A man start anew

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry to do this but I really do need to get this off my chest. I figured some of you have been there before. My apology guys. As you guess, I've been falling for a girl pretty hard. I don't usually fall for girl but you know everyone must have their "special" girl. She have her boyfriend for two years and still want me to be friends. She either want me to back up, to validate her, being nice or need some wussy to obey every of her commands. I don't give a fuck anymore. I'm not interested of breaking up couple or being her slave. This feeling really suck. You know that feeling when you can't breath, constantly wonder how's she doing, want to see her.... In reality, there's zero chance. It only happen in a drama/movie/fantasy.

I just need to step away from her (as painful as it be) and just focus on myself. Being a better me. I don't need to be a player. I just need to be a better man/person. Chase, thank you for your article. That article must probably save me years of my life. Thank you man. I'm truly grateful. Guys, please watch out for me and slap some sense into me if I ever succumb into my weak self again. Be harsh as you can be. I think I just did have a turning point of my life. That feel really good.

 

[diegoC]

Glad you are improving.

My advice is so standard but so true: Keep meeting girls

When you have other (or more than one!) nice hottie girl texting you, you will be over her.

Cheers!

 

[Light]

I've personally been there myself, and I know how you feel. Its hard. But over time you will laugh at it.

Best thing to do is to stop all contacts with this girl, and remove her from your life. It is exactly what I did, and thank God I did.

Then, focus all your energy in something else, either a passion of yours, a a new hobbie, or a new skill. Have a new goal.

Don't forget to keep meeting new women.