I don't usually do night game(third time in a club, fourth in a bar) but my boy invited me out last minute and I went with it and went out. This all happened in an hour arrived at the place around 12:40 something and left at closing so maybe around 2 or earlier I wasnt paying attention.
My Goals for the night were:
Ask for compliance
Use touch and get physical more
Maintain circle(the bubble)
Open one girl
So we met up with his coworker(not attractive to me), the girl that invited him out and we hit up Jillians to check it out and it was dead. She said her friend was having an event for her birthday we find the spot but can't get in cause its over capacity. We head to this other bar on the corner, we head to the back that was like a club and I really like the place. I could dance to the music lotta people my age and was free to get in lol. So now I'm gonna try fenway to party more.
We go in like i said, and it has a pretty large amount of people and it was deafening loud so I'm excited to go in and dance, I'm dressed to the T and catching as I'm walking around tryna find a spot to put down our shit I get some glances. So we prop our shit down and i let them go grab the drinks while i watch our shit. While sitting down I'm already vibing ready to go to the floor and i feel like women notice. Some black chick not my type came a few feet away with a friend and kept glancing at me then began twerking and dancing with her friend. I gave her a smile but not my type. They come back and i head off to see if i can find a better spot cause there were mad dudes just standing around not doin shit where we set our stuff and i didnt feel like watching it. Found a sport near a christmas tree mad visible, near the entrance way. Someone threw a drink at some chicks face... it splashed the back of my leg went over to the bar and asked the dude next to me if he could pass me some napkins. After that jumped into the crowd omw in a girl looked at me and we both held eye contact and smiled. I went further in and just started dancing. Danced with the coworker a bit, she broke me lol she was grinding that ass into me. I broke off from that and i just made my way around the dance floor, there were a lot of guys and groups of girls so i said fuck it.
There was a group of two dressed in black, both white and dancing ever so sexually. Their bodies were closed off in their own bubble I wanted to try anyway. Walked over for a sec to see if they'd open or glance but no they prolly saw outa peripherals. I was still dancing and one of them angled towards me so i tried to pull her ass into me and didnt work, maybe i could have been a bit more dominant? She was resisting so i let her go went back to dancin by my self. Danced more a bit finished my drink walked by this girl she glanced at me and i cupped her elbow as i passed and went to the bar. I really have no clue why i touched her lmao. Got my next drink and made my way back to the center and saw a group of three girls, one of them glanced at me earlier i think. As I got closer they opened up so i walked in and was dancing. I think i targeted the wrong girl. I got to the group and moved to the right a bit and traded places with the girl in the group and tried to get this asian chick to dance with me she froze up completely it was like she didnt know what to do it was pretty funny. I playfully kept trying and didnt work. Her friend to the left over and leaned into me and got placed her hand on my shoulder and spoke into my ear its "girls night" in a friendly tone. While she was doing this placed my hand on her hips and after she finished i looked at her smiled, shrugged my shoulders and went back on to dancing. I wanted to bring the party tonight, take the energy of the place and give it back. Maybe I could of said something to her and kept it going or something.
Stopped dancing a sec and sat on the side of the dance floor, leaned on the railing and kept noding my head takin a sip of my drink. Noticed a black girl looking at me looked at her locked eyes smiled and she broke to the side after a couple seconds. Went back to the floor and danced more. The place was beginning to close so got my shit and since i was near the entrance i decided i was gonna try to pull a girl verbally. This white chick was gonna walk by wasnt too attracted but i wanted to try. I stuck out a hand and waved it to get her attention and waved her over. As she was waiving she said I don't get waived over. I found it amusing so i put on a smile, shrugged and looked off towards the side. Maybe i could of said something else or made more of an effort to pull her in. My boys coworker was next to me when this happened an asked what she said i told her n that was it. Then as we were leaving a noticed in my peripherals a girl from a group of six looking at me, i decided not to approach it was a tight circle. Maybe I could of gotten more physical and pulled her towards me, i'll have to try something like that next time i go out.
I originally was gonna go out with the goal of getting laid but every time i did that an failed i'd feel awful so i just set some small goals since i knew getting laid wasnt realistic for my level of ability. There were other girls there and probably more opportunities to talk to girls that i either didnt notice or didnt take. Let me know what you guys think and any recommendations on what to do or try next time.
