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A colleague of mind got married earlier this year.
He was a doormat, people can just literally throw him under the bus and he will not do anything. Afterawhile he became more independent, he knew how to protect himself. Needless to say, he has grown bit "backbone" to back his own ass up. The funny thing about this is that he marries a girl who's not really compatible with him. He kinds of being drag along by his wife.
I think that's the power of choice. You can learn so much in life only to throw it away to somebody else. I am sure he love his wife, but her dragging him along? IT goes back to one's own choice. Sure she might be "wrong", but There's a saying "Don't throw away the ability God has given you". You might be sarcastic and say he develop his own "backbone" personality, but yea Choice is what makes us all so different.
At the end of the day, your friends, myself, anyone can convince you, but really, the one who experience life is YOU.
You can learn so much only to throw it away. That's okay as long as it is your CHOICE. So, make your own, and lessen your whining on why women treat you like shit because you do it to yourself. It's just Choices. So far, he's not complaining, I am happy for him. Even if he did complain, i think i will smile, only, if i meet him.
Zac
He was a doormat, people can just literally throw him under the bus and he will not do anything. Afterawhile he became more independent, he knew how to protect himself. Needless to say, he has grown bit "backbone" to back his own ass up. The funny thing about this is that he marries a girl who's not really compatible with him. He kinds of being drag along by his wife.
I think that's the power of choice. You can learn so much in life only to throw it away to somebody else. I am sure he love his wife, but her dragging him along? IT goes back to one's own choice. Sure she might be "wrong", but There's a saying "Don't throw away the ability God has given you". You might be sarcastic and say he develop his own "backbone" personality, but yea Choice is what makes us all so different.
At the end of the day, your friends, myself, anyone can convince you, but really, the one who experience life is YOU.
You can learn so much only to throw it away. That's okay as long as it is your CHOICE. So, make your own, and lessen your whining on why women treat you like shit because you do it to yourself. It's just Choices. So far, he's not complaining, I am happy for him. Even if he did complain, i think i will smile, only, if i meet him. Zac
