A Quick Question - Time: Friend or Foe?

[NewBeeWinner]

Hey guys,

I've been posting a lot recently on here haha - too much good advice to not ask more questions!

Anyways, finals just ended on my college campus and we're going into break. I've met 5-6 girls just recently who I've gotten their number after asking them out for a coffee date. These girls in particular are leaving out of state to go home for the holidays. I got them to agree to going out after break (about 3 weeks to a month).

I will definitely do my best to approach girls over break outside of my campus setting, while working on improving various aspects of my life (my job, moving out on my own, etc.). But, with these girls, should I maintain a gradual text conversation with them over this break? Or should I only occasionally ping in and see how they are or just be completely silent until after the break?

What is your guys' recommendation? Personally, I'm not big into texting conversations - I'd rather interact in person. But let me know your thoughts!

As always,

NewBeeWinner

 

[Eliasmusic]

I travel a fair bit man, so I tend to have these types of interactions, and I find that having a nice text conversation occasionally (like once before seeing them) can be a good way to do things. If you had a playful initial approach, then goofy photos of you enjoying your holidays can always be good (snapchat?) Alternatively if they aren't super chatty on text you can just end the text convo with- "Anyway, enjoy those holidays and be prepared for possibly the best coffee of your life when you get back "

I wouldn't go dead silent. At least ping em a couple days before they get back
Elias

 

[Fuck This]

Yeah I'd let your Social media feed keep 'em warm if you have them on that. If they comment then engage them.

If home is not in your college town, and you are there for break, hit some night spots to meet other uni students home from school. There is high ONS potential if you have your logistics right. Don't fall back into your High school mindset, you have had a lot of exciting things happen in your life the last few months...Women are curious about what you have been up to.

 

[NewBeeWinner]

Thanks for the advice guys - I'll be keeping these things in mind!