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A few headscratchers

Shiny

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So throughout my interactions I've come across a few things that make me wonder, is this normal? Or is it really a response to how I let theinteraction work out?
Like for one, do girls tend to give their number rather easily? Every time I DO talk to a girl (maybe because it for now mainly is at parties?), it's not often they don't give their number. Of course I have some girls who don't text ,text a few times never to be heard from days later or are always "too busy" to meet up (still unsure when to actually cut contact from these).

Flirting. Now I've been reading through the FRs of some of the heavy hitters here on the forum and they can flirt like a boss. Personally I never notice when I'm flirting or not. I always try to have fun with people and tease/poke holes in their perception. I'm just wondering, when does having fun change into flirting? Or are they one and the same?

The last thing I was wondering about comes from reading through the FRs, namely approach invitations. For example a girl looking at you. Is this nothing more than a half a second/second glance? I just found it curious because when I walk through the streets, doing my thing, I look around me all the time.

edit: Often enough girls are complemented by calling them "cute". As I don't have english as my native tongue, I've been trying to come up with a translation, without success though. So far, I've considere cute as "fragile/girly".

A few days ago, I've been called a player etc. for approaching girls by a girl I ended up making out with later that night. I tried playing it off that I'm just all about having fun and meeting new people, but I think there is a better response to this.

As always,

Shiny.
 
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