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ray_zorse

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Re: LR:A night out with newbie puas and the cute Vet Girl

That sounds fucking badass brother. I'm more of a daygame dude these days but reading this does get me a little excited haha. Will have to give NG another shot soon.
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Re: LR:A night out with newbie puas and the cute Vet Girl

Radeng-

Expertly done here. Some comments:

radeng said:
As I am walking I just start getting warm with some "hi there", and I stop two girls and see where they are headed. They are out of town and heading to their hotel. Not really cute, but figure Ill go ahead and get a smooth number swap here. "were hanging tomorrow, here *handed phone." Ok not super smooth, neither were cute tho so who cares. *note to self, pass phone more discreetly* She did give me number, but seemed neutral.

Ever notice how the nights you start out early, especially with street approaches, frequently end up going really well?

Good show hitting it hot out of the gates.

radeng said:
I walk into college bar and see a group of girls with white wife beaters and fanny packs. I walk by the first table with a white girl and a brown girl and ask whats up. Its their sorority just graduated party. Cool. My vibe is just on. These girls aren't too cute either but I amp up the vibe with the white one and give her dead eye contact and can just see her melting. I tell her that were gonna meet up later and pass her phone much more smoothly. She puts her name in and I leave to meet RSD guy.

Again, great stuff, and these girls ended up providing massive preselection later on in the night that helped secure the lay. To guys reading the report, when you can approach girls early and get them on your side before they've been hit on by 20 drunks yet, it can pay off in spades later on in your night, either directly, or (as in Radeng's case in this report) indirectly through helping pave the way with other, hotter girls.

radeng said:
So I make my way over and see a really pretty blonde sitting with another girl at the bar and no guys around.

[snip]

I was very proud of myself because she was legit hot and I was nervous opening her. I need to be pushing my limits on social calibration and opening girls that I am intimidated by.

Excellent. It's how you get better.

Your whole frame of mind in this report is exactly where it needs to be: treating the whole thing as an exercise in pushing limits, starting early, seeing what you can pull off. That's how you get your reference points in and advance the quickest.

radeng said:
I immediately go for this cute girl in a set of mediocre girls. She's def cuter than the sorority girl. I pull her in physically on the open and dominantly ask her name. she says vet girl. We dance physically for a few minutes and she's into me and then sorority girl spots me and runs up and starts tapping on my shoulder and calling my name and shit lol. I do not break circle at all. I hold solid eye contact and just continue the conversation with the vet girl. It was really difficult to do.

This was a fork in the road in your night, and it single-handedly determined which way things went. Bravo. A lesser man would've turned to engage the less hot chick, and the hotter one would've drifted away; he'd never have slept with her after that no matter how good his game.

When you refuse to break circle like this, the subcommunication to the hotter girl is, "He recognizes I'm higher value than this girl, and isn't afraid to prioritize my happiness over hers when she tries interrupting here. Our bond is special."

Had you broken circle, it likely would've been, "Really? He's really going to elevate this not-hot girl over me? Okay, screw him... he can watch me go home with someone else. Then we'll see if he still feels the same."

Crucial moment here. Well done. This made the night.

radeng said:
Vet girl realizes that she recognizes me from the dog park. Guess I hit on her there lol I couldn't remember.

I'd be curious to know what the initial approach was like. Sounds like you either didn't trade numbers or it didn't pan out if you didn't even remember her yourself. Regardless, it's obvious the second time around she was much more warmed up to you, and however that first meeting went it helped you the second.

radeng said:
Anyway, sorority girl is giving up and I move vet girl somewhere quieter to talk aka two stools where I can rub her legs while we talk. I deep dive her hardcore and she is LOVING telling me about herself. I wish I remember what was said, but I was littering the conversation with sexual innuendos. When she told me she played guitar once, I told her she has to go back to my place to show me. She laughs. We get a shot and a beer, and go outside, when we get outside, I lean in to kiss, and then pull away, teasing the fuck out of her. She knows Im teasing her, I say you're coming with me lets get out of here. She says ok. She sits on my lap as we finish our beers and her friends come to pull her away. I borrowed one from Mr.Robs book here and looked the leader dead in the eyes and said "Im taking her for the night, I promise I am a nice guy and will return her safely." Boom, girl was completely disarmed and said "ok haha if anything happens I'm coming to find you!", then leaves. Perfect.

All great stuff. This entire sequence is nothing but solid game.

radeng said:
Then, before we leave, two girls who are vet girls friends come up beside the roped off area of the bar patio before we walk out and vet girl and I block them from bouncers so they can sneak in. I tell my RSD friends Im pulling and they say see the two girls and tell them to go to another club. The two girls and vet girl are like ok lets go. *facepalm*

Here's where you nearly lost it. It's nice to tell your buddies you're leaving, but especially with inexperienced guys it's frequently better just to jet.

