too much).
Lot's of thanks:
Barney
