About Elite Eye Contact

[diegoC]

I found about elite eye contact by my own but I have always wonder something and I haven't found my answer in this post: https://www.girlschase.com/content/elite-eye-contact

While using this I know I'll be using my peripheral to see if a girl is looking at me trying to meet my eyes. The thing i wonder is:

• Should I make eye contact so I always catch her looking at me?
• As she has already looked at me (so she is chasing, she wants me to look at her), can I just look at her and wait till she makes eye contact

Thanks!

 

[Gamecrasher]

What I usually do is move my head slowly in her general direction, but I don't make eye contact with her. Instead, I look above her. By looking over her head, this shows power. And if you happen to see that's she's making eye contact with you, catch her in the act and smile

 

[diegoC]

I get your technique. What I usually do is catch her when I know she's looking at me (thx to peripheral). But I wonder, if i know someone is checking me, should I ALWAYS catch her (make eye contact) when she is looking at me? Perhaps, as she is looking at me, I know I kinda like her so I could just talk to her without catching her looking at me. What do you think guys?

 

[Light]

I get your technique. What I usually do is catch her when I know she's looking at me (thx to peripheral). But I wonder, if i know someone is checking me, should I ALWAYS catch her (make eye contact) when she is looking at me? Perhaps, as she is looking at me, I know I kinda like her so I could just talk to her without catching her looking at me. What do you think guys?

No. You don't have to always catch her. It matters little when you catch her. This technique just has a higher efficiency, but it doesn't mean you have to be the first to catch her. You will never be able to always be the first person to catch them. If you try too hard all the time you may come across unnatural... and its way too much work.

 

[diegoC]

... and its way too much work.

Exactly. If I catch her fine, if not I already know she is checking me (peripherals). I thought that Light, that if it was actually important to catch her it would be TOO mucho work. Thanks for clarifying it!

 

[Flames]

I sometimes deliberately don't look sometimes as it makes them try harder.

 

[diegoC]

When I started using elite eye contact (way before I found it here in girlschase), I discovered that girls use peripherals a lot! They don't use elite contact that much, because, they want to make eye contact with guys. They just look at and glance away. The girls look at everyone. They want to feel desire. But they are masters of using peripherals when they want to.

The advantage that we have is that we know how to use our peripherals. We are lucky that we know this technique because, when girls wants to look at someone that interest them they are experts at not being obvious (of course, there are girls that are way straight forward, but usually high-value girls, the really pretty amazing ones I hope everyone is aiming for, are not). Ever seen girls kinda hiding behind many people looking at you like they were spies? Or knowing that a girl is looking at you and having their friend try to catch you looking so they can tell their friend you are looking indeed? I'm pretty sure some guys here now what I'm talking about.

It's amazing, really! When you know about peripherals you start knowing when a girl is using her peripherals to catch you. She is close and you know (because you do it too) that she is seeing at you through her peripherals.

It's great knowing about elite eye contact. Is not only a tool for being a really high-value guy, is also a tool that helps you identify clearly when girls are using it on you.