Most guys don't know how to handle this, and opportunistic guys will look at it and say, "Oh, he's leaving with his girl. PERFECT CHANCE for me to try to get my girl to come along and pull her too - we can all go back together!" and then suddenly instead of just you and the girl in the cab and she's warmed up and raring to go, now it's you and her plus him and his girl who wasn't nearly as ready to hook up but came along since other people were there, and now she's ruining the vibe for everyone. Or your buddies can try to change the plan to change venues with the girls they're with or friends of your girl, like what happened here. Or a guy who's particularly clueless or just out of it might say okay yeah, let's get out of here, and hop in the cab with you. Too many things that can go wrong.

Better usually to leave and then text your friend after: "Hey man, headed out w/ Nicole. Catch up with you later - had fun hanging out tonight!"

radeng said:
I feel like I am dodging bullets in a video game here but after about 15 feet I see my escape plan. A cab with an open door is right beside us. I run up behind vet girl, pick her up in my arms, run straight to the cab and literally throw her in. I tell her she has to go show me her guitar skills now, which she agrees with and is laughing and having a blast. Its only about 12:45am at this point. We yell bye to our friends from the cab and I send my new RSD buds off with a couple girls.

Happy ending here. Nice on-your-feet thinking and adaptation skills. I see a number of ways this could've gone south in a hurry had you not leapt into action and thrown the girl in the cab.

That said, try to avoid having to do things like this in the future; it introduces an unnecessary amount of randomness into the interaction when other people are trying to override your plans and invite you somewhere or come along with you. Better to steal off into the night yourself and the girl and leave people wondering what happened to you two than to alert everybody and end up with hangers on.

radeng said:
Once we get back to my place its pretty much on. We take my dog out real fast and I immediately throw her up against a wall and kiss. We get to my room and both immediately get naked. We make out for a bit as I get her warmed up, she says "we shouldn't have sex." Her legs are wide open at this point and I get in between them very deliberately and slowly. Very hairy bush, but I didn't really mind it. It didn't look bad on her.

It's coming back into fashion now. Most guys don't even realize there are pubic hair fashion trends for girls, but...! Yeah.

radeng said:
I reach over for a condom and put it on. I go to stick it in and she goes "wait haha what I don't even know you, tell me how many people have you been with!" I say "thats none of your business!" She keeps persisting and then tells me she's only been with 4 girls and this is her first ONS. I think I believe her but you can never be sure. That bush doesn't scream slut. But after a while of me not telling I just say "ok no sex." and go back to making out with her. Eventually I just build it up until I'm between her legs and I can just tell that she wants me inside her. Even her legs are wet from how soaking this girls pussy is. So I go for condom again and get it on and slip in with no resistance.

I think you handled this objection well. An alternate way you could handle it would be:

Stop. Look her in the eyes. Smile mischievously. "Okay, I'll show you how many. Wait... here..." [insert penis] "Okay: 1 [thrust]... 2 [thrust]... 3 [thrust]... 4 [thrust]..."

This sounds like it was more a final bit of token resistance prior to entry, which you could've frame controlled away fairly easily without getting into a logical discussion or having to stop and restart.

radeng said:
From there we go to town for a long time! unfortunately I could not come in the condom due to drinking numbness. I am determined to master condom usage. After I give up lol, we smoke, pass out, wake up in the AM, and go for another round. I definitely come this time. I took her home this morning like a true gentlemen.

She was a fairly cute girl and I really liked her personality, maybe well do it again.

Yeah, seems like you two clicked really well. And your pickup was super dominant and on-point, which means she's going to respect the hell out of you early into the relationship. You're starting it off on fantastic footing. Maybe see her again and put her into the rotation if you decide she merits it.

radeng said:
It was my first SNL(same night lay) in a long time, I normally am a number date to get laid kind of guy, but I want to work more on SNLs. Hopefully adorable blonde responds as well. Hopefully I can keep this dominant confident frame going as a more permanent thing and continue to push on with more goals! I also want to start experimenting a lot more with physical openers and really fast escalation. Thanks for reading!

Cheers,
Radeng

Great going, Radeng. Really fantastic report, and wonderfully handled night out. Sorority girl trying to peel you off of Vet girl, and the RSD guys trying to change plans and get everyone going to another venue were two BIG curve balls that you handled really, really admirably - both of those were make-or-break moments that could've wrecked your night, and instead ended up most likely with this girl thinking you were the absolute man. No wonder it was like Niagara Falls when you got her clothes off - you earned it.

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Re: LR:A night out with newbie puas and the cute Vet Girl

Nice one man!

I'd like to get your opining guys on night/club game, it's been so long I haven't been there, but when I read your stories, they are always so crazier and funnier-sounding.

Two things keep me from going:
1. being very short, I'm always in the bottom 5% of height, and I've always felt that in such an environment... It matters (when I read about you picking her up, I always think "man, I couldn't do that not even if I wanted :D" )
2. the second one is age: in your early 30's, is still "ok" or would you stick out a bit like a sore thumb, especially in those college bars?
 
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