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A Situation Just Got Really Interesting and Enticing...!

EdenSerpent

Space Monkey
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Just a little bit of background here: my friend and I are both 21, we've been friends for about 5 years and close for 2 of those. This girl is also above average on the religious scale. Also important to note is that I've never tried to seduce this girl, and would probably continue like this if not for some of these not-so-friendlike things that have been happening.

Now, I'm sure over the amount of time I've known this girl, I've done enough things to kill attraction as this girl wasn't even on my radar. I have been reading from girlschase for about a year and a half though, so I'm sure some of it has gotten through at some point. Anyway, we're driving home tonight, just talking about things, and we start talking about sex. She's not experienced obviously, being the wait until marriage type, but after a bit she REALLY starts opening up. She's had a boyfriend (who she'll probably push for marriage entirely too soon for such a young girl) for a little while now, and she starts talking about how easily she orgasms (apparently from the whole over the pants petting game). She's really shy about this because she's trying to assimilate this into her beliefs. Now at this point, she's definitely gotten my attention... Something about this whole innocence coming into herself thing, coupled with this frankly bizarre orgasm story, is making me REALLY want this. I want to capitalize on this situation.

Now, the obvious question: is she attracted to me? Who can say for sure, but I've got to assume yes, surely. She will occasionally bring up (by her own volition) how we could never date because of how different we are (and she's not wrong, as I'm actually little bit of a satanist, see username). I'm not seeing this as an issue, because at least that puts me out of potential boyfriend territory. I've learned to pay more attention to actions over words though, and her actions are telling a bit of a mixed story. We're often just friendly, but it's easy for us to touch and be close to one another. Probably more than most. Also, this isn't the first time this situation has happened either. Both times I can see her breathing deepen, eyes widen, and the way she's positioning her legs can only mean one thing. I swear, she's getting off on talking about sex with me so much that she's getting good and wet right there in the car. Hell, maybe that's whats catching my attention so much!

Edit: Just as an aside, she's well aware of my reputation and activities obviously, so I don't imagine a move made under the right circumstances and done properly will be too jarring

So what I'm thinking is this. I have to get her alone like this sometime in the future and recreate the intimate feel of a dark car ride home. Shouldn't be too bad. Some things that complicate the situation though is that I don't know if I can just go for a kiss 10 minutes into it like we've learned is best. Remember, I've got a long standing friend precedent. I should, however, be able to escalate our touch to the point of at least cuddling pretty easily. Secondly, I'm not quite sure about how to approach this religious thing! I've got pretty much nothing on that front, so input would be more than welcome.

I guess what I'm really looking for here is some opinions/advice on the finer points here. I'm thinking we just watch a movie at my place will let me escalate easily. Thing is though, eventually I'll have to address her objections. These will be as far as I can tell, in order: her boyfriend (who she won't so much as kiss anymore in fear of going too far...), her religious moralities, and thirdly (and least likely) the possibility that she's not attracted to me. The only reason I mention that last one is because, while I dress stylishly, I'm so clearly not the type she would go for, lifestyle wise or aesthetically (I'm the polar opposite of her big country boy). Now, I've been working on my fundamentals for a while now, so if she's still not attracted, I've got to alter something. So please feel free to offer advice, links, steps, or similar situations. Remember, nothing is impossible, and with our combined effort we can save a girl from herself (or at the very least give her such an intense rolling orgasm that it will knock that grade school shit into obscurity)!
 

Drck

Cro-Magnon Man
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Yes, take her to your place/room just as "a friend" (meaning no sexual intent), then once you are there talk about sex again. Then start slowly physically escalating. I'm only assuming that she will give you lots of resistance, so be ready for persistence.

She may push you away several times, and that's fine, just keep going (but clear NO is of course NO, don't be an idiot). There could be "breaks", just keep them short and friendly/positive. Then keep pushing forward. Touch her everywhere you can, and don't leave her pussy out till the end.

If it is too much for her she will excuse herself that she's go to go to her home, which is also fine, let her go. Don't get upset though, don't get angry or mad, it's ok, take it friendly and remain positive. She is totally free to leave.

She might be quite confused since you changed your behavior, so she may possibly contact you (e.g. text) and ask you for explanation (What was that about???). I wouldn't try to explain much, just something brief and vague. Something like "sorry, I got carried away". Avoid discussing any problem or difficulties, avoid everything that is negative. Don't talk about her BF or religion, no arguments and no logic at all. Just attitude: yea, yea, whatever, you are not telling me anything new...

If she'll keep persisting just keep hinting indirectly that you were thinking about sex, but don't make her feel sorry that she left. Don't make it 'her issue' - you wanted sex and that is your issue and your decision, and accept full responsibility for that (which places you on leading position). She was free to leave any time she wanted, and that is totally ok with you. (keep the texting at minimum as possible, only answer what you have to, don't switch conversation to anything else).

But you are not really sorry and you won't apologize for it as this is your new frame. Next time you will do exactly the same: You really want sex and she is free to join you - or she can walk away, which is perfectly ok with you... You are the horny and sexy guy who wants sex, and you will never apologize for the fact that she is sexy and attractive girl that you want to have sex with...

Also be ready that she may invite you to her place and fuck your brains out, which shouldn't be a big surprise...

So, basically she has the options to have sex that she desires with no consequences with person she knows for years, or she can walk away and still remain your good friend. What does she have to lose? Nothing. What can she gain? A lot...
 
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EdenSerpent

Space Monkey
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Hey, thanks for the feedback Drck. I'll definitely keep the focus on emotion and framing rather than logic. As for resistance, it could go either way. I'll just expect more and be pleasantly surprised ;)
 
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