A Correlation Between Girls' Sexual Skill/Openness and Having Mental Issues

[Gibson]

I've just been wondering lately about something due to a few somewhat recent experiences I've had with girls, which then got me thinking back about previous girls throughout my whole life.

If a girl is fucked up in any way (not being judgmental here), just saying, she has some kind of personality disorder, abandonment issues, attachment issues, mommy/daddy issues etc., does that make it more likely that she will be more free and more 'skilled' sexually? Basically, would you say that the more issues the girl has that make her less appealing as a long term gf / wife prospect, the more likely it is that she would be amazing for short term fun that's mostly based on sex?

I would personally go so far to say that those girls are even on average more charming and charismatic, at least initially, because they've probably had to learn to hide their "fucked up" side.

What do you guys think, is there a correlation between the two?

 

[orkie123]

Correlation vs causation springs to mind here.

For me, this question on it's own isn't very helpful because I doubt there is enough proper research done on the topic to come up with anything conclusive. A lot of personal experiences would probably say there is a correlation, but that may be because of biases, extrapolation or simply a big part of the population of girls with traumas maybe don't have much sex or choose 1 partner and stick with them. Also, what if many girls had some trauma but the girls who share it are the ones who tend to be more wild in sex? Is it the trauma or the behavior to be oversharing that might correlate with being wilder? Too many questions.

If you are trying to figure out how to find a more suitable long-term partner, I think it would be more productive to look at her behaviour then her past. What is her vibe? Is she generally a positive person? How does she treat people lower than her? How does she react when things go wrong? Can she resist addictive/impulsive decisions? Does she have a tendency to lie over small things? Is she reliable when she makes a promise/says she will do something? Can she deal with disagreements/arguments in a constructive manner?

Of course, no one is perfect and people can change in either direction or hide their flaws. Life is all about probabilities - small % increase the chances of someone being a better long term partner, but nothing is ever certain.

 

[Police dog]

It depends. In my experience (and I believe Chase wrote about it) girls in their late teens/early 20s are just very curious about sex and pretty open to it and oftentimes without being whores. On the other hand you have girls who are really eager to fuck as many men as possible and they usually crazy af. I go with motto “stay away from crazy people”. Also, there is a classic chicken/egg problem - what came first they having mental issues of their sexual lifestyle. But I would agree that the more crazy she is the more sexually experienced she is.

 

[Rakehell]

Depends entirely on what your definition of “crazy” is. Which begs the question of

• How long have you known these girls for
• What has the pattern been like in their relationships
• How is their life outside the context of your relationship with her

It’s pretty easy to shoehorn someone who’s already your definition of “crazy”, into whatever narrative you wanna attribute it to. In the same way you could say if all those girls wore size 5-7 in their shoes, that’s the new crazy girl shoe size.

I doubt anyones running science experiments here, and if you are, I truly hope you’ll consider more than anecdotal evidence, and look at the whole picture. Crazy people are well…crazy in general

In the same way that people who…have sex….like to have sex Lol

 

[ulrich]

Yeah, kind of but the problem is that both mental issues and sexually skilled are vague undefined concepts that encompass many different things.

A bipolar woman is much more likely to be sexually experienced because she will be open to sex during some of her swings.
A woman that is prone to panic or anxiety attacks is likely to be sexually inexperienced due to her attacks getting in the way of sex.

To craft a clear hypothesis, we would need to specify to start.

Then there’s sexual skill… how do you measure that?
Number of partners?
That one is decent and convenient but not necessarily an indication of “skill”

 

[Skills]

I've just been wondering lately about something due to a few somewhat recent experiences I've had with girls, which then got me thinking back about previous girls throughout my whole life.

If a girl is fucked up in any way (not being judgmental here), just saying, she has some kind of personality disorder, abandonment issues, attachment issues, mommy/daddy issues etc., does that make it more likely that she will be more free and more 'skilled' sexually? Basically, would you say that the more issues the girl has that make her less appealing as a long term gf / wife prospect, the more likely it is that she would be amazing for short term fun that's mostly based on sex?

I would personally go so far to say that those girls are even on average more charming and charismatic, at least initially, because they've probably had to learn to hide their "fucked up" side.

What do you guys think, is there a correlation between the two?

causation correlation, for example there are religious sexually repress women (some former pastors wives fall here like my friend lovergirl), that become some of the best lovers or very sexually open..... Or women that are very discipline and dedicated to school and careers that need to relieve the stress.... Same with high stress professions such as teachers and nurses same thing.... Then you have women that were in a ltr, or in a long marriage, come out, become freaks....


I can go on and on.... The answer is again causation correlation...... However there is a segment of sexually abused women, women with daddy issues, bpd and the likes that are super sexually open...