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Hi Guys,
I have a girl that I like at the gym. She started working there as one of the trainers in the club about 6 months ago. She always stared at me and and came and stood close to where I was working out, but we never actually talked. She is in her early twenties. I am 35, but a really fit and young looking guy.
At first I was hesitant to go and talk to her, and as she stared more and more, I finally decided to go up and talk to her. Buy then I had a new workout program written for me , and I went up to her and asked her to show me the program. The moment I went up there she had a big smile on her face, and started showing me the exercises. At that moment another senior trainer brought another member she had to go with her. During that day she checked on me several times, and I must admin I was nervous talking to her. That day we didn’t have any chance to talk . The following morning I went to the gym again. As she was waking past me I started talking to her. I introduced myself and we had a small talk. But by that time I was very nervous, and after asking her several logical and boring questions about her work and her professional sport (she has been a rower), I excused my self and did not talk to her the rest of the 20 minutes I was there. While talking her arms were crossed , and she seemed a cold.
I went to the gym once more since then and we did not talk this time. She had some members to deal with, but also I felt she did not want to come near me. Her being a trainer at the club also complicates matters for me I think .
Is she in auto-rejection? Where do I go from there? Sorry for the long post.
I have a girl that I like at the gym. She started working there as one of the trainers in the club about 6 months ago. She always stared at me and and came and stood close to where I was working out, but we never actually talked. She is in her early twenties. I am 35, but a really fit and young looking guy.
At first I was hesitant to go and talk to her, and as she stared more and more, I finally decided to go up and talk to her. Buy then I had a new workout program written for me , and I went up to her and asked her to show me the program. The moment I went up there she had a big smile on her face, and started showing me the exercises. At that moment another senior trainer brought another member she had to go with her. During that day she checked on me several times, and I must admin I was nervous talking to her. That day we didn’t have any chance to talk . The following morning I went to the gym again. As she was waking past me I started talking to her. I introduced myself and we had a small talk. But by that time I was very nervous, and after asking her several logical and boring questions about her work and her professional sport (she has been a rower), I excused my self and did not talk to her the rest of the 20 minutes I was there. While talking her arms were crossed , and she seemed a cold.
I went to the gym once more since then and we did not talk this time. She had some members to deal with, but also I felt she did not want to come near me. Her being a trainer at the club also complicates matters for me I think .
Is she in auto-rejection? Where do I go from there? Sorry for the long post.
