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I went to a pub with my friend thus Saturday night. He told me it's his friend's birthday, and there's bound to be girls. Night venues aren't something I own yet, but I opted to go because I need to own them sooner or later.
I went there, and the birthday girl had my attention; beautiful eyebrows, sexy long hair, nice outfit, and beautiful tan. I had like 5 30-60 second interactions with her, asking her to get me a drink, joking about it being her birthday, being a chill guy- she didn't immediately yield to me though. I spent close to 40 minutes just vibing to the music and talking to this friend I came with. During that time, I asked her to dance, but I got nothing save for a compliment on my high energy.
After that, I took a break, when suddenly she asked me to dance, and things started getting better from there. I was exuding confidence in my little jokes and kino, and got a decent amount of attention (which I fended off in favor of being with her) from guy friends I made to her female friends. I made sure to lead her to sit with me twice, during which I got her number as I thought that maybe the birthday girl would want to stay up and party for longer than I intended.
It didn't happen that way- she asked if she and her friend could have a ride home with me (around 1am) and we left around 2:30. I dropped off my friend and hers, and asked to take her to my place: "somewhere beautiful to top off a beautiful day". She resisted but yielded. And so we cuddled out on the balcony, and I leaned in and got the kiss with some resistance that was easily swiped aside. After 10 minutes of making out, she said something like "what we're doing is real funny"- didn't know what to make of it then and I continued. I got her in my room, on my bed, and had a 15 minute make out- grind session. Weirdly, it was the first time a grind was not "reciprocated" from the girl. I planted my arm between her legs and pushed in her pelvis (one of my preferred moves) but still, all I got was initial resistance, then indifference. We stopped after a while- truth is, I was content with this much for today. But then she said "I'm so going to regret this"
Let me fast forward the boring stuff- I took her for a snack afterwards so she won't feel so harsh about herself, and the next day I took her with me and a friend shopping (needed some clothes). I stole a few kisses from her, but something was on her mind, and I could see it.
Today, I asked to see her. She told me what's on my mind, and I said I wanted to take her somewhere beautiful.. Referring to my room (need to continue escalation till the end). At this point she was all "okay I need to be honest with you" and went about saying how wrong she felt that she's afraid I might think she's an easy girl, that it's the first time she passes her limits with a guy this quick, with a little bit of "all you want is fun". (All text) I responded with a call asking her not to think of it that way, that she's better than that and she knows it, that I'm not judgemental so I don't mind if she "gave in" so easily, plus that I like her and respect her and I'd like to see where this is going, finishing with a request to get back to me about seeing me after a few days...
I just have a few questions:
What should I have said/ done on the first day, when she voiced her 'regret' at spending the night with me? (Mind you, she did say on the way back to her house that she loved it). And how should I have replied to her texts?
How should I have pursued the escalation further? I did my usual of neck kissing and kinoing but I couldn't go far.
I'm still waiting to see if she wants to see me again, and I'll update the story... For now, I want to know the best route of action for the next 50-60 times this will happen in my life
I went there, and the birthday girl had my attention; beautiful eyebrows, sexy long hair, nice outfit, and beautiful tan. I had like 5 30-60 second interactions with her, asking her to get me a drink, joking about it being her birthday, being a chill guy- she didn't immediately yield to me though. I spent close to 40 minutes just vibing to the music and talking to this friend I came with. During that time, I asked her to dance, but I got nothing save for a compliment on my high energy.
After that, I took a break, when suddenly she asked me to dance, and things started getting better from there. I was exuding confidence in my little jokes and kino, and got a decent amount of attention (which I fended off in favor of being with her) from guy friends I made to her female friends. I made sure to lead her to sit with me twice, during which I got her number as I thought that maybe the birthday girl would want to stay up and party for longer than I intended.
It didn't happen that way- she asked if she and her friend could have a ride home with me (around 1am) and we left around 2:30. I dropped off my friend and hers, and asked to take her to my place: "somewhere beautiful to top off a beautiful day". She resisted but yielded. And so we cuddled out on the balcony, and I leaned in and got the kiss with some resistance that was easily swiped aside. After 10 minutes of making out, she said something like "what we're doing is real funny"- didn't know what to make of it then and I continued. I got her in my room, on my bed, and had a 15 minute make out- grind session. Weirdly, it was the first time a grind was not "reciprocated" from the girl. I planted my arm between her legs and pushed in her pelvis (one of my preferred moves) but still, all I got was initial resistance, then indifference. We stopped after a while- truth is, I was content with this much for today. But then she said "I'm so going to regret this"
Let me fast forward the boring stuff- I took her for a snack afterwards so she won't feel so harsh about herself, and the next day I took her with me and a friend shopping (needed some clothes). I stole a few kisses from her, but something was on her mind, and I could see it.
Today, I asked to see her. She told me what's on my mind, and I said I wanted to take her somewhere beautiful.. Referring to my room (need to continue escalation till the end). At this point she was all "okay I need to be honest with you" and went about saying how wrong she felt that she's afraid I might think she's an easy girl, that it's the first time she passes her limits with a guy this quick, with a little bit of "all you want is fun". (All text) I responded with a call asking her not to think of it that way, that she's better than that and she knows it, that I'm not judgemental so I don't mind if she "gave in" so easily, plus that I like her and respect her and I'd like to see where this is going, finishing with a request to get back to me about seeing me after a few days...
I just have a few questions:
What should I have said/ done on the first day, when she voiced her 'regret' at spending the night with me? (Mind you, she did say on the way back to her house that she loved it). And how should I have replied to her texts?
How should I have pursued the escalation further? I did my usual of neck kissing and kinoing but I couldn't go far.
I'm still waiting to see if she wants to see me again, and I'll update the story... For now, I want to know the best route of action for the next 50-60 times this will happen in my life
