A very dominant Alpha girl didn't show up for the date. should I meet her?

[razir110]

Hey everyone!

So long story short. I talked to this girl and got her number. I texted her and the number didn't exist. I saw her again 3 weeks later and decided to say hi. The conversation got rolling, she was very nice and receptive, so I used the set the date technique and then in a playful way asked for her number. She was apologizing all the time for our first encounter, I said she owned me no explanations and she liked my attitude.

The day before the date I sent her an sms to confirm it and got no answer. Next day I decided to go to the meting place anyway and when I got there she wasn't there. I texted her and she told me she texted me the previous day saying that she couldn't make it and asking to reschedule (however I didn't get this text. How likely it is for a text not to get through?). I called we had a short funny conversation and agreed to meet after Christmas when we are back in town (we both live out)

The question.. This all seems messed up. If she were that into me would she mess the date up? I mean yes it is possible that the text didn't go through, but she rescheduled! Does it mean there is no serious interest from her? Should I even meet her when I am back in town? Or is it all a waste of time? Can this be some sort of extreme testing from her? I presented myself as a pretty confident guy that has no problem to get rejected by women (at least in my perception).

Extra: She is VERY confident and she knows that she can get anything she wants from a man (I even mentioned this to her in a playful way) Honestly I never met a girl dominant like this! Like she calls all the shots I can see she is used to this.

 

[Alchemist]

I personally would drop this girl and meet 10 more girls who are really interested in meeting up with me.

Attraction drops off exponentially with time, and there's virtually no way that an SMS or IM is going to get dropped in modern times. She's confident, yes, and she's also a massive flirt who's loving the attention that she's getting from you and other men that's chasing her. First she gave you a fake number then she flaked on your date.

Of course you could still pursue her and manage to take her to bed eventually. But you have to ask yourself, is the time and mental energy (every time you think about her and think you're progressing) that I'm putting to this girl worth the chance of having something happen?

 

[Bboy100]

This girl is pretty disrespectful and clearly a dishonest, possibly manipulative person. Even if she is into you, I would move on.

 

[razir110]

Thank you for your input guys!

You know what, I really have to admit that honestly I enjoy the challenge of taking her to bed lol...

But I also appreciate your warnings. It is true that she seems to play games.. Perhaps the number and the sms story are true.. but very unlikely! So yes she likes to flirt and to get attention. Actually when we were talking every time I didn't want to tell her something she would get all excited and insisted a lot that I told her.

So I guess.. I will still go for one last shot here. It's fun! But I will be careful with her from now on.
You see, here I feel like I am facing the choice of being the proud guy and move on, but I also can see where this gets with no big drama for me. After all there is a good article on GC "When the girls flake" and it says something wise, that you will miss out loads of lays if you forgo her too soon.