A little insight.

[Novacane]

What's up everybody? I have a question regarding gaming in school (Post-Secondary) whether it be campus life or class. Now this being the second semester some of my classes have a mix of girls I've attempted to open and move things forward with (last semester), and new prospects altogether. Now my question is how would one go about incorporating game on campus or class, is the approach more subtle or pro-longed would an aloof attitude become a benefit? These are just some of the questions floating around in my mind. Also with the girls I have attempted to move things forward with but got no where due to either flaking or not hitting escalation windows etc., if they begin to show interest should I follow through or dismiss it as an attempt to get me chasing? Any insight would be greatly appreciated!

 

[trashKENNUT]

Novacane,

What's up everybody? I have a question regarding gaming in school (Post-Secondary) whether it be campus life or class. Now this being the second semester some of my classes have a mix of girls I've attempted to open and move things forward with (last semester), and new prospects altogether. Now my question is how would one go about incorporating game on campus or class, is the approach more subtle or pro-longed would an aloof attitude become a benefit? These are just some of the questions floating around in my mind. Also with the girls I have attempted to move things forward with but got no where due to either flaking or not hitting escalation windows etc., if they begin to show interest should I follow through or dismiss it as an attempt to get me chasing? Any insight would be greatly appreciated!

This isn't exactly about Post-Secondary but what i learn about schools is that you have to generally have this "cool" status or that you are a captain or somebody important in an organization. I realize that you will play the chasing back and forth game more in schools if you don't have status. Given an example where you like a girl and you know she likes you, and given that she still learning the in and outs of dating, she will listen to her friends and do this and that and all those "stupid" things. So in a way, i believe in my opinion that you don't chase them totally, but rather gauge it.

Because in schools, it's more difficult if you hook up in your own class, because the girls are more concern about "cool" status (Is he cool? Is he have a lot of friends? IS he not a social outcast? IS he funny? Where are you "rank" among your friends?), what her friends think and she's also still figuring things out.

The guys who were prolific with girls that i knew were ones that was superbly handsome, dominant, the number 1 runner (or any sports) in school. SO in a way, things are handed to them on a silverplatter.

Zac

 

[Novacane]

ZacAdam,

ZacAdam wrote:
This isn't exactly about Post-Secondary but what i learn about schools is that you have to generally have this "cool" status or that you are a captain or somebody important in an organization.

I'd agree with this but more along the lines when it comes to high school, as there are literally thousands of people attending school/campus at any given time in regards to post-secondary. If you can elaborate on the "cool" aspect as I see relatively no way to be known as the "cool" guy, reasons being you encounter so many people to the point it's hard to even keep track of who's who. With that being said wouldn't it be better to come off as someone that can't quite be figured out, as it'd spark curiosity? Again just some thoughts i'd love to hear many opinions, and also experiences!

 

[trashKENNUT]

Novacane,

I'd agree with this but more along the lines when it comes to high school, as there are literally thousands of people attending school/campus at any given time in regards to post-secondary. If you can elaborate on the "cool" aspect as I see relatively no way to be known as the "cool" guy, reasons being you encounter so many people to the point it's hard to even keep track of who's who. With that being said wouldn't it be better to come off as someone that can't quite be figured out, as it'd spark curiosity? Again just some thoughts i'd love to hear many opinions, and also experiences!

"Cool" as in

1)You not a social outcast
2)You're friendly
3)You're reasonably well liked
4)You have humour
5)You generally have things going on for you

In my post secondary school, that is if you ask about experiences, I got girls relatively well when i use the "loud guy" game. If you happen to read 3 personalities by Chase, i employed that (where i talk alot) and girls like me reasonably well until a friend of mine who's fundamentals are handled and he's those quiet but assertive guys. I lose out to him once he is around. Law of least effort there.

In my secondary school, unless you're cool in your class and your friends rank you highly or look up to you, it's difficult to get girls because most girl friends and most guy friends i knew at the time were having relationships outside of my class. This has also the problem of social discretion. The guy i told you that was prolific was a guy who was really handsome, dominant and basically the number 1 runner in school. His grades were also A's, and he fuck the girls in my other class and flirting with girls in my class. Everyone had no problem knowing how dominant he is.

There's a lot i can talk about the social nuances but perhaps someone better will come in. I am not so prolific or well documented when i was in school.

Zac