My Goals for the night were:
Ask for compliance
Use touch and get physical more
Maintain circle(the bubble)
Open one girl
So we met up with his coworker(not attractive to me), the girl that invited him out and we hit up Jillians to check it out and it was dead. She said her friend was having an event for her birthday we find the spot but can't get in cause its over capacity. We head to this other bar on the corner, we head to the back that was like a club and I really like the place. I could dance to the music lotta people my age and was free to get in lol. So now I'm gonna try fenway to party more.
We go in like i said, and it has a pretty large amount of people and it was deafening loud so I'm excited to go in and dance, I'm dressed to the T and catching as I'm walking around tryna find a spot to put down our shit I get some glances. So we prop our shit down and i let them go grab the drinks while i watch our shit. While sitting down I'm already vibing ready to go to the floor and i feel like women notice. Some black chick not my type came a few feet away with a friend and kept glancing at me then began twerking and dancing with her friend. I gave her a smile but not my type. They come back and i head off to see if i can find a better spot cause there were mad dudes just standing around not doin shit where we set our stuff and i didnt feel like watching it. Found a sport near a christmas tree mad visible, near the entrance way. Someone threw a drink at some chicks face... it splashed the back of my leg went over to the bar and asked the dude next to me if he could pass me some napkins. After that jumped into the crowd omw in a girl looked at me and we both held eye contact and smiled. I went further in and just started dancing. Danced with the coworker a bit, she broke me lol she was grinding that ass into me. I broke off from that and i just made my way around the dance floor, there were a lot of guys and groups of girls so i said fuck it.
There was a group of two dressed in black, both white and dancing ever so sexually. Their bodies were closed off in their own bubble I wanted to try anyway. Walked over for a sec to see if they'd open or glance but no they prolly saw outa peripherals. I was still dancing and one of them angled towards me so i tried to pull her ass into me and didnt work, maybe i could have been a bit more dominant? She was resisting so i let her go went back to dancin by my self. Danced more a bit finished my drink walked by this girl she glanced at me and i cupped her elbow as i passed and went to the bar. I really have no clue why i touched her lmao. Got my next drink and made my way back to the center and saw a group of three girls, one of them glanced at me earlier i think. As I got closer they opened up so i walked in and was dancing. I think i targeted the wrong girl. I got to the group and moved to the right a bit and traded places with the girl in the group and tried to get this asian chick to dance with me she froze up completely it was like she didnt know what to do it was pretty funny. I playfully kept trying and didnt work. Her friend to the left over and leaned into me and got placed her hand on my shoulder and spoke into my ear its "girls night" in a friendly tone. While she was doing this placed my hand on her hips and after she finished i looked at her smiled, shrugged my shoulders and went back on to dancing. I wanted to bring the party tonight, take the energy of the place and give it back. Maybe I could of said something to her and kept it going or something.
Stopped dancing a sec and sat on the side of the dance floor, leaned on the railing and kept noding my head takin a sip of my drink. Noticed a black girl looking at me looked at her locked eyes smiled and she broke to the side after a couple seconds. Went back to the floor and danced more. The place was beginning to close so got my shit and since i was near the entrance i decided i was gonna try to pull a girl verbally. This white chick was gonna walk by wasnt too attracted but i wanted to try. I stuck out a hand and waved it to get her attention and waved her over. As she was waiving she said I don't get waived over. I found it amusing so i put on a smile, shrugged and looked off towards the side. Maybe i could of said something else or made more of an effort to pull her in. My boys coworker was next to me when this happened an asked what she said i told her n that was it. Then as we were leaving a noticed in my peripherals a girl from a group of six looking at me, i decided not to approach it was a tight circle. Maybe I could of gotten more physical and pulled her towards me, i'll have to try something like that next time i go out.
I originally was gonna go out with the goal of getting laid but every time i did that an failed i'd feel awful so i just set some small goals since i knew getting laid wasnt realistic for my level of ability. There were other girls there and probably more opportunities to talk to girls that i either didnt notice or didnt take. Let me know what you guys think and any recommendations on what to do or try next time.
