Date Plans About Chase's Informational Dates That Goes Somewhere Process

[Witcher]

Hey everyone,

I was recently listening to an old GC product, seduction sensei(A great product by the way, very underrated IMO). In one of its many insightful conversations, @Chase explains to one student that he rarely does dates with a lot of venues changes and he instead had more success with Cofee/Launch with deep diving and chase framing then inviting the girl home between 1 hour to 2-hour max into the meeting and escalate.

This process is also described in more detail in Simplify You Dates. In this more exhaustive article, Chase calls it the "Informational Date that goes somewhere" which led me to a question.

Is this a very streamlined way of managing one's date? Like: all dates start as a "Short informational date". Then, if Logistics, time, and mutual attraction permit we pull the girl home, otherwise we end the date around 45 min - 1 Hour and either invite the girl for the second date if we like her or stop contacting her if we don't.

Your comments are all welcome
Thanks

 

[Witcher]

Guys would really love your thoughts on this.

 

[ulrich]

I tried this for a time. It is very streamlined and convenient but what I found is that many girls are not yet ready to go to your apartment after just two hours.

I could lead my way around that with confidence, get them excited and most of the times even sleep with them but there was a heavy buyer’s remorse effect.
It was a little too fast for them.

I don’t think its a universal thing... perhaps the girls where I live or the ones I date tend to be a little more conservative.

So I would say: YES, this works but take the “2 hours” and the “no venue change” with a grain of salt... and experiment for yourself.

 

[Witcher]

I don’t think its a universal thing... perhaps the girls where I live or the ones I date tend to be a little more conservative.

I also initially thought that this format was for girls who are less conservative or in less conservatives places. However @Chase did pick up and seduction all around the world. He doesn't seem (at lest from what I have read and understood) to chnage too much of his style based on the country. Maybe he choose well his girl or there is something i'am missing here.

So I would say: YES, this works but take the “2 hours” and the “no venue change” with a grain of salt... and experiment for yourself.

Adaptability is key I agree on that. However here The "2 Hours" and "No Venue Change" seems to be the keys to this dating style. So little bit confusing here.

What's your general dating processes? Uriel?

 

[ulrich]

@Witcher,

Well, my general dating process is:

Get a girls number from online or daygame —> Invite —> First date in coffe + deep dive (1.5 hours) —> Go for drinks + sexualization (1.5 hours) —> Nightcap at my place + escalation (15-25 minutes) —> Sex (if she stays for the whole process, 40%-50% of the times)


This process can get you sex consistently... if that’s what you want, you can use it. It’s field tested.

But honestly, I‘ve come to realize that I need to make changes.
Most girls I meet this way end up ghosting me... doesn’t matter if we have sex or not. My retention rate is terrible. And I don’t like that.

I think it boils down to what you want.

Are you looking for quick one nightstands? Go ahead.
Me... I’d prefer to have multiple girlfriends and the buyer’s remorse my girls get from going a little too fast it’s not worth it.

So yeah... too fast is a thing that can scare women... and two hours, while staying within boundaries, it’s close to the limit... so expect some volatility.

 

[Witcher]

@Witcher,

This process can get you sex consistently... if that’s what you want, you can use it. It’s field tested.

I think I'm going for it, retention rate is not my priority for the moment, even though it can be a very good side effect.

However I will need some follow up informations:

Get a girls number from online or daygame —> Invite —> First date in coffe + deep dive (1.5 hours) —> Go for drinks + sexualization (1.5 hours) —> Nightcap at my place + escalation (15-25 minutes) —> Sex (if she stays for the whole process, 40%-50% of the times)

Go for drinks + sexualization (1.5 hours) —> Go for drinks + sexualization (1.5 hours) —> Nightcap at my place + escalation (15-25 minutes).

Are these second and third dates or second and more venues?

How do you end the first date?

 

[ulrich]

I think I'm going for it, retention rate is not my priority for the moment, even though it can be a very good side effect.

However I will need some follow up informations:



Go for drinks + sexualization (1.5 hours) —> Go for drinks + sexualization (1.5 hours) —> Nightcap at my place + escalation (15-25 minutes).

Are these second and third dates or second and more venues?

How do you end the first date?

This is all first dates with venue change.
I try to get sex in the first day unless I get a súper clear signal that it’s not going to happen.

In case of any doubt, I keep moving forward and try to get the lay.

To end the first date and move to the next venue, I always end up the date at a high point. I pay for the first date, then girls will complain “Oh, you don’t have to pay form my coffee. We should go 50-50”... I say “Let me pay this, and you can invite me a beer next” then suggest a place to get a drink... after drinks I say “Oh, I’m so tired, we should go home... but before you go, let me take you to an amazing place with amazing nightcap drinks (my apartment)”