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Having had a bit of success yesterday I was eager to get going again today. So after jumping in the shower, getting dressed and checking I've got the essentials I set off. The walk into town was quieter, I saw a few people on the way in and said hi to them to build up social momentum. I was feeling a bit lower than usual but I knew I'd be able to pull something off today even if it was a little flirting, everything helps.
Walking through the park I notice a cute Asian girl who'll soon be walking in the same direction as me. As she moves more parallel to me I open her by asking her directions. A new opener I've been trying out that leads onto a bit of role-playing. Unfortunately, I was lacking a bit in social momentum and trying too hard to be high energy, coupled with the way she looked at me, I get very far. Still I persisted a little, trying not to fall flat at the start of the conversation. I figured the opener wouldn't be taken well but I tried it anyway and she liked it... Surprising me. I then tried remaining high energy but she lost her attraction. Knowing the interaction was lost I tried a small cold-read to help place her accent. I guessed Chinese, she was South Korean.
I make it into town and take a little while to approach. I got a little stuck in my head, trying to figure out ways to be high energy. Ironically, I knew the solution but kept over-thinking it. After a few approaches I am not in the best of moods and I finally fall back on what I remember and start trying to do the right things to get me out of my rut.
I raise my voice when I start to approach, I try and put my attention on my body and how I feel. A few small things that usually help me get better results with women and make me feel better in turn. So a few more approaches and things are starting to turn around. A few girls are now stopping and I'm getting into conversations with them. I then hit a new road-block. No matter what I do these girls are losing their attraction for me. I've always had a problem with this and have only just figured it out. However, for the life of me I didn't do what I knew worked. Instead I kept doing the old things that rarely, if ever, worked. After a few more approaches in this weird state I decided to call it quits after an hour and a half. The last approach I made, before I started to leave, made me realise how sour I had gotten from the day. Ergo leave, calm down and try another day.
Here is where my day got more interesting. Getting lost in some music to release my tension, I get stopped by a charity collector. I don't really care about how well it goes and she's cute so, why not. She's quite happy and I'm feeling better after some therapeutic tunes. She starts trying to get me to sign up and I stop her by saying that I prefer having some lighter conversation than going immediately into being sold something. We start having some fun talking shit about what we've been upto and I start to do a little flirting with her. I use a push pull and it gets her more interested.
I'm enjoying myself and start to give her some mixed signals and she quickly moves the conversation onto her phone or clothes (I forget which one) and she raises her top to show me her clothes underneath. Giving me an opportunity to flirt.
She then starts to ask me a few questions about myself. So instead of avoiding them I give her lots of different answers so she has to wonder how I do so much. I then turn the conversation back on her and qualify her.
She continues to talk about what she does and doesn't like and she drops in the fact she's in her 4th year of medicine. I approve her for it and we talk about why she does what she's doing.
Whilst we connect, I deep dive her on several topics, lightly. I relate to her with similar stories and we just have fun talking about what weird things some people do. At this point I flirt even harder with her, using some push-pulls again and a couple of chase frames... She did mention she was having a bath later. This continues and she's laughing, having a lot of fun, participating in the flirting. I claim that we can't be doing this out here 'cause it's a public place and move in really close to her... Enhancing the sexual tension.
By this point I go in for her number, she can't make an instant date but she is pretty hooked on me. I grab her number and she mentions several time throughout the conversation that I've got to text her. I play it off a little, trying to seem on the fence still. She put her whole name in and then texted herself to make sure she had my number and then showed me it worked. So the numbers real... not that I expected any different after that conversation.
So from this day I learned and re-learned a few important key points that I keep forgetting and not doing. So I'm writing them down now to so I can't forget them. The best bit is, is that this is becoming more common an occurence having girls hook.
Walking through the park I notice a cute Asian girl who'll soon be walking in the same direction as me. As she moves more parallel to me I open her by asking her directions. A new opener I've been trying out that leads onto a bit of role-playing. Unfortunately, I was lacking a bit in social momentum and trying too hard to be high energy, coupled with the way she looked at me, I get very far. Still I persisted a little, trying not to fall flat at the start of the conversation. I figured the opener wouldn't be taken well but I tried it anyway and she liked it... Surprising me. I then tried remaining high energy but she lost her attraction. Knowing the interaction was lost I tried a small cold-read to help place her accent. I guessed Chinese, she was South Korean.
I make it into town and take a little while to approach. I got a little stuck in my head, trying to figure out ways to be high energy. Ironically, I knew the solution but kept over-thinking it. After a few approaches I am not in the best of moods and I finally fall back on what I remember and start trying to do the right things to get me out of my rut.
I raise my voice when I start to approach, I try and put my attention on my body and how I feel. A few small things that usually help me get better results with women and make me feel better in turn. So a few more approaches and things are starting to turn around. A few girls are now stopping and I'm getting into conversations with them. I then hit a new road-block. No matter what I do these girls are losing their attraction for me. I've always had a problem with this and have only just figured it out. However, for the life of me I didn't do what I knew worked. Instead I kept doing the old things that rarely, if ever, worked. After a few more approaches in this weird state I decided to call it quits after an hour and a half. The last approach I made, before I started to leave, made me realise how sour I had gotten from the day. Ergo leave, calm down and try another day.
Here is where my day got more interesting. Getting lost in some music to release my tension, I get stopped by a charity collector. I don't really care about how well it goes and she's cute so, why not. She's quite happy and I'm feeling better after some therapeutic tunes. She starts trying to get me to sign up and I stop her by saying that I prefer having some lighter conversation than going immediately into being sold something. We start having some fun talking shit about what we've been upto and I start to do a little flirting with her. I use a push pull and it gets her more interested.
I'm enjoying myself and start to give her some mixed signals and she quickly moves the conversation onto her phone or clothes (I forget which one) and she raises her top to show me her clothes underneath. Giving me an opportunity to flirt.
She then starts to ask me a few questions about myself. So instead of avoiding them I give her lots of different answers so she has to wonder how I do so much. I then turn the conversation back on her and qualify her.
She continues to talk about what she does and doesn't like and she drops in the fact she's in her 4th year of medicine. I approve her for it and we talk about why she does what she's doing.
Whilst we connect, I deep dive her on several topics, lightly. I relate to her with similar stories and we just have fun talking about what weird things some people do. At this point I flirt even harder with her, using some push-pulls again and a couple of chase frames... She did mention she was having a bath later. This continues and she's laughing, having a lot of fun, participating in the flirting. I claim that we can't be doing this out here 'cause it's a public place and move in really close to her... Enhancing the sexual tension.
By this point I go in for her number, she can't make an instant date but she is pretty hooked on me. I grab her number and she mentions several time throughout the conversation that I've got to text her. I play it off a little, trying to seem on the fence still. She put her whole name in and then texted herself to make sure she had my number and then showed me it worked. So the numbers real... not that I expected any different after that conversation.
So from this day I learned and re-learned a few important key points that I keep forgetting and not doing. So I'm writing them down now to so I can't forget them. The best bit is, is that this is becoming more common an occurence having girls hook.
Edd"... I cringe reading it, but I'm learning. I'll try again later but she's not the only number I've got.