1. Is a bad idea to ask about what she likes about you? It happened like this:
after some making out in bed
F: What do you like about me?
M: [some enthusiastic thing about her hobbies being awesome /cool so she is cool and then I say 'come here' go back to making out w/ her b/c I 'm trying to run away from the topic] -> I somehow regret this answer ---although it worked I think in situations where I can't makeout right after could be awkward after giving this response, I mean the content of what I said was weak/shallow and I think I got away w/ this b/c we were already making out
M: What do you like about me? <-- is it a shitty idea to ask her this?
F: [something about she likes guys of X race b/c of the way face looks, job I had (is displayed on the dating app), something something being gentleman]
M: [ignores it, goes back to making out w/ her so she can't see my reaction on my face]
Now see in this case it didn't matter so much b/c we were already making out and I could try to run away from questions by going back to making out but in other situations, you can't run away so easily if you haven't done anything physical yet. If I bump into these situations again, I might actually have to think of good answers. What might be some better answers that are not too long?
after some making out in bed
F: What do you like about me?
M: [some enthusiastic thing about her hobbies being awesome /cool so she is cool and then I say 'come here' go back to making out w/ her b/c I 'm trying to run away from the topic] -> I somehow regret this answer ---although it worked I think in situations where I can't makeout right after could be awkward after giving this response, I mean the content of what I said was weak/shallow and I think I got away w/ this b/c we were already making out
M: What do you like about me? <-- is it a shitty idea to ask her this?
F: [something about she likes guys of X race b/c of the way face looks, job I had (is displayed on the dating app), something something being gentleman]
M: [ignores it, goes back to making out w/ her so she can't see my reaction on my face]
Now see in this case it didn't matter so much b/c we were already making out and I could try to run away from questions by going back to making out but in other situations, you can't run away so easily if you haven't done anything physical yet. If I bump into these situations again, I might actually have to think of good answers. What might be some better answers that are not too long?
